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A man who doesn’t put in the work—on himself and his research—deserves the outcome he gets. Too many guys head overseas blind, thinking their foreign status alone is enough. Then, when they make poor choices, they blame the woman instead of holding themselves accountable.
Let’s be real: A woman overseas can smell a Simp like a piranha smells blood in the water. If you come in desperate, weak, or throwing money around without standards, you’re setting yourself up for failure. These guys give women the power to make their lives miserable, then act shocked when it happens.
I’ve been commenting on this for a few years, and I hope more men listen. The ones who go overseas with the right mindset—who build a life first, take their time, and find a woman with shared values—are the ones who thrive. But sadly, only a few actually do this.
At the end of the day, stop complaining about problems you allowed into your life. Own your choices, do your research, and create the life you deserve. If you don’t, you’ll just be another cautionary tale.
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When BO was walking in the park, I was imagining the beauty of the fall colors around mid-October. Places to explore in Bucharest are The Kretzulescu, Antim Monastery, Arch of Triumph, Casa Capșa Hotel, CEC Palace, Charles de Gaulle Square,
Cișmigiu Park Bucharest, Herăstrău Park, House of the Free Press, and The Kretzulescu Church. Visiting some of these places in the proper season will increase your visual experience. Any festivals or events your viewers may enjoy. I am certain your partner may have a few suggestions. Just visit places when you have the time. Simple videos on daily life in Romania can motivate viewers showing the difference. In general they are way to many positive things to focus upon instead of the negativity overseas. I always tell people never let a few minutes of negativity ruin the rest of your day.
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She was burning sage and lost me with the Tarot cards. The cards upside down have the reverse meaning, but most of them were out of focus, rushing things too quickly. Next video, she’ll use the Ouija board, asking spirits for advice for men. Putting your faith in this type of stuff will leave you very disappointed.
I believe in the fate created by my own two hands, and it hasn’t failed me in 52 years. Success comes from effort, preparation, and smart choices—not from cards, boards, or whispers in the dark. Waiting for signs and messages instead of taking action is a sure way to stay stuck. Life rewards those who make their own path, not those hoping the universe will do it for them.
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I started seriously traveling in 1993. In 2013, I got married in Thailand and am currently living a good life. I can confirm almost everything that Legion of Men talks about on the channel. Of course, there are some minor nuisances (opinions) based on individual experiences, but overall, the core message is accurate.
I saw Skylar DeRouen's video, "The Truth About Polish Women and Passport Bros; Legion of Men is Wrong," where he contradicts Legion of Men's argument. Personally, Skylar isn’t someone I’d recommend watching when considering travel or moving overseas. His perspective doesn’t align with the reality many of us have experienced.
A lot of men end up being passport simps overseas, chasing after the same type of women they were trying to escape from. Pay-for-play isn’t a win in my book. The goal should always be to create a better life than the one you had back home. Finding a good partner in another country takes time and patience. Not every country will be the right fit for you for various reasons, which is why it’s important to work on yourself and do your research. Keep traveling until you find a place where you're treated the best.
I agree—many men go overseas for the wrong reasons, which ends up giving good men a bad name. No matter where you live, the better version of yourself you present, the better your options become. When you truly improve yourself, you don’t have to chase a good woman. They will genuinely be interested in you.
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Twas the night before Christmas, in a village so still,
A farang and his Thai wife planned goodwill.
No snow on the rooftops, no reindeer in flight,
Just stars softly twinkling on a warm tropical night.
With baskets of rice, and some blankets to spare,
They packed up their tuk-tuk with love and with care.
“To the homes of the needy,” the farang declared,
“Let’s bring Christmas joy and show them we care.”
At dawn, they set out, their hearts shining bright,
Giving gifts to the poor in the soft morning light.
No fancy displays, just kindness and cheer,
To make the day brighter for those far and near.
By evening they rested, their hearts full of grace,
Knowing they’d spread love in this faraway place.
