Comments by "Gareth Hart" (@tgheretford) on "Louis Rossmann" channel.

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  31. The problem with self-help gurus and commentators is that they aim for the highest bar. We're talking top tier of muscular strength, CEO, hottest partner and so forth in short time with easy sound-bytes and a claim of a guarantee of success if you do what they do. Except that will guarantee a 100% failure rate for the vast majority of men because it omits realistic expectations. But the alternative doesn't get clicks, subscribers and revenue. Worse still, they will sell you programmes that are designed to fail because you won't meet the goals they set which means they will blame you for your failure to succeed and up-sell more expensive programmes. The patio door is a realistic goal that will help you on the road to success. The equivalent advice from self-help gurus and commentators will be to buy a electronic powered door with a usher in your own self-built skyscraper. Unless you're a billionaire, it isn't realistically going to happen. Failure is a learning experience. The one thing is where the risk of failure is too great. I wouldn't fix my own gas boiler because my house would explode and I'd be breaking the law. Can't learn from your experience if the result is fatal. The reason why increasing numbers of men don't approach women now is because if a single woman feels distressed or offended by your approach or even your presence, you can be reported to the police. Failure there attracts you social media shame, a knock to your social status and potential consequences for your employment and even getting a criminal record. Failure won't be fatal here but it is life-changing and too much to lose if you approach the wrong woman. Same with marriage, increasing numbers of men are taking a logical risk vs reward judgement and are deciding that divorce is not worth the risk for the rewards they could acrue. The problem with advice nowadays is that it is too optimistic to the point of being delusional and is devoid of the realistic expectations of each individual which will be different based on a number of variables. There's a reason why Dr Jordan B. Peterson tells men to "clean their room" not "own the world" as their first step toward self-improvement.
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