Comments by "Gareth Hart" (@tgheretford) on "Legion Of Men" channel.

  1. His video aged like fine wine.
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  2. Attractive men don't have to ask women out. The rest don't get to play the rigged game.
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  3. "The worst she can say is no". A survey from DatePsychology who is a content creator on this platform found that 1 in 5 women would report a man who approached them to an authority figure such as the Police, a bouncer, security or an employer. Not a case of all women will but any woman can. The worst that can happen is that you get a criminal record, your name is mud socially and your life is destroyed.
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  4. No-one will be able to afford the fees. It's happening now in the UK where you have to pay and it's simply out of reach for many (there is no NHS for care).
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  5. Single women do not want relationships - non-feminist women too. They're still on the dating apps but want validation, attention, experiences and money while waiting forevermore for the high status and tier men. Regardless if they've been never married, live with their parents, divorced, single mother, career woman or so forth. The women who want relationships are already in them, met their significant other when they were young and have been in them for a while. For a middle aged single man still looking, it's either adultery which is immoral or embrace solitude. It's that bad.
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  6. Marriage is the only legally binding contract which one side can break and be financially rewarded for doing so.
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  7. Dating as a male autistic introvert...
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  8. Something the self-help gurus and life coaches need to understand is that you can't fix genetics at the gym or by touching grass. The second genetics comes into the conversation, cognitive dissonance via the concept of the "blank slate" begins.
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  9. Funny how the BP keeps being proven right in many cases - not the nihilistic part of it, but many of the theories that continue to match the peer reviewed findings of evolutionary psychology.
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  10. All the BP is, outside of the nihilism, is a realistic assessment and observation of reality.
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  11. If you have to compensate women not finding you naturally attractive with being nice or leading with your wallet, it never started for you. Attraction is not negotiable. In the same way that you have universally attractive people, you also have universally unattractive people and one way they compensate is by being a "nice guy". If you have to be a "nice guy", you've already lost the game of life. Brutal but reality I'm afraid.
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  12. The problem with the black pill is that when anyone discusses it, they immediately assume it's nihilism and therefore dismiss everything said. The funny thing is, the black pill knowledge out there has got closest to what scientific findings there are on human nature. If we could take the knowledge and reality while getting rid of the nihilism, we'd have a stable foundation for men to learn from.
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  13. It's not a case of not caring about the rest, it's the case that they deem them creeps and sexual harassers whilst demanding society and lawmakers do something about them. Why would a man make a rational decision to cold approach someone that could destroy their life if they are offended and report him to his employer, post about him on social media or report him to the police?
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  14. Most people can't afford to rent on two incomes, never mind own a home and that's before anyone considers having a child. Also, single women don't want relationships. They're still on the dating apps but hook-ups and situationships are becoming more normalised. There are many more reasons, this issue is complex and nuanced.
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  15. The fact that more and more men are waking up to just how perverse the financial model of dating apps have become and how they're designed to keep you single for profit, warms my heart. Hopefully this is the beginning of the end for the for-profit apps.
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  16. And to make money, they have to keep you single. Two people who meet and start a long term relationship means two less subscribers and two less points of data for data brokers.
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  17. From studies, we know that autistic men are 30x more likely to be chronically single compared to the rest of men despite only being 1% of the population. Something about autism seems to instinctively put women off them.
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  18. Their business model requires you to remain single in order for them to remain profitable. In complete contradiction to what they claim to be for.
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  19. Introverted, shy, social anxiety and autistic. Now there's a combination.
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  20. How does the gym and touching grass change your genes and DNA? Self-improvement can only go so far.
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  21. "Nice Guys" are what we now call involuntary celibates. Who are some of the most despised individuals in society bar the most heinous of criminals.
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  22. They don't even get to start.
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  23. The one thing Government will never allow is house prices going down. Voters who own housing including landlords and more likely to vote will vote out that Government in fury at the ballot box. In the UK we're seeing reforms to our property tax (Council Tax) which since the rate-able values based on 90's housing prices compare to house prices now will leave people in massive shock at the huge increases in bills they can expect when they land on the door mat. Even in the cheapest parts of the UK.
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  24. I'm seeing a lot more videos from men and women denouncing the perverse financial model of the dating apps which is good to see. Unless someone makes a not for profit dating app, finances it via a crowdfunding platform and funded via (non-intrusive) ads/donations and not sell out to Match, online dating is finished. I saw this coming at the end of 2016 when I quit them for good.
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  25. In terms of nice guys, they are no longer finishing last. That would assume that they can still attain a relationship. They are not finishing now. From anecdotal experience, as women age, their expectations and standards get stricter and they will adopt the "I'd rather be single than settle" mindset, become a single mother with a donor, adopt a pet or seek a woman for companionship instead. If any do have a relationship with a man, it will be with a previously divorced man with relationship experience and social status. The age of "beta bucks" is dead.
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  26. I'm not approaching someone in case they get offended and report me to my employer, post about it on social media to get people to ID me for attention and shaming or report me to the Police (in the UK, officers are posted in bars and nightclubs for this very reason). Not worth potentially destroying my life over. Increasing numbers of women demanded men leave them alone so I respect their wishes. This is a case of reap what you sow. My sympathies are with the women who don't think this way but they'll generally either be in long term relationships or you have no way to tell from anyone who would be proactive in reporting you.
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  27. Being a "nice guy" is a strategy that is adopted by men whom never had a chance in the dating market where a man leads with his wallet or niceness before the inevitable fallout and destruction of social status. In the same way you see male feminists adopt the "sneaky f-er" strategy coined by Professor Gad Saad. Where said men getting involved with feminists and saying the right things before the inevitable accusation of harassment or worse. If you have to adopt such a strategy, you lost the game of life and are universally unattractive to women.
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  28. Even the younger single women don't want relationships. The women who did are already in them. The single women on the dating market want validation, attention, experiences and money while they wait for Chad.
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  29. You'll like the UK. Such content is going to end up being effectively banned by July and eventually banned outright. Alongside every outlet for men outside of a relationship in a private residence. Back in history, the only men who would be in this predicament (bar being down 20k) would be neuroatypical men who had no hope and monks whose ability to not allow their innate biological desires to figure in their lives were in monasteries. Now, increasing numbers of men are finding themselves out of options and this will only grow. Close off all avenues where men have nothing to lose and I will end up fearing for society.
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