Comments by "carcdg" (@callanc3925) on "Joe Rogan on The Importance of Being Kind" video.

  1.  Billy Bob  Thats where a distinction needs to be made between just being nice and being nice for your own advantage. When it comes to the whole "nice guys" thing, the only ones who actually get upset about women turning their niceness down are the ones who were being nice and expecting to receive something in return. Being nice for the sake of being nice is a good thing but being nice for your own advantage is just as bad as it is good
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  2. for example if I give money to charity because I want to help homeless people, thats a very kind thing for me to do. But if I give money to a charity so that I can improve my own image and look like a good person, sure it might help the homeless people in the exact same way but thats no longer being kind, youre doing it for yourself
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  3. I feel like thats more of a being shocked by unnecessary socialisation than being surprised by kindness. People these days, myself included, will often try to avoid someone they loosely know just to avoid having the awkward conversation with them
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