Comments by "Adam Kidd" (@AdamKidd1972) on "Legion Of Men" channel.

  1. Exactly!!! I always clear out the "trash," whether it's toxic relationships, bad habits, or unnecessary drama, is essential for living a peaceful and fulfilling life. Keeping things simple and focused helps create room for what truly matters.
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  2. I notice life is much simpler overseas away from the drama.
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  3. In Thailand family takes care of family with no old folks homes for the locals unless they are rich. Your parents raised and took care of you, isn't reasonable to help out in return when needed? Yes it an unwanted burden but its just the way of life. They have nursing homes for expats which are 10 times better than America and cheaper. Countries know expats usually have more money so it is in their best interest to properly take care of you for as long as possible. Some people may say this is a bad thing but compared to options back home is it? Places like Thailand can provide top quality health care for less money. You have people who visit Thailand just for the medical cost aspect vacationing and healing before going back home saving a ton of money compared to America even without insurance coverage. Do your own research to see what options are available to you with Hospital listing the cost of procedures in their country with some having a medical visa option available to foreigners.
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  4. Twas the night before Christmas, in a village so still, A farang and his Thai wife planned goodwill. No snow on the rooftops, no reindeer in flight, Just stars softly twinkling on a warm tropical night. With baskets of rice, and some blankets to spare, They packed up their tuk-tuk with love and with care. “To the homes of the needy,” the farang declared, “Let’s bring Christmas joy and show them we care.” At dawn, they set out, their hearts shining bright, Giving gifts to the poor in the soft morning light. No fancy displays, just kindness and cheer, To make the day brighter for those far and near. By evening they rested, their hearts full of grace, Knowing they’d spread love in this faraway place. So in Thailand, remember, it’s not gifts or display, But the joy of giving that lights Christmas Day.
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  5. The hardest thing to learn is becoming your own hero. Government, society, and women today are making it harder on men in the western world. I don't have what's called a good day anymore due to my ongoing blood clot disorder that has a 50% death rate. Just some days are better than others. Most days I force myself to get out bed making the best out each day. I just know lying in bed pitying myself will kill me quicker. No matter how hard life becomes you must keep fighting until your last breath. I moved to Thailand in 2013 for the lower medical cost. Each new day I consider a blessing overseas. I am now happily married enjoying more life for less money in the land of smiles. Change for the better only happens when your willing to fight for a better life. Have the courage to change your fate never giving up on yourself.
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  6. Look, I believe in a Creator—I just don’t claim to have all the answers. Through my own research, I’ve realized that faith is personal, and I don’t need a building to have it. I walked away from church because of the toxicity. Too many “Sunday Christians” act holy inside those walls but live differently outside them. And don’t even get me started on the hypocrites who love to tell you how to live while ignoring their own sins. That’s not what faith should be about. Even if you’re not a Christian, the Bible has some solid life lessons. But at the end of the day, who am I to judge anyone? No one is perfect—we can only try to be better than we were yesterday.
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  7. One thing that remains true since the start of our nation. " United we Stand and Divided we Fall " Our forefathers would be ashamed of how far America has fallen.
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  8. I am a generation x who moved overseas in 2013 seeing the writing on the wall. I had escaped the madness before it took hold. Sadly the craziness exceeded my expectations. The struggles people face back home is horrendous today.
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  9. When learning to fly you must let go of things weighing you down.
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  10. Its always best to settle down overseas taking the time to meet the right partner in person. Many scammers on dating sites so be very careful.
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  11. Living in Thailand since 2013 I find life so much simpler away from the drama back home. If possible escape the madness discovering the happiness you deserve in life. Go create a lifetime of amazing memories instead of dying full of regrets.
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  12. I am 52 never had a use for dating apps always meeting people in public when I was single. However I am overseas away from all the drama back home. You can easily escape the madness by getting yourself a passport living overseas.
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  13.  @reverendx4ever  If your young have savings doing remote work online while overseas. Most expats retiring have the resources needed to live overseas. You would do well to listen to this mans advice.
