Comments by "sunnymas" (@sunnymas2656) on "Feli from Germany"
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Dating women in germany, is too difficult for me.
I expected, it is easier in the USA ?- But now, it looks more difficult in the US, as in Germany.
And i hate it, if someone try to "play games" with me.
Even, if she "needs" it, to become in a relationship.
If a woman say "No" = it is a No for me.
If a woman has no time for a date - three times - so I quit the contact. It looks, that she doesn´t want me.
One person said in the internet, an US-Woman would say "No" up to 16 times - but she wants this man.
This is a kind of "playing games" , what I cannot understand.
So I quit dating women, and deleted all my profiles in the internet.
I live alone, but in peace and harmony. Because it is easier.
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In Germany, they expect a message or a phone call latest next day after dating.
If not, it looks like they don´t want it anymore.
If the person want split paying at a date, it looks like the person don´t want to meet you any more.
A "rule" in germany: The Man pays all at first date. The woman pays all at second date.
I also want to be best friend to the woman.
But then, you are a friend only. You cannot get more.
= you are in the "friendzone" trap.
So I must decide: To be her man, or her friend only. I cannot get both.
I had the chance to marry a woman in germany, three times.
But they doesn´t matter, which man.
Just only, not to live alone - having children - have Someone, who must pay all.
Love is not necessary for that.
50 % of all (married) couples in germany - not because of love.
But I don´t want to miss love, in a relationship.
No matter, if love has become "old school."
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Mark W The tradition for paying for the woman, has it´s reason, that women had mostly less money earnings, than men.
Now the situation has become better, for the women in some businesses.
So they are independent from men´s money.
And if the woman want to show this, by paying for both at Datings - let her do.
I had a Date, and the woman finally wanted to pay for herself. (Because she don`t want to meet me any more.)
But I paid for both, to show her, that I am really interested about her.
Nice try - but no success.
Next time, I would she let pay herself.
But I would ask her, if she don´t want to see me any more ?
So I know, whats happend.
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My money income in germany is too small.
I learned many qualifikations, but get low job offers or payment, as i would not learn or train anything.
They want all my qualifications, but no fair paying.
ie fulltime-job, but I would get only 5-6 hours/day paid.
And some only want to pay the law minimum.
Or expect, that the gouverment should pay me.
my Quali: Industriekaufmann, EDV, EDV-Technik, gutes englisch, Technik + -handwerk.
ie full time job = 1.200,- Euro / month net only.
One company offers me a qualified halftime-job in their office.
But no payment, and no contract = work for free.
I have made a qualification in doing health care at home.
in german: Häusliche Pflege.
One company offers me a job for this.
Much Work as needed, 30 miles driving to the jobs, own car needed.
But no payment. Maybe some money for the petrol/gas ?
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I fix car and motorcycles, even engines, since 45 years.
You can smell it at the oil, if you need an oil change.
I do it the german way, or less - never got problems.
Even no problems with cheap engine oil.
I do a full car service every two years. Just before the safety check.
I have a car service light in my car. I delete it.
But I think, it is made by my car manufacturers, to make more money.
And to be shure, that the car works any time. For people, who don´t know about cars.
I didn´t have seen oil change lights in our cars in germany.
I think, it´s made for the oil industry, to make more money.
All spare parts I buy it by internet, or at independent dealers.
It is a lot cheaper, as at the car shop of the (german) brand.
An oil change at a BMW car, was very expensive at a BMW brand car shop. (Contract dealer) for $ 200.
At an independed car shop - half price only - same job - includes the same synthetic oil.
If you drive a german car, you get lock-in by very expensive spare parts. (And bad made cars)
Japanese cars are the best, ie Toyota, Honda and Subaru.
I drive a german car (Opel Astra G, station car) because I got it for free. And it´s very reliable.
But it is my last german car, to buy for.
I have an old Opel Kadett station car, made 1989.
It is soo easy and cheap, to fix it. I can fix all, at this simple car.
It has an automatic transmission made by GM. But it was made for bigger cars, so it works allways and forever.
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A single cat, inside only, can get ill by depressions.
For inside only, minimum two cats required.
german animal shelters gives minimum two cats, if inside only. And no cats there.
And cats only, who were lived inside only.
It is very important, if the cat lived also outside, he get a new home, who is inside/outside possible.
You can get a cat like this only, if this is possible at your home.
It is a risk, that the cat could never come back home.
ie get hitted by a car, or other reasons to die for.
My cat got hitted too, and very injured, but she came back home.
I took her to the vet, and nursed at home, to become healthy again. it worked.
A neighbour cat came to our house, inside of our house roof, to find a comfortable place, to die for.
So his owners must not see, their lovely cat die or dead.
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