Comments by "VoidX" (@aus-li) on "Why The Far Right Are So Weird About Sex | Decade of Hate" video.

@andrewjones575 This is not true at all. I’m genuinely a nice guy and have talked to many girls.
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@andrewjones575 You’re wrong my dude. I’m a nice guy and have talked to many girls. Literally all you have to do is be yourself. Sure, being confident and having some charm will help you, too, but it comes naturally. My social skills got better in college, and near the end, I never had to force myself to be a certain way around girls, or even got nervous by taking to them.
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@andrewjones575 Most Incels are socially inept and are creepy, though. I lost my virginity at a late age according to society, and I could’ve lost it at a very early age. But I wasn’t interested in anyone, literally all I wanted was someone I could connect with and have genuine feelings for. There’s so many options to hook-up with someone using dating apps or going to a bar and club. All you have to do is hold down a conversation and flirt with a girl by telling her she’s “beautiful” or “cute”; everyone loves to be complimented. Or, you know, you could take your time and find someone who appreciates you for being you.
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@maritxm Nothing. But everyone is desperate these days to lose their virginity, so it’s not even that hard to do so.
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@andrewjones575 The more people you interact with, especially at a social gathering, will help you gain charisma. No harm in trying. Also, being outwardly negative and saying "there's no chance for me" will not help your situation. I'm honestly trying to help, and this is coming from a dude who was socially awkward around girls for most of my life.
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@willldo4 I'm a short dude and I can say, for the most part, girls don't really care about your height. Some do, though, but that's normal, because preferences are a thing. Even if I'm short, I don't mind tall girls. My gf is taller than me.
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@LFSPharaoh Was I supposed to say the opposite, lol? That I’m rude and like to talk down to them? Because there’s unfortunately a lot of toxic males who can easily do that. I meant what I said. I “say” and “do” things that I feel, is considered “nice” (or gentlemanly) in the moment when I’m talking to a female, especially if I like them.
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@Will-lh2ce You have to talk first before getting to that point, obviously.
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@usualdosage7287 First off, I don’t think you’re an incel. As I said, girls love to be complimented. Saying they're "cute" or "beautiful" once you get to know them through a couple of conversations would definitely help know you're interested in them. Of course, they're all different, while some like you to say it off the bat, depending on the context. Some girls like when you're playing it "coy" with them, or acting as if you're not interested in them (that's how so many girls were interested in me...at least I think). Developing your own fashion sense also helps, but then again, most girls don't care about that stuff, same with not being fit or buff (girls like a little fat, lol). You just gotta feel the vibe. Another thing is cologne, maybe look into getting a fairly expensive brand, like Burberry or Versace (I think it’s a good investment). Better social skills is really where it's at, cause better understanding social cues helps your situation with getting a girl's number or inviting them on a date. So yea, just be yourself is the main point! You’ll find the right girl for you eventually, it sometimes takes time, but it’ll happen.
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@willldo4 Where do you live?
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@andrewjones575 I mean, getting rejected is a thing. Although I was the one who rejected girls. That's why charming them will help a lot, along with some confidence.
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@painunending4610 It’s “trial and error”, I never said it was easy.
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@painunending4610 I meant for "hooking up". It's at least easier than putting effort in. Snapchat and FB dating, especially.
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@painunending4610 y'all have cognitive distortion, lol.
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