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  14. Some people burn themselves feeling the heat before they touch the flame.
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  15. Like you I want to continue to work however I developed ongoing health problems retiring early. I enjoy watching people discover their happiness overseas. Its like a kid in the candy store having plenty of money to spend. Be careful when dating the Filipino women since divorce is very hard to obtain. You don't want to get blackmailed, in trouble with the law, and there is an old law were the husband can kill you if caught in the sack with his wife. Just take your time and find the partner never rushing. Chances are you might never get caught but there still is a chance. Don't trust my word and look it up online yourself. No matter where you visit overseas always do your homework.
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  16. Gentlemen get your passports and find you a good women overseas living in her country.
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  17. Everything changes for the better overseas.
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  18. 80% of people don't care either way. The other 20% finds joy in your misery. It's not the worlds fault for your poor choices in life. Your happiness is your responsibility alone. Older single men can still create a family if wanted with a younger woman. A dried up prune that's single has no value unless a desperate man wants to dust out the cobwebs. Whether a man or woman don't cry victim if you wasted the gifts given with having no more options left.
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  19.  @unholyalmond  That is the beauty of Thailand. A place you can thrive instead of trying to barely survive.
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  20. Legion of Men" is about becoming the best version of yourself—focused on self-respect, emotional resilience, fitness, financial independence, purpose, and building strong relationships. Its better than Billy Bob the simp who can't control his emotions. Chill out and relax my friend. Enjoy life while letting others do the same.
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  21. All we can do is wake up each day working on becoming a better version of ourselves. When things become hard don't give up on yourself. Don't compare your growth to others since every person is different. Remember success is paved with the failures of people who didn't give up on their dreams. I was diagnose with a life threating blood clot disorder. It change my world but didn't let it control my happiness. I am currently married living in Thailand enjoying more life for less money. If one door closes prepare for the next one to open. The key is to keep searching looking for opportunity leading to a better life.
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  22. I agree a passport is a mans best option these days. Sad to say but its the biter truth.
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  23. If you like spicy food you can find meals for 20 baht or 58 cents. Its usually different soups you can eat for that price. Thailand has plenty of healthy foods to eat for various prices depending on your budget and taste. Street benders I recommend eating where you see many locals buying from outside of the main hub. Usually has lower prices and less chance of getting food poisoning.
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  24. Despite our current advancement we probably know less than 1% of what our world and the universe can teach us. The truth discovered never should be hidden cause of personal interest or greed. Humanity is more focus on hate and controlling others than the betterment of mankind for a brighter future.
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  25. I say move to a country where their culture aligns with your values. Its your responsibility to adjust to their culture.
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  26. Traveling since 1993, I agree one million percent with Legion of Men. A person must spend some time traveling or living overseas to understand the differences. My quality of life has greatly improved living in Thailand since 2013 never wanting to go back home. I am happily married enjoying more life for less money with having no worries in the land of smiles. The peace of mind I have found is a priceless gift beyond imagination. It wouldn't surprise me if some people will try pointing the negativities that can be found overseas. Just understand no where is a perfect paradise having its trade offs. I much rather live in another country actually thriving creating a better life for myself. I am too busy enjoying life to seek out the negativity found in the world. The horror stories you hear about overseas come from people making foolish choices. Every person circumstance is different with you choosing the best path to walk in life.
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  27. My Grandfather once told me to find a woman who keeps your belly full and your balls emptied. I will add if you want happy marriage overseas is the answer if you work on yourself. I am happily married in Thailand since 2013 with my wife taking care all of my needs without asking. We own our house, a car, and two motorbikes living a debt free lifestyle saving more money than I spend monthly. Overseas you can create live you deserve without all the problems found back home.
