Comments by "Kate S" (@KateeAngel) on "3 Things I Only Learned From Getting Divorced At 27" video.

  1. If I ever married, I would have everything independent, nothing shared.
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  2. Many people believe divorces are bad or that in "ideal" relationship break up and divorce would never happen. But ideal does not exist and humans evolved as serial monogamous species, which means one partner (not necessarily without infidelity) for some time, not for the whole life. So break ups and divorces are normal. One just should be prepared for them. If we teach people that divorce is "tragedy" or "disaster", people will treat it as such and thus it will really be so terrible. We should get rid of unrealistic overly romanticised view of relationship
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  3. I also believe dividing everything in half is a terrible idea.
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  4. Well, what if she did not? IMO every spouse should keep what he/she earned even if it is 100% for one of them and 0% for the other
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