Comments by "Vic 2.0" (@Vic2point0) on "Trad Wives u0026 Girl Bosses Go to WAR!" video.

  1. I'm with the tradwives. My wife and I have lived this way for 17 years (14 with a son) and we're both very glad we did! As for being "financially independent", it's time to admit there's no such thing. Whether it's a husband, an employer (who's usually a male), or customers (if you run your own business), you're going to have to do for others if you want money. But a traditional husband is socially expected to actually care about your well-being long-term, while an employer isn't.
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  2. Nothing wrong with trad wives being "influencers" either. You should promote something if you think it's the better way. So long as it doesn't interfere with your role of taking care of the home and any children you have, it's not just okay but commendable.
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  3. There's a difference between a simple stay-at-home wife and a traditional wife. Tradwives believe it's their role to take care of the home (cooking, cleaning, decorating, etc.) and any children they have. Also common for them to homeschool whereas an employed mother doesn't. So they're going to put way more effort into homemaking and caretaking of the children than a woman working several hours a day elsewhere. "Grit, hard work, and ambition" are all fine and good, but where to aim all that is the topic.
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  4. The tradwives are right. My wife and I have lived this way for 17 years (14 with a son) and we're both very glad we did! As for being "financially independent", it's time to admit there's no such thing. Whether it's a husband, an employer (who's usually a male), or customers (if you run your own business), you're going to have to do for others if you want money. This means everyone submits to at least someone, and employees in particular submit to tons of people all the time. But a traditional husband is socially expected to actually care about your well-being long-term, while an employer isn't.
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  5. "It makes your child more likely to enter and stay in an abusive relationship." They never give studies to back this one up! But I would say that a woman wanting a traditional marriage will be especially looking for a traditional husband type, one who believes it's his role to provide and protect. And in general, there are ways of vetting someone for abusive tendencies before you marry them. Ironically enough, courting (a very traditional concept) is ideal, because you ask the important questions right away on the first date, instead of waiting until after you've "falling in love" with them. The modern approach to dating facilitates getting married to someone you're not compatible with.
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