So in Thailand, remember, it’s not gifts or display,
But the joy of giving that lights Christmas Day.
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The only person who can fill that void within your heart is yourself. Once you commit to fixing yourself, you begin to recognize your true worth. This journey often means letting go of people who no longer align with your growth or even changing your environment entirely. Growth isn’t always comfortable, but it’s necessary.
Go where you are valued, where your presence is appreciated rather than tolerated. Surround yourself with those who respect you, uplift you, and encourage your progress. The wrong people will drain your energy, keeping you stagnant in their misery, while the right ones will inspire and push you forward.
Remember, self-worth isn’t about arrogance—it’s about knowing what you bring to the table and refusing to sit where you're not welcome. Life is too short to waste on those who don’t see your value. Choose peace, choose growth, and most importantly, choose yourself.
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People simply want to thrive, not struggle to keep up with inflation and the toxicity that seems to be everywhere. I moved to Thailand in 2013 because I didn’t like the direction everything was heading back home. I saw things getting worse over time, and the crazy part is, they’ve far exceeded my expectations—at a lightning pace. Living here, I don’t deal with the constant drama that’s so common back home. It’s been a relief to step away from that.
Of course, I fully understand that nothing in life is guaranteed. We all have our own struggles to face, and things don’t always go as planned. I have a few escape plans in place just in case things change, as I know life can throw unexpected curveballs. The sad part, though, is that some people have been knocked down so many times that they never manage to pick themselves back up. It's heartbreaking to watch. Life can be tough, and not everyone has the same tools or support to recover from hardship. That's why I believe it’s important to find peace and build resilience where you can.
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Survival training is quickest way to get a man in touch with primal side. Survival training strips away the conveniences of modern life, forcing a man to rely on his instincts and resilience. Being thrust into situations where water, food, and shelter aren't guaranteed rekindles a primal awareness and resourcefulness that often lies dormant in our comfortable lives.
When you're hungry, thirsty, or cold, every decision carries weight, and you're reminded of the raw simplicity of existence. This experience sharpens not only survival skills but also a deeper appreciation for life's essentials. It’s a humbling yet empowering transformation that often brings out the best in a person: clarity of thought, grit, and the ability to adapt.
It also teaches lessons that extend far beyond the wilderness. Perseverance, problem-solving under pressure, and respect for nature can all be applied to the challenges of everyday life. For many, it's a return to something deeply human—a rediscovery of strength they didn't know they had.
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This mainly ties directly into the breakdown of traditional family structures and values. A strong family foundation historically provided the framework for instilling responsibility, accountability, and critical thinking. Families used to be the bedrock of society, teaching children the values of leadership, discipline, and civic responsibility. When that structure weakens, it creates a ripple effect across society.
Men, as traditional leaders within the family unit, played a crucial role in guiding the next generation. When men step away from that responsibility—whether through absenteeism, neglect, or passivity—it leaves a void. That void often results in weaker family bonds, less guidance for children, and ultimately, a society less equipped to elect capable leaders or hold them accountable.
So yes, while the government plays its role, much of the blame also lies in the erosion of family structures and the failure of individuals to uphold their responsibilities within that structure. Strong families create strong individuals who, in turn, make informed decisions that benefit society. It starts at home. If men had maintained their roles as protectors, providers, and moral compasses, society might have taken a different path.
Blaming the government and laws is easy, but it doesn’t answer the real question: who put them in power? The truth is, society often gets the leadership it deserves.
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I always say, the life you deserve is the one you're willing to create. Each day is an opportunity to improve yourself.
At the age of 29 in 2001, I suffered a stroke and was diagnosed with Lupus and Catastrophic Antiphospholipid Syndrome. My life changed drastically—I went from being on a feeding tube and needing diapers changed to achieving almost a full recovery and regaining my independence. Despite doing all the right things, I experienced yet another stroke on December 13, 2024. This was a sobering reminder that tomorrow is never guaranteed.
