Comments by "" (@ronjon7942) on "It's better for WOMEN to be ADORERS: understanding the balance of attraction" video.

  1. I bought into the familial and societal requirement that I was to start out courtship with full on pedestalization, and then ‘easing’ down to a lifetime of adoring a woman. It was impossible to maintain this, because I see now that it’s not natural. Worse, when I quit the always-on adoration level, I felt like I was failing, there was something wrong with me, I fell out of love, or had fooled myself into thinking I was never in love. I consciously avoided taking the lead, or being too masculine, since I was trained that women were too fragile to be too exposed to this; I thought I needed to be very careful lest she felt I was too domineering and mean and aggressive. So, teach me how to be the adored, and to be comfortable with it.
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