Comments by "Janis Williams" (@janiswilliams2766) on "Glorious Life On Wheels"
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Social security was never set up to be the sole support for anyone throughout their retirement. People needed to make saving a priority and a lot of people haven’t and unfortunately a lot of people still don’t. Food banks that I was associated with required people to have a social security number, several forms of ID and the amount of groceries provided were dependent upon the household size. A lot of people I saw in the food lines given where I live, reflected the American majority demographic, men and women; quite a few with incredibly expensive and nice cars including one who was driving a cyber truck, several in huge escaladles, F150s, BMWs, Mercedes. Other food banks are supported by the community, donations and/ or churches etc where there is no legal status requirement for receiving food, the Y I go to work-out is in the inner city and they have such a food bank. All kinds of people come there, overwhelmingly they are legally here or are citizens. Immigrants are not sucking up your benefits. Most of them work and pay taxes yet won’t be eligible for social security nor most benefits, depending on your state. The monkey on most peoples back is poor financial planning in youth and continued frivolous spending without discipline.
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@deed421 there are a lot of systemic reasons why people of color are not in nursing homes. Yes some of them are cultural, where the assumption is that you will take care of the elderly. However to make a leap to assume that many people of color are taken care of by their families isn’t accurate. Many people of color have higher death rate and die younger not needing extended nursing care facilities. Why? Some lifestyle choices but much more do to societal oppression, lack of health care services, access to good markets and food, education and employment. Typically having less insurance coverage and income they aren’t going to have access to long term care as long term care is expensive. If in California they can maybe get into a medi- cal funded facility but those are typically so bad, statistics show that an elderly person is not going to last much more than 3 months.
People are making judgements about this man not knowing much of anything about him or his kids. I don’t know anything about him or his kids. But I do know, because of my field of work, family dynamics are complicated.
I’m not making these next statements about this man and his family … so do not take it that I am Making any connections to HIM.
Family backgrounds as I stated are complicated. You don’t know what adult children’s experiences are to their parents. If you have a healthy relationship and are in a position financially and emotionally to take care of your parents good for you; everyone should have positive experiences. Far more of the population than you know are abused adult children. Abuse can be in the form of sexual (yes incest is rampant in our society, it’s just not talked about), physical and emotional. Domestic violence is also high, again not something that everyone is out there talking about. Adult children might be making decisions and taking steps to try and protect their own children from the background that they have experienced. And if that’s the case good for them. Generational abuse is also a problem and unhealthy adults usually perpetuate the cycle of whatever abuse they have experienced.
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