Comments by "CuteCatFaith" (@CuteCatFaith) on "Fox News Tells Women 'How To Keep A Man'" video.

  1. I've always said, the way to a man's heart is through his ribcage.
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  2. I don't think most men have seen such a thing.  If it exists, it seems to have been hidden from a lot of them.
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  3. Erik Johannessen Yeah, I moved from the USA to Europe long ago and different cultures have different etiquette, for sure.  For me, a lot of it is basic hygiene and manners.  I live in a culture now where anyone who works is a "worker" and valid, there aren't, generally, professions which are seen as "better," and poverty is okay as long as an effort is made to improve and the poor are honest.  I got very tired of telling American male friends, good friends for years and years, what a handkerchief is (and I bought a lot of them for them), how to say "please" and "thank you," and how to go through some very superficial rituals (such as remembering an anniversary) at least shallowly so they could get it over with.  I'm glad I still have American male friends à la distance, and one I consider like a brother or better, but really, most of them, well, they can be okay as friends but no way would I want to be involved with them -- they are clueless!  I really feel for American males who get held to high standards by nasty females, I must say.  That really stinks!
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  4. Erik Johannessen Well, some people like someone who is "exotic," of a different culture, of a different age, et c.  I did know an American guy for years and he was openly nuts about me but very nice about it, quite proper.  He is not good looking but it didn't matter, as he was so smart and funny, a hard worker, he had good manners, et c.  He asked me to marry him.  I was delighted but had to tell him that I didn't love him and I didn't think I could, but I wished I could as he was fine!  This was done in private and I am glad I wasn't evasive or sneaky and that I was very, very sincere in my appreciation of his qualities.  It's not as though I never met a cool American man!  My Parisian spouse absolutely did not want a serious relationship with a French female his age.  He felt he had nothing in common with them, which was actually accurate on his part.  He wanted an older woman from another culture, someone who could speak French and who'd be willing to live here, but not one of his "peers."  I did warn him, "Be careful -- you're going to have an older wife!"  It depends on what we value and are looking for.  I've read that women will pick a mate who is GENETICALLY like her father yet who smells nothing like him!  Weird science, eh??
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  5. Erik Johannessen Yes, I agree.  In most cultures, men have the upper hand.  I'm the "low maintenance type" female so it is hard for me to understand what some of my "sisters" are up to.  I don't feel that many women understand that males are generally really different from them!  I feel males are the weaker sex but they just need slightly different spaces, different handling.  It can cause resentment, because males have "male privilege" a heck of a lot.  I knew a woman who became a man surgically and it was a success and their construction career continued, and I heard a lot of inside stuff which was pretty sad and which applied in a lot of the world.  I have a clip up on polyandry you might like.
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  6. Erik Johannessen They do not have the same pain level tolerance women do and they don't live as long.  They are not as productive as female workers are.  Embryoes start as female and the male thing sets in after some months, not at first.  Males are like a mutation, ha ha ha!!  Really, you have only to look at, say, traditional Viking culture or, say, Jewish culture.  Among the Vikings, the wife would get the key to the coffer to wear on her belt for life, and she'd have to raise the kids, deal with the animals, plant, build, do family business, and protect the home while the spouse was away, often permanently, to hunt, gather, explore, et c.  Among Jews, the wife is the boss and men just go to work and turn over their pay, and to keep them out of saloons, they are sent off to pray, which is not considered very important as an activity among Jews.  Men don't bond for life, generally, as women do, or at least not in the same way.  They tend to seek "strange pussy" once "their" female has born them a child.  They often need highly structured environments and a lot of looking after.  They will tend to get violent and not be diplomatic, to seek peace.  They tend to be likelier to kill and maim than females.  They're often like puppies wearing lead helmets.  They MUST CHASE THAT CAR, and when things go wrong, bump, bump, thump, thump and then they want a female to rush out and coo over them, "Oh, poor puppy, are you okay?"  Answer:  OF COURSE THEY ARE OKAY.  THEY ARE WEARING LEAD HELMETS.
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  7. Erik Johannessen Okay, whatever that is!  So it goes!!
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