Youtube comments of CuteCatFaith (@CuteCatFaith).
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Uprated, shared. My favorite movie, though of course there are other favorites. This one has religion or spirituality, horses, food, music, dancing, a foreign language for me, period attire, an impossible love or situation, no happy ending. Stephane is amazing. I've seen so many of her movies and never saw her miss. Second wife of Chabrol. Lots of humorous looks at human behavior in this one. For me, cooking is an act of love and meditation. Greetings from France via Italy and the USA.
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I found the bull culture around Arles, France very interesting. The bulls are a smallish black breed with big horns. They live at free range -- there are signs up warning drivers, and the villages have signs up reminding that the appearance of a bull might happpen. The Camargue horses also live free range. I think the bullfighting season is October. Traditionally, the bulls are not spiked or killed. Colored strings are tied to their horns and the objective is to pluck off the strings. They want to pick the most agile, smart and strong bulls because it raises their market value for breeding. After a fight the bull returns to pasture with its higher rating. Unfortunately, in the huge arena in Arles which looks like the Colosseum in Rome (and is Roman) audiences seem to want blood. You can go to local farm and village events to see riding and bull demonstrations. Bull meat tastes good and has to be flash seared. So eventually, the animals are killed for meat, hides and other parts. Hey, in the Roman theatre nearby, people had sex and got murdered in the performances. Bloodlust, really. Back in the day, a thumbs up meant "kill" and a thumbs down meant "spare the life."
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Friends, family and contacts in the United States have ridiculed me (and worse) for over two decades for living as I do in Europe. They "pity" me for not having gadgets and frills. I got a new lease on life and wouldn't exchange this for anything. Some have come to visit and actually, some freak out. They just cannot handle all the quiet, peace, polite human contact, nature, culture, and quality of life. Others just blossom here and find they have little anxiety, stress, and have pleasure in little things such as walking, eating, waking up refreshed, et c. Invariably, many ask to smoke even if they are not smokers! (I try to warn them not to -- Paris has a bad climate.) Our country places in Brittany BLEW AN OLD FRIEND'S MIND! He loved meeting the peasant relatives and seeing all the Roman roads, megaliths, vipers, birds of prey, horses, et c.
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I moved to France long ago from the States and learned to eat slowly, "less is more," and it's quality, not quantity. If you eat on a regular schedule, it's nicely served even in a modest setting, and you do courses, no matter how humble, your health improves, the weight comes off, and the objective is that you are never, ever hungry at the end of the meal. You learn to savor food. My guests here from the USA kept shoveling in junk they were buying and gobbling things down without even tasting them. After we set a good example and they tried what WE eat, one guy, black guy from NYC and AZ, said, "This cheese is OUTRAGEOUS!" The flavor is the focus here, and you're supposed to have your fill, and you can take more plain bread, more cheese, and fresh fruit near the end of lunch and dinner, even everyday, if you need it, so you learn not to panic -- you're going to get enough. "Why can't I have another bite?" The more, more, more, more is better American thing is not for me any longer. :)
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Hey, this American guy was visiting me here in France and wanted me to see a clip of his "friend" who had the fastest battery-operated motorcycle on record. I said, "That's stupid. You don't need to 'go fast' on a motorcycle." Sure enough, in the clip, the guy wiped out and is now paralyzed. I said to my visitor, "Oh, great, think of the cost and he's wrecked himself for something so pointless! This is horrible. You really think this is great? That's stupid." He looked stunned, hadn't thought of it that way, and kind of had to agree. Really, it was shocking! That fool made himself a burden who will suffer horribly! For nothing!!
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It isn't high-functioning autism. It is a developmental disability, is genetic, kicks in within hours of conception. The classification has been changed and it's no longer in the autism category. Autism seems to set in after birth and is related to something toxic, such as a vaccine, or other outside thing after birth. Asperger's is usually passed from father to son, but does occur in females. Sometimes called "idiot-savants," which is not correct. They tend to be focused on a passion, such as the history of one thing, and can cite incredible detail about it. They find it hard to establish and maintain relationships, are highly biddable. Have a hard time functioning fully, may have speech quirks, be loquacious, can absolutely work but need a constantly structured environment. The absence of ability to pick up on social cues is apparent. Often extremely clumsy. Frequently have little or no conception of time, so require supervision. Tend to talk at people rather to them, problems with empathy. Vulnerable, as they are not usually hard to take advantage of. May appear intelligent or bright, can fake it frequently for a time. Have problems with certain things, such as sounds, textures, it's a processing problem. Easy victims. Many people say they've been diagnosed with autism and actually it's Asperger's, which is not autism. Hope this helps.