Despite life's challenges, I retired to Thailand in 2013 at the age of 41. I am now happily enjoying more life for less money. I'm debt-free, saving more than I spend each month, and living a life of peace and fulfillment. My journey might not be the right path for everyone, but I know that if I had chosen to stay in bed pitying myself, I most likely wouldn’t be here today, still kicking and breathing.
My point is simple: life isn’t fair, but you have the power to change it for the better.
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I’ve never knowingly rented a girlfriend, but the truth is, all relationships come with a cost to men, whether financial or emotional. Looking back, I realize some of the women I dated in the past may have even been in other relationships.
As a Generation X guy, born in 1972, I was fortunate to be raised by both parents. They, along with my family and peers, gave me the tools to face life’s challenges. Sadly, many people today don’t have that same support.
In 2001, at just 29 years old, I had my first health crisis. That experience taught me one of life’s toughest lessons: at the end of the day, you can only truly count on yourself. It was a turning point that shaped the way I live and view the world.
I believe being raised in a different generation gave me an advantage in life. Now at 52, I’m happily married and living in Thailand, where I enjoy a more peaceful, fulfilling life without the stress I left behind. That first health scare taught me a crucial lesson: no matter how hard life gets, you have to keep pushing forward until your very last breath. Life is too short to waste on poor choices or things that don’t truly matter.
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Many men have the chance to build a great life overseas, but they bring the same bad habits, poor decision-making, and unrealistic expectations with them. Instead of adapting, they fall into the same traps—whether it’s overspending, choosing the wrong partner, or not doing their research beforehand.
Moving abroad isn’t some magic fix. It’s an opportunity, and like any opportunity, it requires discipline, planning, and the right mindset. Those who take responsibility for their choices and adjust to their new environment tend to thrive. The ones who don’t? Well, they usually end up with the same complaints they had back home.
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Scaling your business by putting others first is about building strong, lasting relationships with customers, employees, and partners. By prioritizing their needs, you foster loyalty, trust, and mutual growth, which can lead to sustainable and long-term success. Through a customer-centric approach, empowering employees, creating value-driven partnerships, and delivering social impact, you create a positive ecosystem where your business thrives by helping others succeed. This approach not only accelerates growth but also enhances your reputation and builds a loyal following.
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Seeking validation is like living in a prison you built for yourself. The moment you stop caring about what others think, you start truly living. Confidence comes from knowing who you are, not from likes or approval. Stop explaining, stop apologizing, and stop waiting for permission—live for YOU. If this hits home, what’s one thing you’re doing for yourself from now on?
🔥 How to Stop Seeking Validation & Start Living Life 🔥
1⃣ Realize the Cost – Every time you seek approval, you give others control over your happiness. No amount of validation will ever fill the void of self-doubt. Only YOU can do that.
2⃣ Ask Yourself, "Why Do I Care?" – Most people are too busy worrying about themselves to judge your life. The pressure to seek validation is just conditioning—break free from it.
3⃣ Stop Explaining Yourself – You don’t owe anyone an explanation for your life choices. The ones who truly support you won’t need one.
4⃣ Build Internal Confidence – Real confidence comes from doing things because you love them, not for social media likes. Spend time alone, take action without seeking approval, and focus on what you want.
5⃣ Expect Resistance & Push Through – Some people won’t like the new, independent you. That’s okay. They benefited from your need for validation. Keep moving forward!
✅ Final Thought: You get ONE life. Do you really want to spend it worrying about what others might think? Or do you want to actually live? The choice is yours. Start now before you have a lifetime of regrets.
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In my marriage, we share many of the same principles you mention having with your partner. Being older at 52, I can say that having a strong foundation allows couples to create a better life together—one where they can truly thrive and prosper. I’ve been married for almost 12 years now, and we’ve never had problems within our marriage. Most of the challenges we face come from outside sources. Having a partner who shares your values and respects the same boundaries makes life much easier to navigate.