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  28. I don’t align myself with any movements because people are quick to label others. I’m just a simple man enjoying the life I’ve built in Thailand. I tell men that they are responsible for creating the life they deserve—don’t complain about the problems you allowed into your life. Most complaints or horror stories come down to poor choices. A Thai partner shouldn’t expect you to take care of her entire extended family, except in emergencies. Personally, I’ve helped in situations like paying for funerals, rebuilding a house after a fire, and supporting my Thai sister-in-law, who has terminal cancer. I always verify stories before offering financial help, and I’ve learned the importance of saying no when necessary. Preparation is key to building a better life overseas. If you can’t find happiness abroad, it usually means the problem lies within you.
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  29. I rarely ever drink which others think you are weird. Improving yourself is lonely path until find others you vibe with with similar ideals. Real friends will encourage you do better with never trying to drag you down in life.
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  30. They go to a country were good women are still seeking marriage. Then they complain the hookup culture has slim pickings or paying them for their time.
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  31. Your experience overseas will be base on your mindset and values. The lifestyle you seek will determine your monthly budget. Learn to enjoy your yourself instead of trying rush through life. Everything usually works out in the end even when things move at a slower pace. No matter where you live there will always be a trade off. Before moving to a province in Thailand, I made sure they could manage my ongoing medical problems. He meant 22 Celsius which equals 71.6 Fahrenheit. There are places in every country I would call my no-fly zones. You're responsible for adjusting to another country. I will say the provinces in the Philippines are less developed when compared to Thailand. I could compile an extremely lengthy list on the positives and negatives found overseas. Its always best to perform your own research since everyone's expectations and values varies. There are more positives than negatives found in a non-western country. I tell people never allow a few minutes of negativity to ruin the rest of the day. The goal is to enjoy more life for less money without any drama.
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  32. The thing with women overseas like the Philippines or Thailand, they will chase after you no matter how you look . Most foreign men are desired for their stability and they usually treat them better. Just be careful, have fun and enjoy life. No matter were you live never think with the little head be smart without regrets. Overseas you will have plenty of options just be a good person :)
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  33. As a man you have to become your own hero in life. No is coming to rescue you in your time of need. People back home will leave you to be devoured by the wolves. That why its so important to surround yourself with people you vibe with while kicking the trash to the curb. Work on improving yourself never letting anyone destroy your peace. Spartan challenge is great for men who have lost their direction or having someone holding you accountable to your goals. It will show the way but you have put in the work yourself. Anything worth having in life takes serious effort to obtain. There is no magic pill in to make your life easy. Learn to live life with no regrets having the courage to improve yourself.
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  34. Qualities of a good woman: 1. Loyal and Faithful Stands by your side, even during storms. Doesn’t entertain attention from other men if she's committed to you. 2. Honest and Transparent Tells you the truth, even when it’s uncomfortable. Doesn’t play games or hide things behind your back. 3. Supportive Believes in your goals and encourages you to pursue them. Shows up when it matters, especially during hard times. 4. Emotionally Mature Handles conflict with calm and reason. Doesn’t let her emotions dictate the relationship. 5. Respectful Respects your boundaries, opinions, and time. Treats you and others with kindness and consideration. 6. Kind and Nurturing Shows care through her words and actions. Has a natural warmth that brings comfort and peace. 7. Positive Energy Uplifts the people around her. Doesn’t thrive on gossip, drama, or negativity. 8. Values Herself Has self-respect and doesn’t settle for being mistreated. Takes care of her physical, emotional, and spiritual well-being. 9. Grows With You Willing to learn, improve, and evolve as a partner. Sees the relationship as a team effort, not a competition. 10. Financially Responsible Doesn’t expect to be taken care of, but appreciates your support. Can manage her life without relying on material things to define her worth. 11. Humble and Grateful Appreciates the small things you do. Doesn’t act entitled or make everything about her. 12. Feminine and Peaceful Brings softness into your world—not tension. Comfortable in her womanhood without trying to overpower you. Only the right woman leads to putting a ring on her finger. Dating may be fun, but commitment should be earned. A good woman doesn’t demand a ring—she inspires it.
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  35. A man wiling to suffer for the win is unbeatable in life. Go create the life you deserve.
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  36. If lady luck allowed these women to marry their perfect man they will still find a reason for a divorce. If you meet a women overseas that reminds you of the ones back home. RUN AWAY!