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Uprated. I LOVED the North of England, and the South of Scotland! I was FINE with the food in both countries, since 1980, many times, mostly for pleasure but a little bit for work. I just stuck to local specialties and game. No problem! Crab fishing by boat is horribly hard and dangerous. Seafood and shellfish, any sea or water products, in fact, are generally way too toxic to eat or too stressed to harvest, however, so I reluctantly avoid them. (But do not exclude them. Depends.) The parmo is, at this point, after living in France so long from the USA via Italy, too gloopy for me likely, but I certainly would try it! I really like doing some British and Scottish dishes here, making my own pastry, getting the gnarly supplies and cooking them all down. Fun clip. I think the North of England is a bit like the North of France, which has a bad reputation. Undeserved. I can really recommend the Northeast of England as a visit destination. Go look, study the history, behave, and try some things! Very fun clip, thank you.
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One of the reasons I don't eat the beef tartare here in France is that I'm not nuts about their presentation of it. This method looks better. We like it served French style with horse meat, however, the egg yolk right on the meat in an indentation, and you put chopped onion, a pickle, a few capers, et c. around on the side of the plate. Usually the condiments offered (and this is easy to make and do at home) are Tabasco sauce, Worcestershire sauce if it can be found, mustard, horse radish maybe, and I've seen oil offered. The bread is on the side. It's considered to have a raw meat meal at least seasonally here very healthy. Fun to garnish with a radish, et c. Oh, I've also seen lemon juice as a condiment. The diner can pick the mix they want to bite at, a little at a time, with nibbles of bread. I like raw meat meals once in awhile. This chef does a nice job, and adding a dash of cognac looks good. Uprated.
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Uprated, shared. Another interesting one. Hormonal problems, fibroids = soya. I can't handle it, unfortunately. Lots of stuff in this one. Here in France, a lot of stuff like the "cupping" is at least partially covered by basic universal health care. Mésothérapie, acupuncture, homeopathy, sophrologie, lymphatic drainage, physical therapy, chiropractors who use pressure points on the neck to give you the feeling of a long weekend vacation of rest, and plenty of Asiatic doctors who tend to be excellent. I've taken friends visiting from the States around to have eye checks and glasses, dental care, et c. Enough about France, I like it here. Again, I would have had at least a bite of everything shown here, even the tofu. I agree with what you said at the end, very much -- one culture is not better than another, just it's own thing. I studied Chinese herbology decades ago, formally, and still refer to my materials. Just cleared up a tooth abcess in two days, will just go next week to a regular dentist for a classic check. Very informative despite the rudeness often, ha ha ha! Thank you. You are what you are, Mr. Huang. Salute!