I often tell men: Look at the woman in your life right now—is this how you would want your daughter to act when she starts dating? The right woman will always show you she’s marriage material before you ever put a ring on her finger. Never ignore red flags, hoping that marriage will change a person—it won’t. If anything, those issues only grow over time.
A strong relationship isn’t just about love; it’s about shared vision, mutual effort, and the ability to weather life’s storms together. The right woman will add peace to your life, not chaos. A good marriage doesn’t make life perfect, but it should make the journey easier, not harder. Choose wisely, because the right partner can be the greatest blessing, while the wrong one can be the biggest mistake of your life.
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Finding the right group of people will keep you grounded and focused on creating the life you deserve. Surround yourself with those who uplift you and cut out the negativity. At almost 53 years old, I stay as active as possible despite ongoing health challenges. I had a stroke on December 13, 2024, but that hasn’t stopped me. Right now, I’m painting our gate and wrought iron wall in three different colors—taking my time to make it look good, doing what I can under the circumstances.
If you don’t stay active—mentally, physically, and spiritually—you’ll slowly waste away. I’ve seen too many people reach their final moments full of regret, having never reached their full potential. That’s not the path I choose. When my time comes, I want to leave this world knowing I lived on my terms.
The only person who can change your life for the better is you. But it becomes a lot easier when you find the right people—those who inspire and push you forward. Life is too short to be weighed down by negativity or wasted on the wrong crowd. Choose wisely, stay active, and build the life you won’t regret.
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Reclaiming Your Identity in a Chaotic World:
The world is full of distractions, expectations, and pressures trying to shape you into something you’re not. Reclaiming your identity is about remembering who you are, defining your own path, and blocking out the noise. It’s a powerful act of self-respect and independence.
Here’s how you can take back control and live life on your terms:
1. Disconnect from the Noise
Modern life bombards you with information, opinions, and unrealistic standards. If you don’t step back, you risk losing yourself in the chaos.
🔹 Take a Break from Social Media & News Overload
Mindless scrolling is an identity thief—it fills your head with other people’s lives instead of your own thoughts.
Set time limits for social media use. Try a “digital detox” by taking a break for a few days or a week.
Replace scrolling with something productive—read, go outside, or have a real conversation.
Example: Instead of waking up and immediately checking your phone, start the day with a walk, journaling, or a quiet cup of coffee.
🔹 Get Away from Toxic People & Environments
Some people drain your energy, push their agenda on you, or make you question your worth.
Identify who brings value to your life and who only brings negativity.
If someone constantly makes you doubt yourself or feel small, distance yourself—even if it’s family.
Example: If a friend or coworker always puts you down or manipulates you, start setting boundaries. You don’t owe anyone access to your peace.
🔹 Make Time for Solitude
Being alone isn’t loneliness—it’s self-discovery.
Take silent walks, meditate, or journal your thoughts without distractions.
Ask yourself: What do I truly want? What makes me happy? What would I do if no one was watching?
Example: Instead of forcing yourself to keep up with social plans that don’t excite you, spend a quiet evening reflecting on your own goals.
2. Remember Who You Were Before the World Told You Who to Be
As we grow up, we’re shaped by society, family, and past experiences. Sometimes, we lose sight of who we truly are.
🔹 Ask Yourself:
What did I love doing as a child before I started caring about what others thought?
What beliefs are truly mine, and which ones were forced on me?
If I had no fear of failure or judgment, how would I live my life?
Example: If you used to love painting, writing, or being outdoors but gave it up because it "wasn't practical," try reconnecting with those passions.
🔹 Reignite Old Passions
Go back to the hobbies, interests, and activities that once excited you.
Even if it’s just for fun, it can bring you closer to your authentic self.
Don’t let society tell you what is or isn’t “useful”—if it makes you happy, it matters.
Example: If you used to love working with your hands, start a small DIY project or craft something just for yourself.
