Comments by "m2po" (@m2pozad) on "PsycHacks" channel.

  1. The so called 'A game' is a strong, homogeneous culture. Underneath that, the Japanese are oddly kinked in female submission. Never mind the ongoing collapse of the Company Man workaholic family structure, to the point of an insufficient birthrate to support their current standard of living. Japan is not heaven, by a wide margin.
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  2. Serial monogamy is looserville. We all ask our current partner about the number of serious relationships they have been in. We never feel that more is better. Let's be honest here.
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  3. Not realistic. Likes and dislikes are understood as expected in life, so we all just role along with the idea that adjustments can be made. Besides some decisions can be completely undone if things don't unfold as intended. Life is unpredictable. Pair up with those who are flexible. They are numerous.
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  4. Clearly this supposed male focus exclusively on sex is way off. Just because it felt that way from ages 14 to 21, and we didn't know what else to do with a girlfriend, doesn't mean we remained in that juvenile condition after we acquired sexual experience. We matured and moved onto companionship.
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  5.  @I-own-your-feelings  Really! With twenty-something women dressing as 13 y.o. school girls and rape-ish cosplay as standard cultural fantasy?
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  6. The successful jerk scenario automatically excludes the unsuccessful jerk from being a considered tactic. Those are just losers.
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  7. How can self-respect at any price not be called narcissism?
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  8. I'm so effing glad I've never needed to adopt this salesman's approach to companionship.
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  9. So... the economic model runs its course.
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  10. Nice to get beyond the standard, transactional/financial model.
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  11. Disagree. Most people don't know, nor don't give a twit, what your positions are. The one's who do, may be among the twisted trouble makers. Cain had mental issues. Misperceptions don't produce injustice and favoritism. Misperceptions become the rationale for retribution. Ultimately for being born inferior to others.
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  12. Interacting with people with specific intentions in mind always smells a little off. Intentions about another without their participation deserves to be ignored or viewed with suspicion.
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  13. The whole disrespect phenomena is only a societal issue for the black, inner-city, sub-culture, where a near total breakdown of larger cultural norms has taken place. Respect is intact in its proper dictionary definition throughout the rest of the nation, and the rest of the world, for that matter. Respect is not owed between peers, it is earned. Civility and politeness are owed.
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  14. What do women have to do with where men want to go, unless it's about becoming a parent? On the other hand, women are indispensable for experiencing the version of one's coupled self, found only in the 'us' entity.
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  15. I've have never had game. Mainly because I started out in life being friends with girls. I see the game they don't want to play as being the stereotypical- the male tells her how petty she is, attempts to impress her, and tries to buy her affection by providing goodies, status and fun. While she plays along and makes him feel worthy by giving sexual favors and admiration. Instead these women want more of a soulmate relationship, because it is very possible.
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  16. This analogy is flawed. The women in their 20's are in start-up business mode, just as the men are. This marriage situation would have to be represented as a business merger scenario to have any correlation to reality. Then there is the lack of chemistry pillow talk problem.
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  17. 😂
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  18. Inner-city male blacks hangout together all the time. Everyone knows how that goes.
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  19. He will now be expecting a sizable tip in proportion to your stated benefit.
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  20.  @Candlelight787  How one treats others is based on how secure one is in their own being. (Narcissists often compensate for poor self-image. Their confidence is a dazzling illusion, masking inner doubts. It’s like they’re hosting a masquerade ball, and we’re all invited—whether we want to be or not! -Copilot)
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  21.  @Candlelight787  If you ask Copilot, come back here and quote me back to me. And blast boundaries and the timidity of feminized social media. It had been and still is, about thriving through self-autonomy. Not bracing for endless defense of one's personal fragility.
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  22. "I find women bring me more happiness and joy when I remain single" Yes! Because... you belong with, Non-couplers. Only couplers belong with couplers.
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  23. To be fair- According to a 2015 Glamour study, 60.8% of women between the ages of 18 and 65 want to have sex three to five times a week, and 13% want to have sex more than six times a week. 53.2% of women in the study wanted more sex than they were currently having, but 46.8% were satisfied with the amount of sex they were having.
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  24. This sounds more like what blacks do to each other, not everyone else.
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  25. The basic problem with advice is that it comes from somewhere else other than one's personal track record of experiences.
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  26. Women behave so much better when men don't overtly pursue their own interests. Women want to wait and feel the vibe before responding.
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  27. Who the hell raised these boys to think like this?!? Deep state girl-world in full emotional brainwash mode.
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  28. This most certainly is not the history of romantic love, or courtly love, arising from the time of the Troubadours in the 1100s. Peasants and nobility did not compete for the same class of woman. The average peasant female of the time was no prize for any man. She was an unattractive, dirty, dullard with few attributes. Thus the need for dowries to get them out of their fathers' houses.
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  29. This is how it works- Transactions are the partnership portion. While interpersonal connection is the quality of the relationship, which is the emotional fulfillment portion. The Loving portion.
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  30. Boring people make for boring relationships. Boring people lack intrinsic motivations. Stay away from extrinsically motivated non-couplers.