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My French spouse forced me to watch some documentaries some years ago and to visit one of his family member's industrial farms (which is quite nice, modern and humane by many standards, but yeow!). I got the message. Reducing meat, sticking to free range, organic, equitable, local, seasonal ... in fact, it's the cheaper option here in France for the most part. I used to sometimes get a free range organic turkey on order in the States. Turkeys go for 70 to 100 USD equivalent here in France but they prefer goose and other things anyway. Scott Rea has a great recent clip up of what lovelieness can come of an ordinary turkey, however, and I recommend his channel. Enjoy, and do go hunting or fishing once and kill and process it ALL yourself! :)
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Fun! Uprated. I always liked to cook in the USA and learned in Italy, where I studied. I've been in France for 21 years, and actually landed a job as a chef's assistant in Paris on a short-term contract. Wow, that chef was nasty, but I shut up, obeyed and learned a lot. "Tripéries" are popular here in France and I live in Saint-Denis on the border of Paris and people are poor a lot of them, so the "tripes" vendors in the huge greenmarket here three times a week (one of the largest in Europe) are always thronged. I love "tripes" (offal) and nailed Tripes à la Môde de Caen my second try. He's right, it is more work. If you do it right, the stuff tastes amazing. Ask any Soul Food afficionado! Chitlins here are "andouilles" and "andouillettes," and so on. I have done half a suckling pig in a way I learned from Sardinians in Italy, splitting it with another woman right there in the greenmarket here. Stuffed lamb hearts, I'll try anything! A lot of this stuff has to be cooked all day, cooled, chilled, then continued next day so it can bloom. I miss a North American cocktail and I think this is a winning combination! Never been to Thailand but any Thai dish I had, however inauthentic, was wonderful. You're SUPPOSED to take a long time with this, and then scent the aromas, eat slowly, chew, talk, think ... taste. Uni (sea urchin) is a bit weird but I like seeing it here fresh and alive in January and look forward to doing it Inch'Allah (ha ha!). Italians love it as a seasonal treat, too. I really like the presentation in the dishes shown here, and the thoughtful zaniness. It all seems to ought to work, to me. I'm also one of the few people I know who likes any caviar or fish eggs. Wonderful, colorful clip. Thank you so much! "Bon continuation!"
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I know, I'm from Cleveland, which went bankrupt in '75 after largely burning in the '60s. Moving to the Lower East Side of NYC in the late '70s was scary, but I tried to buy the Christadora House, which was only 60k USD!! People thought I was NUTS!! There were other properties up for grabs and I was so frustrated not to have any money or connections. The few I knew who could get money were terrified of that place. So many young people such as myself had fled the Rust Belt for NYC, where at least you could go to or finish college and find "a job" and kind of try to survive. (It was hell!!) When I bought an abandoned place in Saint-Denis, France for cash in '94, people thought I was INSANE! But I love it here -- it's better than NYC, and I can walk into Paris! The very same day I closed on this place, the same place upstairs sold for DOUBLE THE MONEY. Now, I couldn't even rent here, let alone buy. If it's a place where many, many languages are spoken daily and you have a lot of students and young people from all walks of life, it's at least going to be lively. There is often a chance it will develop. When you have places such as NYC where most people share horrible, buggy, dark, run-down apartments, they will likely go out to clubs and restaurants and will need services, transportation, et c. No one wants to "stay home" much in such places. When I see places where people can "cocoon" and "burrow," there's always a stagnation. At least, an inherent one. I don't mind seeing lively, trendy places pop up as long as they are mindful of their trash and noise and quality of life issues and stuff.
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I remember when it was 50% for the wealthy, until Reagan was elected. It was actually worn as a badge of pride and all the ones who were rich I met were glad to pay -- they just went and made MORE money! Here in France, it could be considered at 75% for the rich, but that's not the whole picture, as you have to quantify in other factors, such as the quality of life they get for it, et c. One benefit, the stipend for each child, is not means-tested, and very few rich want to leave France, despite what the media may say. People die to GET here, few want to LEAVE here. France is far from perfect, however. If you're very poor here, you are free from income tax but if you insist on luxuries, the VAT will get you, and everyone must pay an "inhabitation tax," and a TV tax, and so on. The middle classes even get a sliding scale, and if you watch what you spend on, you can keep the VAT bite down. Poor, working and middle classes here qualify for excellent subsidized housing. It isn't dreadful, generally -- people long to get into an HLM. I've lived through five major recessions in my life, on two continents, and started to see the American middle class whupped starting in the early '70s. I hear you on your points. When working poor and middle classes are crushed, that's a house of cards.
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Terribly cute, and uprated. Fish are stressed, overfished and toxic, ditto shellfish, but I would eat this like a total hypocrite! Fish farming is a no-no -- BUT I WOULD EAT THIS!!!!! I loved ramps in the States. I am in France now permanently, and we do love our eggs sunnyside up, super soft. Brilliant to use nasturtiums -- almost the whole plant is edible. Petals, leaves, even roots, in theory. Wonderful, thank you for the demonstration.