🔹 Let Go of Labels & Expectations
You don’t need to fit into a box to make others comfortable.
Forget society’s script—write your own story.
Be who you are, not who others expect you to be.
Example: If people always expected you to be “the responsible one,” “the quiet one,” or “the funny one,” allow yourself to break free from those roles.
3. Define Your Own Values & Principles
If you don’t define your values, the world will do it for you. Stand for something—on your own terms.
🔹 What Do You Stand For?
Write down the core principles you live by.
Integrity, independence, kindness, resilience—what matters most to you?
These values should guide your decisions, not trends or peer pressure.
🔹 What Do You Refuse to Tolerate?
Manipulation? Disrespect? Dishonesty?
Set boundaries and don’t let people cross them.
Example: If you refuse to be around negative energy, learn to say no to people who drain you.
🔹 Live Authentically, Even If It’s Unpopular
Some people won’t agree with your choices, and that’s okay.
A strong identity isn’t about pleasing others—it’s about being at peace with yourself.
Example: If you choose to live differently than society expects, own it. Maybe you prefer a quiet, simple life instead of chasing status and material success. That’s your choice.
4. Strengthen Your Mind & Body
A strong sense of self requires a strong foundation—mentally and physically.
🔹 Take Care of Your Health
A well-fed, well-rested, and physically active body supports mental clarity.
Eat well, exercise, and get enough sleep—your body is your fortress.
Example: Instead of fueling yourself with junk food and stress, focus on small, sustainable health changes.
🔹 Master Your Mindset
Doubt, fear, and insecurity are mental roadblocks—train yourself to overcome them.
Read, meditate, or practice mindfulness to develop mental toughness.
Example: Replace negative self-talk with affirmations like “I am in control of my life.”
🔹 Develop Skills & Independence
The more you can do for yourself, the less you rely on others for validation.
Learn a new skill, start a side hustle, or educate yourself on things that interest you.
Example: If you always wanted to start a business, take the first step—research, plan, and take action.
5. Live on Your Own Terms
At the end of the day, reclaiming your identity means living for yourself, not for the world.
🔹 Stop Seeking External Validation
You don’t need permission to be yourself.
The opinions of others do not define your worth.
Example: Instead of seeking approval, ask yourself, Do I feel good about this choice?
🔹 Make Bold Choices
If something isn’t working, change it.
Life is too short to stay stuck in situations that drain you.
Example: If your environment, job, or relationships are holding you back, start making changes—one step at a time.
🔹 Build a Life That Feels Right for You
Whether that means living in a quiet village, traveling, starting a business, or simply finding inner peace—do what makes you happy.
Your life should be a reflection of your choices, not society’s script.
Example: If moving overseas, working remotely, or living off-grid brings you peace, don’t let people’s doubts stop you.
Final Thought: You Are the Author of Your Story
The world will try to write your story for you. Don’t let it. Take back the pen, reclaim your identity, and create a life that reflects who you truly are.
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I’m happy living in a village in Thailand, away from the world’s drama. I’ve found peace of mind by distancing myself from others' toxicity, where I can be my true self. I had plans to start my own channel before my stroke on December 13, 2024, but it’s still on hold while I’m recovering. The stroke has affected my speech, and doctors are advising me not to wear my partial dentures yet. I want people to understand me and speak without drawing attention to my missing teeth.
Despite these challenges, I’m considering starting my channel anyway. If anything, it will help improve my speech. I may start by reading from a script I’ve written, and as I get stronger, I’ll wean myself off it. The viewers who focus on my missing teeth aren’t the ones I’m trying to reach. I hope to connect with others who value the content I create, as it would make my heart smile if I can help them find the happiness they deserve.
