Comments by "rokko" (@rokko9195) on "The Japan Reporter" channel.

  1. The lesson here, is never buy expensive gifts for women. that's true in every single country on earth. also, there are decent people everywhere, and terrible people everywhere. it's not always easy to tell them apart, and different culture makes it even more difficult.
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  2. It’s the same story over and over. Modern people have unrealistic expectations and don’t take marriage and parenthood as serious as they should. Unfortunately, divorce has become the easy way out, despite being terrible for the child. Also, it should go without saying, but people in the porn industry are not marriage material. they belong to the streets.
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  3. Do not agree with that last part. Marriage isn’t just about being happy. That’s a very low bar and shouldn’t be the goal. It everybody quit everything when they simply became unhappy, nothing meaningful would ever get done.
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  4. Fantastic video. children definitely need a mother and a father to become balanced people. unfortunately, state support of single parents exacerbates the issue. especially women choosing to leave fathers because the state will support the mother and child. it's truly a terrible problem at the root of society. It's nice to see how these men grew, accepted, took responsibility and chose to do the best for their kids.
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  5. i didn't even know the term "ghosting" until I was studying in Japan. it's absolutely dispicable behavior, and it has become more common elsewhere too.
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  6. stop with the "you do you girl" nonsense. have higher expectations for people and don't give shitty behavior a pass. it's good that you can recognize the shallow "brand fever" though.
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  7. If you think Japan is, you’ve never been to South Korea. Lol Japanese culture appreciates natural beauty and imperfections. But there are always bullies unfortunately.
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  8.  @Skapo  you want to live in fantasy land. where everybody is happy and can do whatever they like without consequences. that's not the real world, and that's not what drives and motivates humans.
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  9. having a child is a natural expectation of being married. It’s one of the foundations actually.
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  10. So happy to read the comments! Enough people have finally opened their eyes to terrible outcomes of diversity and replacement.
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  11. the ol' Catch 22
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  12. you should definitely judge others for their choices. you also didn't mention some of the worst consequences, which is likely mental health. also, a man will never want to marry a prostitute or porn actress. and her past is definitely his business if you're considering a future together.
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  13. I don't think anybody should be allowed to use the Internet before the age of 25. It is literally poison to young minds. Keeping your kids off social media is the best thing you can do for them.
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  14. This is a good point. It's true in basically every country and culture in earth.
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  15. I think baldness is not that frowned upon in Japan. It's quite common and maybe only the youngest girls care about a man's hair that much. I have been to Korea too, and being bald there is way more detrimental. haha
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  16.  @bobbruce4135  you're views are completely upside-down. it's the seeking of only "hot romance" which is the death nail in traditional relationships and marriage.
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  17. She is cute, but that fake laugh is incredibly annoying. Porn is terrible for society, and the people in it of course.
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  18. those words don't mean exactly the same thing in other languages. like when they say 'oniisan' in jpn or 'oppa' in korea... the closest translation is 'older brother' but it's also used for people who have a close relationship but are not blood related. such as significant others. I guess english has something similar in that we say 'father figure' which is an older wiser man, and 'father' or 'daddy' has made its way into porn.
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  19. can''t blame the father or men forever. at some point (long past due) one has to take responsibility for their own choices.
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  20. also, it's not even that weird. in english for example the term 'daddy' is used. that is used for a father figure or fatherly man. as in, an older experienced man. not one's actual father.
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  21.  @manicdemise  mannerisms are one thing. And it’s common to present yourself a little different in a foreign language. But that is not a Japanese accent, and you wouldn’t lose your mother tongue accent for likely your entire life.
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  22. Yikes
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  23.  @Spanish_Patriot  you guys are idiots. for one thing, it's obviously not pedophoilia as this girl gone through puberty. in addition, 'daughter' is just a translation of むすめ (musume) and these words like "oniisan" and in korean "oppa" don't necessarily mean blood relative. in many asian cultures the terms that we would translate as 'brother' 'sister' 'daughter' etc are used more broadly and with people whom are close. they don't have to be related.
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  24. He's saying if you dress like a Japanese business man, people will ask if you live in Japan, and assume you have some language skills. Where as if you dress casual (like Joey) they rightfully assume you're a tourist and will be surprised by any Japanese language ability.
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  25.  @Wealllovekaira  thats too many single parent households. and even if their isn't a legal system for split-custody, the parents should work together to do that themselves. for the sake of themselves and their children. as a father myself, i must be a part of my child's life. nothing else is acceptable.
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  26.  @crashrobot35  even as a friend, wouldn't you want the best for your friend? i never understand this view, that being a friend means blindly supporting everything they do. a friend should be the first one to call someone out on their poor choices or actions. they may not like you in the moment, but they'll likely thank you in the future.
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  27. Yes we all know that. Nobody cares.
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  28. At least she seems honest with herself. But she is naive. No self-respecting man will ever love and/or marry a girl who has done porn. Many women are too late in realizing they want love, or a stable relationship with a future. They waste their best years chasing excitement and experiences and end up sad and alone. I wish they would share that with younger girls.