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Indomitable They wouldn't eat it. A grillade, yes, but it isn't the same. They don't understand the sweet/sour thing. Well, they do in Alsace. They want for food flavors to stay very pure and hate spicy food, too. There are some seasonal and regional exceptions. They will not eat hot corn. I've been a chef's assistant here in Paris. Around where I live in Saint-Denis, which speaks 80 languages a day, some will eat food in the Antilles way, but like once a year. I've been here 20 years. They also don't like heavy sauces. Lyon is famous for them but that is an exception. No, sweet and sour they do not like here. Alsace is over by Germany so there is a potential appreciation of sweet/savory mix. There are four sacred foods in France: bread, wine, meat and cheese. They don't even like cooked cheese -- yes, there are some dishes with cooked cheese but every lunch, every dinner ends with a cheese platter and fresh fruit -- they want a selection of cheese, unadulterated. They want it plain. There are exceptions for some recipes. I was a cook in the USA and my offerings over here from the US were flops -- they couldn't or wouldn't eat, say, a casserole. They detest chili con carne. Ethnics, who are not French, who are of different origins here, yeah they will eat different stuff. I was really surprised by the actual daily French diet and what they consider good! I do understand it, however. They like to buy organic, from farms, and there are, for example, master cheese inspectors. GMOs are illegal here. I know, it is maddening! No, no bbq here. There is a specialty chef in Paris you can hire to do it for you as a caterer for American bbq. I miss bbq, but there you go.
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Have you been married? Long term? It's an inherently flawed construct. One of the partners will change, or both will change, or worse, NEITHER will change. These realities and likelihoods can be properly considered and planned for, however. Marriage is primarily biological and economic in nature. In relationships of every type, humans use one another. Friendships, employment, parenthood, marriage, commerce, et c.
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I was homeless three times in the USA. My parents showed me the door when I was 18, was the first. The next two were due to divorce. I never qualified for benefits or help, and my child died as a result. I got fed up and expatriated when I was 37. Over here in France, it depends on where you live. I am outside Paris and this is traditionally the birthplace of communism and still communist. Generally. When shanty towns go up, they quickly get clean water and sanitary facilities brought in, but a lot of these people are here illegally and are actually a crime problem. It just cost us about 1000 USD to replace a missing stolen part from our car here -- it turned out to be the shantytown people here illegally in my area and they put their kids up to it, to crawl under cars and saw things out. There's no easy solution, and I've been on a waiting list since 2008 to get subsidized housing, which is typical (my spouse wants me out of here). My quality of life is way better over here in France, however, than it was in the USA, that is for sure, and it's sad never to see your friends, family or country again but I had to go. Legally, of course.
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Hi, dog! :) No, they are not sure about the vaccines, but I do know a man whose perfectly normal kids, two of them, immediately became autistic after vaccination. He had discussed it with his wife and was opposed to it, but she wanted it, so they did it, and they are both really, severely autistic and need CONSTANT care. It really seems likely to be linked with toxicity. It's just exploded in many countries, especially ones with fluoridated tap water. Please don't swear at me or be rude, it isn't necessary. You can always contradict me, but please be polite.
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Uprated. Funny, because in NYC for years I always kept champagne, little breads for toast, quality butter, a few hardboiled eggs, Perrier, lemons and caviar ... for breakfast, especially! I didn't know a little onion could be good, too. I quite like it sometimes. I did find that if it stains your teeth black, it's just inferior fish eggs, dyed. I'm okay with lumpfish eggs, however -- it doesn't have to be the fancy stuff. Not everyone likes this, for sure.
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Uprated. Until one has hunted, killed and processed an animal, or killed and processed a captive animal, we don't really grasp the whole thing. I think only once is necessary to see what it is. Personally, I feel that water creatures are sentient, feel pain, et c. Octopi have a full range of emotions, for example. Hey, even common flies sleep an average of 12 hours per day, and have REM, so they might dream. I'm worse: I feel trees, plants and the very ELEMENTS are sentient! I was reluctantly glad my spouse made me watch a movie on industrial poultry, as he'd get annoyed when I'd buy supermarket chicken. It really changed our lifestyle a few years ago. Interesting clip, thanks.
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Uprated, likely to share. What he said reminded me of the intensity I felt in Iceland. All the dark, cold, snow, ice, danger, morosity gives sharp contrast to the joy of art, the pleasure of still being alive, any warmth or sun or mild times, color, scents, touch, it sharpens you. I enjoyed smoked puffin there.