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  31. A couple of decades ago the topic was not whether a woman could still reproduce at 40. The topic was much more about the rise in Down Syndrom at 38 and beyond. Fertility is tanking in western cultures and men are problem central. One word- Plastics. One more word- gay.
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  32. No, this did not fit with my experience or observations. Women have their own needs for companionship and story about romance. And they are periodically horny and in the market for relationship, so timing is a factor. I have had many 'go' signals from women, without me having any game whatsoever. Starting in the friend zone is a safe place to start. It's total bs that platonic doesn't shift to romantic relationships.
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  33. Men already do this in their man caves and garage shops. And the women already take up partial residence at the mall.
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  34. Yes! But what constitutes long-term attractiveness in her eyes was not covered. It's a growth connection. If a guy never learned how to understand and appreciate females platonically, her necessary personal growth will be stifled. She must get out, in order to fulfill her sense of who she is, and can be.
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  35. Yeah but... no. Sprucing up one's game with clothes and convo only gets guys dating. And it's there, where women are going to be scanning the guy's interpersonal skills, specifically his ability to attune to her and her to him. That's where the real emotional connection takes place or not, and where it all grows or fizzles. There's no school for attuning, either you can match her, to her satisfaction, or you can't.
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  36. Let's undo some of that secondary gain, shall we- Females can be such manipulative pains in society's ass!!
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  37. It is wrong to call porn, 'sexual opportunity'. Masturbation has never been a desirable alternative to a real, live female. And not only because of the obvious differences between fantasy and reality. But because there is no emotional gratification to be had from the fantasy. Female desire, trust and acceptance of the male supplies him with worthiness. Masturbation more often than not includes elements of unworthiness.
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  38. Did not watch most because I have my own version, which is- There is the partnership and within that is the relationship. Love is ideally in the relationship component but it is not essential. Lovers know who they are. It helps to be an F-type in the MBTI personality system. *Did watch after all. Yes. I know of what he speaks. Not really fond of surrender being called humiliation, but, fine.
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  39. Men prefer female companionship more then women prefer male companionship. Thus the female has an inherent advantage that surmounts all male advantages. Game over
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  40. Women are not ice-cold looking for extrinsic markers of success from men, because women are driven to be wanted. What they do with that drive could be seeking a meal ticket, but this fools nobody, and is not admired within the sisterhood. So it is a weighty disincentive for women to be behaving more like men.
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  41. 'Hater', is another black inner-city-ism which has far less application outside the black sub-culture painbody.
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  42. Because of the moving castle metaphor?
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  43. I've never had a loss with a female companion. We have always mutually benefited from the relationship. And I have been married a long time. Chemistry and quality attention are the key elements of female desire for connection. Her basic security needs, she can largely supply for herself.
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  44.  @tallspicy  So true. Being from a broken and dysfunctional family was difficult for me , but solid relationships with girls and women, who were securely attached, was a huge counterbalance. I am so grateful. Attachment Theory is incredibly important information.
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  45. Additionally- Anything resembling the so called patriarchy is the very opposite of men being 'large and in charge'. Rather, it originates with females shrinking away from the historical brutality, extreme danger and general rigors of primitive life. Historically, women have applied crying, and screaming and even fainting to convince men of their fragility, dependency and vulnerability. Then, when satisfactorily provided for, women reciprocated with the benefits of female companionship. The last vestiges of male provided security are being socially de-implemented. Kiss your male relevance good-bye.
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  46. True in the Christian sense. But this is Buddhist Psychology of compassionate intention. When there are functioning cultures and cohesive societies of like-minded people, this shared practice is a shared belief system that translates into shared caring, shared goals and shared outcomes.
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  47.  @ronmexico5908  Personal growth through companionship is very attractive.
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  48. Bible-izing modern world love is a stretch. As is putting the Troubadours in a time machine. Put down your history books long enough engage in firsthand experiences, then decide where your truth lies. Tell me about a love experience, then we have a debate. Without one we don't.
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  49.  @amiek9226  Orion’s detaching of the relationship from love is just a discussion technique, not an actual defined structure. Your marriage relationship and shared love are not considered exclusive. Now, he does take it further by defining love as being totally selfless in motivation. I get it, and have experienced creating distance strictly for the presumed potential benefit of another, where there remained the anticipated sense of loss and bitter sweet longing. But there’s no claiming by Orion that love did not exist until the act of self-sacrificing separation. As such, neither marriage nor Christianity require being defended from Orion’s psychological teachings. In my view and lingo, relationships are nested within partnerships. My therapist agrees. I think you will too. lol!
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  50. Anything resembling the so called patriarchy is the very opposite of men being 'large and in charge'. Rather, it originates with females shrinking away from the historical brutality, extreme danger and general rigors of primitive life. Historically, women have applied crying, and screaming and even fainting to convince men of their fragility, dependency and vulnerability. Then, when satisfactorily provided for, women reciprocated with the benefits of female companionship. The last vestiges of male provided security are being socially de-implemented. Kiss your male relevance good-bye.
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