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  37. Many men have the chance to build a great life overseas, but they bring the same bad habits, poor decision-making, and unrealistic expectations with them. Instead of adapting, they fall into the same traps—whether it’s overspending, choosing the wrong partner, or not doing their research beforehand. Moving abroad isn’t some magic fix. It’s an opportunity, and like any opportunity, it requires discipline, planning, and the right mindset. Those who take responsibility for their choices and adjust to their new environment tend to thrive. The ones who don’t? Well, they usually end up with the same complaints they had back home.
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  38. Back home I never had a problem meeting women, just not one I wanted to marry. I guess traveling since 1993 overseas spoiled me showing what we were missing back home. In my 30's I was diagnosed having Lupus with Catastrophic Antiphospholipid Syndrome which made life very difficult. My parents raised me right so I took care of them until they passed away before starting my new life. In 2013 I finally moved overseas at 41 years old never looking back mainly for the lower medical cost. Living more life for less money with a wonderful wife is the perfect lifestyle for myself. Everyone should at least explore all their options before checking out of the world. If you are unhappy back home I am sure most men can work on themselves finding an almost perfect paradise overseas if wanted. If I was still back home now with the high inflation and medical cost you would probably find me dead in a tent somewhere. We all have our problems in life its how we deal with them that will determine who you will become. Don't become a victim of circumstances if you have the power to change them. In life you have fight for your happiness becoming your own hero.
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  39. The next President can overturn all of Trumps executive orders, etc...
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  40. The red flags are relatively easy to spot in Non-Western countries. It's your fault if you end up in a miserable marriage or dating the wrong woman. Take your time to meet the ideal partner never rushing to find love. Stay away from paying women for bedroom favors. If a man pursues the kitty instead the heart your doomed to failure no matter where you live. Traveling since 1993, I have seen plenty of foolish men making poor choices. I am currently happily married in Thailand enjoying more life for less money. Make sure to work on improving yourself fist. Conduct research on the laws, culture, scams and places to avoid before making the move overseas. Everyone is responsible for creating the life they deserve and no one else's responsibility.
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  41. Escape the madness finding a good woman overseas. You should always work on yourself first before getting in a serious relationship. Some men marry a working girl wondering why they're unhappy. Having a weak foundation your home will always crumble. Take the time to a build a better life for yourself being happy with no regrets for less money.
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  42.  @unholyalmond  A place where you can actually thrive having peace of mind.
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  43.  @samroche5140  Yep
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  44. Sex has never been free no matter where you live. Choose to invest your money wisely my friends or suffer the consequences.
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  45. Sprinkle Sprinkle??? Is she trying to sprinkle pixie dust to manifest her perfect man???
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  46. Living overseas you can have love in a traditional marriage. Just remember everyone's definition of love varies. Take your time to find the right partner in life. A couple both needs add value to a relationship growing old together. Find a balance were you can love while being true to yourself. If you are happy who am I to judge your life choices? A man has two heads with one heart knowing which one to use when exploring your happiness in life. Know thyself and prospering in life is a never ending journey.
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  47. I went overseas for the right reasons—creating a better life with my wife. I have been traveling and living overseas for almost 32 years now. From my own life experience, you can believe in Legion of Men. Don't copy another man's lifestyle completely; just incorporate the advice that works for you. With the right mindset, all those Western problems disappear overseas. First, create the life you deserve, then take your time finding the right partner. You won’t be disappointed following the guidance of Legion of Men. Moving to Thailand was one of the best decisions I ever made. It all starts with working on yourself, doing your research, and choosing the right country. The majority of complaints about living overseas come from men who made poor choices. If you go to another country for the right reasons, you will not regret it.
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  48. Lucky you, Jack probably likes and watches your channel. 🤣
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  49. I keep my marriage spicy by dating my Thai wife on regular basis. How to maintain loyalty and faithfulness in a relationship? You both make the choice to love and commit to each other every day.
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  50. The thirsty men gives other men a bad name who go overseas for the right reasons.
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