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$150,000.00 yearly is 5,329,875.00 baht in Thailand being considered very rich. In Chiang Mai for example, you can find a decent furnished studio apartment for little as 6,500 baht/$182.91 a month. There are cheaper options but they are run down and probably don't have an air conditioner with some without furniture. If you eat like a local, you can find a meal over rice costing 25 baht/70 cents. Living in Phichit, Thailand I bought a new Honda Lead motorbike for 60,000 baht/$1,744.64. I had a tooth pulled for $12.00 in the province area. My last stay in a local government hospital was for 21 days with having multiple pulmonary embolisms. The total bill was $620.00 for everything including meds to take home. I acquired a medical/life insurance policy in Thailand which paid 100% of the medical bills. We own our house, car, and two motorbikes. Everything we have is bought with cash living debt free. I recommend shopping where you see the locals buy to save money avoiding food poising and the higher prices of touristy areas. You can live a frugal to lavish lifestyle depending on your budget in places like Thailand. Most people living on Social Security or Disability can live decently overseas instead of a tent among the addicts. More life for less money with having peace of mind is a treasure beyond imagination only being a passport away.
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Over the years, I've helped many people, but I've become much more selective about who I invest my time and energy in. The lesson in loyalty really hit home for me in 2001, when I suffered my first stroke. In that moment, when I needed help the most, many people disappeared from my life. The only ones who remained were my mother and father. I was in the ICU on life support, and during that time, I remember my two sisters asking if they were included in my will. It was a painful realization that many people only valued me for what I could provide them, with nothing in return for my kindness.
Through this experience, I learned that loyalty isn’t guaranteed by blood, relationships or friends but earned through genuine support. The only people I could truly count on were my parents, so I made sure to take good care of them until they passed away. After their loss, I moved to Thailand in 2013 to start anew and create a life for myself. Now I am happily married in Thailand enjoying more life for less money having peace of mind.
The hardest lesson I’ve learned is that, in the end, you have to pick yourself up and become your own hero. It’s not easy, but it’s the only way to move forward never stopping until your last breath.
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I’ve been dealing with serious ongoing health problems since 2001. My last stroke was on December 13, 2024, but I’ve almost fully recovered. I’ve learned that mindset and staying active are key to overcoming life’s challenges. I mainly walk and do house chores—tasks that most people would hire someone else to do. Recently, I prepped, primed, and painted the gate and wall around my house. Now, I’m working on painting the exterior of my home. At almost 53, I put in a few hours a day, balancing my health and the intense Thai heat.
I take pride in working with my own two hands. My weight fluctuates, but I always slim back down. I’ve realized that the less weight I carry, the easier it is to recover when my health knocks me down again. Father Time comes for everyone, but you can delay the inevitable by staying as active as possible. The key is to create wonderful memories instead of living with a lifetime of regrets when you reach the end of your journey.
It’s not about how many years you have left—it’s about making the most of the time you do have. Every day is an opportunity to push forward, to build something, and to appreciate the simple victories. I refuse to sit back and let life pass me by. No matter what challenges come my way, I’ll keep moving forward.
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I’ve never knowingly rented a girlfriend, but the truth is, all relationships come with a cost to men, whether financial or emotional. Looking back, I realize some of the women I dated in the past may have even been in other relationships.
As a Generation X guy, born in 1972, I was fortunate to be raised by both parents. They, along with my family and peers, gave me the tools to face life’s challenges. Sadly, many people today don’t have that same support.
In 2001, at just 29 years old, I had my first health crisis. That experience taught me one of life’s toughest lessons: at the end of the day, you can only truly count on yourself. It was a turning point that shaped the way I live and view the world.
I believe being raised in a different generation gave me an advantage in life. Now at 52, I’m happily married and living in Thailand, where I enjoy a more peaceful, fulfilling life without the stress I left behind. That first health scare taught me a crucial lesson: no matter how hard life gets, you have to keep pushing forward until your very last breath. Life is too short to waste on poor choices or things that don’t truly matter.
