Comments by "chimneysway" (@chinmeysway) on "7 Stages Of Detoxing From A Covert Narcissist" video.

  1. how to recover when they take your child and move out of state, then later do it again, no warning, as they reach adulthood, manipulating them and you (me the father), sabotaging the relationship and emotionally abusing a really amazing young person. if only narcissism was the reason. sure of course it’s fitting when you’ve been deeply screwed over. looking at narc for helping piece things together seems like a desperate ploy for answers. we need help to grasp how this could happen. but it’s oversimplification of character with added confirmation bias i feel like. so no…it’s just that humans are terrible complex beings oft the time. some dsm disorder can’t really save it as reason. it almost justifies things really. it doesn’t go anywhere. there’s no narc laws and we treat it like they’re powerless over their behavior. manipulation is abuse. there is only therapy. and even then. i’ll never know if i’ll see my son again. just be very very careful w who u deal with/ get involved with/ marry etc. there’s some really messed up ppl and they aren’t honest w themselves. it’s super common.
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