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Max Avila I'm looking for clips by him of France. I really was ill a lot my first six months here! The tap water has a lot of limescale (I had the same problem as a student in Italy -- takes time to adjust). I found the diet in France heavy on meat, fat, salt and sugar. It was hard to learn to "eat French," slowly, thoughtfully, on time, no snacks, small portions, little or no beverage with food, et c. I have a terrible weakness for the dry cider here, which is at 12% alcohol content (the sweet has only about 4%). You can go nuts with the wine here and it's easy to drink too much!! Brittany actually is not known for cheeses, due to its climate, but it IS known for "the best butter in the world." The soil is poor, the climate harsh, the people traditionally poor and working often with the sea and subsistence farming. If you get there, try to stick to local foods. They may seem very limited (I suppose they are, if they are local and seasonal) but this is not a French culture -- it is Celtic -- and French was not required to be used in Breton public schools until 1936. I recommend Quimper, at the tip of Brittany. There is an international airport not far away, and you get Celtic and French culture there (people do still speak Breton), the architecture is superb, the culture lively (universities are there, a good sign), there are canals, the sea is nearby, lots of water around, and you can get the most traditional with the most edgy and trendy there. Quimper has "something for all ages." If you then want to go to Paris or anywhere else, there is the TGV train (book in advance for best rates). The "party cars" for socializing and first class really are not necessary -- if you ask for a second class "quiet" car they are fine, and you can enjoy the bar area (take your own food and drink, discreetly, however -- they often run out of their overpriced fare). Brittany is highly favored by many French (and savvy others) for visits and vacation, because it usually costs way less and is very welcoming to families, travelers and yes, gourmets! It's huge, bigger than Normandy, and we still hope to visit the wild island of Ouessant, way out there beyond the tip and often cut off by bad seas for a week at a time. Breton food is very different from all other French food. I think I've been pretty much all over Brittany in the past 20 years, and there is an area inland or by the water to suit you. I recommend a three-week visit if you can manage that. If you want to contact me for ideas, I have a website noted on all my clips and there's a contact point. (I am retired and don't do guiding anymore for declared money.) If you want to try some Breton recipes in the meantime, I like the Susan Hermann Loomis book FRENCH FARMHOUSE COOKING. It is designed for Americans but works for anyone who is English-speaking. This is one of my go-to books for French "real" cooking. On a budget, even. She limits the anecdotes, but they are charming. Anyone can cook with French flair and authenticity with her book. Kenavo! (This is both hello and goodbye in Breton.) :)
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"No," not "nah." (I am teasing you -- good comment in a way ... ) I was born in '57, poor, white, sickly (foetal alcohol syndrome, then a vaccine), female -- statistically the worst things to be in the USA. I had no idea, which is probably a good thing. I was so naive and obtuse, when I got tired of having no coat, no food and being shown the door at 18, endured five years of vagabondage and have been homeless three times in my life on two continents, it's just as well I didn't realize my own limitations. Greetings from France via the USA (Ohio). Good luck, Ben.
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"Garde Manger" is a great name. People, that is a French cabinet or cupboard, large or small, fairly open or pretty closed, and subs for a fridge. Traditionally, the French do not have refrigerators. If in a city or town they shop daily or often, and if rural, they likely know how to store their produce, meats, et c. for up to a year, naturally. The garde manger keeps the kitty cat or vermin away from your paté and cheese and stuff. Things will keep in there for a little while. You find a lot of French with maybe only a tiny fridge but possibly a small freezer unit, separately. I've seen country folk and some city folk here who have cabinets over all their kitchen appliances -- they really don't want to see those machines when they are not in use.
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Vulgar, as usual, but funny, and interesting. Uprated. This guy on YT has Parkinson's, and he's Balinese, in the USA. Loves surfing. Was still well enough to do it about a year ago, and he and his wife saved and took their child to Bali so he could surf. The wife adores chewing betel nuts but got so sick, they had to stop the trip immediately and repatriate. Bummer, huh? He didn't say much, but I could tell he was crushed. All that money, and probably his last chance ... I would have tried one of those garnished sausages, absolutely. I will remember that and try something like that, vaguely, here in France. Thank you.