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The key difference between paying for love (or renting a girlfriend) and an authentic relationship is the foundation on which they are built:
1. Paying for Love / Renting a Girlfriend
Transactional: Money is the driving force; affection, companionship, or intimacy is exchanged for financial compensation.
Temporary: The relationship lasts as long as the payments continue—when the money stops, so does the "love."
Emotional Distance: While there may be an illusion of affection, it lacks genuine emotional investment from both sides.
Control & Expectations: Since money is involved, the paying party often sets expectations on behavior, time, and attention.
2. Authentic Relationships
Mutual Bond: Built on real connection, shared values, and emotional intimacy.
Long-Term Potential: No expiration date tied to financial agreements—it's based on compatibility and effort.
Genuine Care: Partners support each other through good and bad times, not just when it's convenient or profitable.
Trust & Growth: Each person contributes to the relationship emotionally and spiritually, creating something meaningful over time.
Which One Makes Sense?
It depends on what someone is looking for. If it's short-term companionship with no strings attached, renting a girlfriend might be a solution. But for real happiness and fulfillment, nothing beats an authentic connection where both partners genuinely care for each other without a price tag.
Don't allow fantasy to override realistic expectations. While renting a girlfriend may seem like a quick fix, true love requires patience, effort, and mutual respect. At the end of the day, love can't be bought—only borrowed when money is involved.
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So Many Are Struggling… What Can We Do About It?
While we may not be able to fix everything, we can make a difference in small but meaningful ways:
Support each other – A kind word, encouragement, or simply listening can go a long way.
Share knowledge – Helping others learn skills, financial wisdom, or ways to improve their situation can be life-changing.
Lead by example – Show resilience, gratitude, and a problem-solving mindset to inspire others.
Give when possible – Whether it’s time, resources, or advice, even small acts of generosity can change someone’s day.
Encourage self-reliance – While helping is great, empowering people to help themselves is even better.
Not everyone can be saved, but those who are willing to improve deserve support. What are your thoughts?
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Western society has become an increasingly challenging place for the average person to thrive and enjoy life. Moving overseas, especially to places like Thailand, can offer a more affordable and fulfilling lifestyle. Personally, I save more money each month than I spend, and my quality of life has improved dramatically.
If you're considering this path, start by researching opportunities to generate income online or even find work abroad. I retired early, but if that's not an option for you, it’s essential to figure out your own way to make it work. Establishing a home base overseas also opens the door to exploring nearby countries affordably. Living in a province just outside a city can help you save even more while maintaining access to urban conveniences.
One of the greatest benefits of living abroad is that people, especially women, often value you for simply being a good man. You’ll also come to appreciate the importance of family and meaningful connections, which are essential for a fulfilling life.
However, it's crucial to understand that moving abroad won’t magically resolve personal struggles or dissatisfaction. If left unresolved, these issues can become magnified. Many people romanticize the idea of starting fresh in another country but fail to do adequate research. This can lead to disappointment, frustration, or financial hardships.
A short-term visit is a smart way to test the waters before committing. Use this time to observe daily life, not just the tourist experience. Make sure your dream lifestyle aligns with your monthly budget. Ultimately, it’s your responsibility to adapt to another culture and embrace their way of life.
With realistic expectations, thorough planning, and the right mindset, moving abroad can truly transform your life.
