Comments by "sunnymas" (@sunnymas2656) on ""Мы эксклюзив?" - Знакомства Различия США против ГЕРМАНИЯ | Немецкая девушка в Америке" video.
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Dating women in germany, is too difficult for me.
I expected, it is easier in the USA ?- But now, it looks more difficult in the US, as in Germany.
And i hate it, if someone try to "play games" with me.
Even, if she "needs" it, to become in a relationship.
If a woman say "No" = it is a No for me.
If a woman has no time for a date - three times - so I quit the contact. It looks, that she doesn´t want me.
One person said in the internet, an US-Woman would say "No" up to 16 times - but she wants this man.
This is a kind of "playing games" , what I cannot understand.
So I quit dating women, and deleted all my profiles in the internet.
I live alone, but in peace and harmony. Because it is easier.
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In Germany, they expect a message or a phone call latest next day after dating.
If not, it looks like they don´t want it anymore.
If the person want split paying at a date, it looks like the person don´t want to meet you any more.
A "rule" in germany: The Man pays all at first date. The woman pays all at second date.
I also want to be best friend to the woman.
But then, you are a friend only. You cannot get more.
= you are in the "friendzone" trap.
So I must decide: To be her man, or her friend only. I cannot get both.
I had the chance to marry a woman in germany, three times.
But they doesn´t matter, which man.
Just only, not to live alone - having children - have Someone, who must pay all.
Love is not necessary for that.
50 % of all (married) couples in germany - not because of love.
But I don´t want to miss love, in a relationship.
No matter, if love has become "old school."
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Mark W The tradition for paying for the woman, has it´s reason, that women had mostly less money earnings, than men.
Now the situation has become better, for the women in some businesses.
So they are independent from men´s money.
And if the woman want to show this, by paying for both at Datings - let her do.
I had a Date, and the woman finally wanted to pay for herself. (Because she don`t want to meet me any more.)
But I paid for both, to show her, that I am really interested about her.
Nice try - but no success.
Next time, I would she let pay herself.
But I would ask her, if she don´t want to see me any more ?
So I know, whats happend.
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