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@lifestylebypete Haha, it's probably not you, I've just found the way comments work on YT is often stuff disappears, and you start to ask what the point is if you get filtered out xD
This is true the situation is fairly bleak if you have a lower income and/or you insist on buying within a city.
To add some context the home I am buying is for 120k. Getting the mortgage isn't so bad because my income is 43k. I think with the banks they take into consideration the value of the property relative to your income.
I am told that for a long time the value of a home was about 3-4 times salary, whereas now it's about 10x it, and this is probably why people are having a hard time.
Keep in mind in 2008 there was the financial crash, and they started to heavily regulate mortgages since then, though I've heard the current Administration may be seeking to relax these soon.
Even in my case with a 43k income. Say I wanted a home in my hometown, a 2 bed terraced would be about 260k let us say. Even if I put down 60k I would not be able to borrow enough from the banks to pay it.
Another reason I don't want to borrow 200k anyways is because the costs are so high each month and I want to secure myself against defaulting as much as possible.
I don't know you or your channel but I wish you, and your family, all the best for your future ♥
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I failed two practicals and the stress and misery involved caused me to give up.
The truth is the guilt from the money my mother was spending, generalised anxiety in a car, and so on wasn't worth it for me, and I'm 29 and still don't have a driving license nor do I want one.
The truth is that what you do and achieve isn't important, unless it is important to you.
If you want to drive, if you want to be fit, if you want to get a degree - then go for it, but the mistake many make is doing things because they assume it's the right thing because they se eothers doing it.
The way to look at it, is that the only thing you can experience is today, and the only thing that exists therefore is today.
If you want to start something, then you should do it today, and in the worst case say "I will try again tomorrow" because that is better than "I will do it tomorrow".
Habits lead to growth, but that growth begins in taking ownership of the 'today'.
There is no past anymore, so what you can do today is all that counts, and tomorrow next comes because it is always in the future.
Make sure you don't just like the "sound" of being something, like an artist, of a musician, or a streamer or whatever.
Part and parcel of that, is also the hard work and a lot of failure. You cannot have only the good. You must take the good and the bad together and embrace it.
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@StevenJohn91 Thank you. To elaborate it came down to risk appetite. I could definitely borrow 200k to buy a terraced house in my hometown, but for me the £1-1.2k monthly payments, as a single earner just isn't worth it.
The ironic thing of course is that I'll probably be happier in a bigger house in the town with countryside surrounding.
To be honest I do make a good wage and I did stay at home with my parents for the last 18 months, but absolutely you don't need to be making crazy wages.
To copy-paste what I wrote elsewhere: "If lets say you're on £22k you take-home is about £1,600 you can pay £400 to your parents and £200 to go out for drinks a month. Stash away £1k and after 5 years you'll have £60k in deposit."
You may be able to do something similar in a house-share if that's not an option, but ultimately it's all about what you want.
I actually lurk a bunch of financial advice stuff over the years (I started planning to buy a house about March 2022), but the interesting thing is that there are a lot of people who earn insanely good money, but basically cannot get anywhere because they've gone all-in on nice cars and a dream house too quickly.
There are cards you can use to stack the deck: living with family, dual-income with a partner, not dealing with a car or kid, but I think the idea that you need to sacrifice your whole life to get comfortable is just a bit misguided.
I think the people who are really struggling are the ones who aren't able to get full time work, my boyfriend who lives in the midland being one of them. Hopefully that improves for him at some point though, as much as people like to talk about benefit scroungers, being stuck indoors all day without any obligations actually starts to get really boring/depressing after a while lol
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