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  29. @14:45 she completely missed the point of Nobita’s concern. Also when he asks if she thinks porn is damaging to society, she just brushes it off. All these porn actresses have never had a deep discussion or thought about how different things affect society. “Oh it’s just as easy thing to blame” they always say
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  30. much has been said about the strict work culture in japan and I can completely understand people's needs to release that tension. However, when Nobita brought up real relationships and marriage, she claimed she didn't think it's necessary and that the declining rates of relationships and marriages in Japan isn't a bad thing in her view. I'll be blunt, I think she is lying to herself. She is already too old to have these views, and she will come to that realization soon.
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  31. Sometimes the holier-than-thou is entirely warranted, if you want to enjoy the benefits and comforts of a civilized society. Murder, rape, sex in exchange for money… there is zero moral conundrum here.
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  32.  @alexsanchez1081  nobody really thinks that. it's just that they're lazy, like to make excuses, and lie to themselves and everybody around them hoping to feel comfort. they're usually pretty unhappy people.
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  33. People should not make money off of sex. It’s as simple as that. Anything else Is immoral and deserves all hate, consequences, etc. people in the industry should be shamed at every given opportunity. It’s not hard to understand or a difficult subject.
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  34. she is so dense she doesn't even realize how she has ruined her own soul. she will likely regret all the people she hurt in her twilight years. or maybe not, there are a lot of sociopaths out there.
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  35. Men and women different. Thats not an excuse to not pitch in, but it’s still true and will be a rude awakening. Did you know there have been studies that prove a baby’s cry has a vastly different affect on a man’s brain vs a woman’s? And women get angry for always being the one to comfort crying baby at night. Most men just get annoyed with the sound, it doesn’t spark some natural instinct to comfort. The key is, communicate but temper your expectations.
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  36.  @gaiuszeno1331  excellent answer.
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  37. It is sad. But don’t feel bad for them. I generally don’t feel bad for people who make poor choices in life. Even if they can’t immediately see the downside, hopefully in the future they have enough introspection to realize what they’ve done to themselves. The best thing we can do is not waste our thoughts on them, but instead reward quality people with our time and attention.
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  38. In regards to dating. It’s quite different where the foreign partner is a man or woman. Nobita thinks Korea is more open, but that’s only true for Korean men. And even then, they just want to ‘try out’ a foreign girl. Korean women an insanely frowned upon in society if they date a foreign man. As a foreign man, dating in Korea is complete garbage. Even though English is better, and even if you have good report/make a connection, chances are because of family and society pressure, the girl will not date you. Japan feels much more open in this regard.
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  39. @Rudy O'Brien lots of good content on Rumble and other platforms. I wish more youtube creators would make the jump or at least post on multiple sites. Google is ideologically corrupt and doesn't stand for American values, despite being an american company.
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  40. What?
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  41.  @Evil_Beauty  yes, they are choices. Obviously. If one doesn't understand the value or purpose of marriage and children, then I don't know what to tell them. Live a selfish miserable life on the internet? Lol
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  42.  @Maru96  I sincerely hope you get a few more years of life experience before trying to engage with people on the internet. In the mean time, take a break from social media and the TV etc and go live in the real world. Cheers.
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  43. if you think motherhood is a scam, you are well and truly lost. it's the most beautiful and important role of mankind. sorry you fell for the lies. take some time out and think critically.
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  44. Clearly you don’t know what wholesome means. Lol
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  45. I could not care less, what a prostitute thinks. People (especially young people) need to understand that sex is part of bonding. That's why people who have only 1 partner can form a lasting bond and live a fulfilling life with their husband/wife. The more sexual partners one has, the less able they are to bond, and the chance of divorce goes up exponentially. That of course leads to a lonely depressing adult life... which is a huge problem in Japan, and in western countries these days too. Focus on 1 person. Make a family. Work through your problems together. That is a good life.
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  46.  @Wealllovekaira  my comment was just kind of general. not refuting anything you said. you do make a good point about why this kind of issue isn't covered or talked about much. good thing we have Nobita making quality content.
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  47.  @blahblahgdp  not surprised. it's like all those, "men die in war, women hurt most." or "men lose everything in divorce, women most affected" kind of things. lol. they're naturally selfish and solipsistic.
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  48. it never seems like these girls are honest with themselves or their answers. i guess that's most girls in general. they give the answers they think others want to hear. they convince themselves they didn't make a terrible choice and sacrifice their future. you should interview some older girls and see how alone they are and what terrible people they've become. even with them, it'd be tough to get an honest answer though. they won't want to admit they ruined their own life. often the older one's turn into bar help or a recruiter finding younger girls just so they can get a paycheck. no self-respecting man would ever date a porn actress, let alone marry or have children with one. they're used up, delusional, damaged people.
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  49.  @foobar1979  very true!
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  50. FAX
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