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Most Thais don't like a diamond ring with traditional women preferring a gold one costing around $570. They provide wedding packages here starting at $3,000 and can be much cheaper managing it yourself. Buying a decent two bedroom home starts at $35,000. A foreigner in Thailand can't own land retaining ways to bend this law without trouble or obtaining a certain visa. However, I recommend respecting the laws in other countries. Renting a nice studio condo starts at $150 a month and a 2 bedroom house $300 a month. These places are considered charming with no fixer uppers. However, they may not include furniture and utilities. Buying new and used cars in Thailand are expensive with me recommending using other forms of travel. A new motorbike starts at $1,500 which is all you really require traveling around town. Delivering a baby in a Thai government hospital cost on average $1,000. Average cost of raising two children to adulthood is about $90,000 according to online suspecting it being cheaper. My medical/life insurance (Thai Life) cost me $600 a year with Thais cost being way cheaper. I have eight dogs and one cat here in Thailand which is very cheap monthly. Looking online Colleges starts at $4,000 a year and up depending on your studies. People can merely retire on social security/disability here with me recommending having some savings for the unexpected. If you can not acquire a long-term visa yet you can bounce around the surrounding countries cheaply. I paid for my Thai wife brothers funeral cost me $1,000 USD about 2 years ago. I go to a government hospital with the doctors, tests, and 25 medications costing $45 a month. I spent 21 days in government hospital for a mild stroke and pulmonary embolisms with the total costing $650 including the meds returning home. My insurance paid 100% of the cost plus giving me $45 a day. Private hospitals are more expensive here, but way cheaper than back home. My wife already owns her house here with costing $15,000 with using the Thai locals in her village to build it 15 years ago. Thailand has a prominent medical tourism due the lower medical cost compared to European countries. I am married overseas having a fully furnished 2 bedroom house, used car, and two motorbikes all paid for saving more money than I spend monthly. The lifestyle you want will determine your expenses overseas. When going overseas make sure to maintain realistic expectations of what you can really afford. I don't require anyone to accept my word as truth, but to research for yourself online finding your own happiness in life.
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Women in their thirties say they are prepared to settle down adding value into a relationship without changing themselves. Connecting with these types of women is like marrying a recovering acholic. Are you willing to risk the life you establish for this type of women that can regress back to her shabby ways at any second? Women overseas already offer the benefits men seek in an affectionate relationship willing to work together from the start. Merely know nowhere is a veritable paradise that will magically fix all your problems having its own compromises in return. Living and holidaying overseas are completely different from one another. Men must work on their mind, body, soul and career with saving money for the unexpected before moving overseas. Research the laws, culture, language, relationships, crime, lifestyle, Medical/life options, visa and cost of expenses before executing the move. Solely think of it like going back to school for promoting a more enjoyable life for yourself. Going overseas unprepared, you will suffer a miserable time. In another country you must adjust to their way of life seeking one that mostly aligns with your core values. If possible try exploring a country of interest for a few months before executing the move. Living overseas will have its start up cost when creating a new life overseas. I recommend keeping your bags light at first visiting the surrounding provinces including other countries if needed before settling down. A young man may be incapable to meet the long-term visa options except maybe the marriage or working options. However, you can bounce around the surrounding countries cheaply until you can. Keep your options open without burning all your bridges. Your lifestyle should have realistic expatiations within your budget never overspending putting yourself at risk. Safety and happiness remain your responsibility while living overseas making the proper choices for yourself. I moved overseas in 2013 to Thailand being married living a magnificent life that other men seek. More opportunities become available if you're willing to expose yourself to the world. Settle for the happiness you deserve in life no matter where you live.
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@Harzach-Hardcastle7685 I’ve never knowingly hired someone for companionship, but the truth is, all relationships come with some kind of cost, whether financial or emotional. Looking back, I realize some of the women I dated in the past may not have been completely honest about their personal lives.
As someone born in 1972, I consider myself fortunate to have been raised by both parents. They, along with my family and friends, gave me the tools to face life’s challenges. Sadly, many people today don’t have that same support system.
In 2001, at just 29 years old, I faced a serious health challenge that changed my life. That experience taught me one of the hardest lessons: at the end of the day, you have to rely on yourself. It was a turning point that shaped how I live and view the world.
I believe being raised in a different generation gave me a valuable perspective. Now at 52, I’m happily married and living in Thailand, where I enjoy a more peaceful and fulfilling life. That experience in my late 20s taught me the importance of perseverance. No matter how difficult life becomes, you have to keep moving forward. Life is too short to waste on bad decisions or things that don’t matter.
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