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I'm not nuts about people who have never hunted or fished a creature, killed it, and processed it fully, then cooked it fully, at least once. It's essential. One time, and your whole perspective changes. About the animal smells -- out by our place in the country in Brittany, France, a nearby farmer neighbor has a big turkey raising hangar. Stinky! Free range pigs are much appreciated in France, and they love it and are generally smarter than dogs, and cleaner, too, on their own. I kept buying industrial meats (and eggs) and my French spouse put his foot down and made me look at a documentary, and we went to visit his cousin and their industrial pig and veal farm. Even with their modern facilities and their experience with old-ways animal husbandry, it was quite an eye-opener. We took an American friend who was kind of stunned. I won't even drink cow milk anymore unless it's raw, organic, free range. (I prefer goat or horse milk, anyway.) I enjoyed New York City for 17 years and like Paris even better. Huge mix. I like learning other cultures, and have no specific bone to pick with, say, Muslims. That'd be like saying I don't like redheads or something. It does depend, as it does, for me, with, say, dogs! I don't like them all. Nicely presented with a polite and enthusiastic lady. Food is a tenuous but fun way to "travel" a bit. Uprated.
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I wouldn't say Paris is dirty, per se. Saint-Denis is grungy. The air is foul in Paris. Your plan sounds good. It does take time to make connections in France. For everyone! The expat and student community here, like that, do have ideas and possible contacts, but I find that stuff is always about 20% costlier. Even settled here, married, owning a domicile, it took me 13 months of constant searching to find a real job here. It's smart to stay here for a year continuously. Also, two to three visits in a year is a good idea. Gives you some ideas, some contacts. Even if a place likes you very much, they may not need you AT THAT TIME. It's up to you to keep polite contact and be available, and keep looking into it in general. I call it "the warm body" theory. I've gotten jobs where ever because I was the warm body they needed and at least reasonably fit the profile. All work here is by contract and there is a trial period for you and for them. It's actually a good thing! No one here, whether they like you or not, will inform you about the Code du Travail or the Convention Collective, so you have to do that yourself. Different legal system, different banking, et c. If you travel for training, it can be expensive, depending on from where, but season passes can make it much more reasonable. It's also tiring but if you are motivated and it's just for a year, likely you can do it.
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A lot of people here pick on you, and I don't know you, but I think they are not reading what you are typing and are just hurling epithets. The old rule of thumb for NYC was "one year." Once you got even a day past the one-year point, it was said you have the "right" to call yourself a "New Yorker." (I left in '94 and don't know the US really at all anymore, let alone NYC.) I didn't grow up in great surroundings in the dying Rust Belt of the USA (born in the '50s). I must say, immigrants or "different" neighbors who were new were met and supported immediately by their neighbors. They might need help with the language, getting work, sorting out stuff. Why was this done? We didn't "like" them (necessarily). But we didn't want them to be a problem or a burden. NYC took the same attitude in the '80s. There were signs up in the subways in various languages about getting work permits. It was very clear these were not "green cards" or anything but a work permit, and all you had to do was show up downtown, pay a low fee, prove you arrived in the country legally, and the same day you'd get something to carry around and show to potential employers that they could actually hire you legally. The infrastructure in NYC was a disaster, and the city had nearly gone bankrupt in the '70s. These work permit people were needed for the "horrible" work, the boring stuff, the dangerous stuff, and right away, they were producing revenues. It took a decade, but things did improve at least infrastructure-wise. I was there -- I saw this happen. I'm not saying this method would work again -- this was only for NYC, back then. But as far as I am concerned, or was, those people were "NYers" a day after their first year there. I was glad to be able to buy fresh produce and not have to walk a shaky plank over a huge ditch up First Avenue downtown. No guard rails, nothing. Long, smelly walk to the subway -- blood on the sidewalks. Coolest years in hell, ha ha ha!!
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Really fun clip! Sorry for triple posting. Hilarious guy, can't say I approve of him entirely, but I can absolute relate. I'm so lucky to have been kicked out at 18 and have been as many places as I have, studied and worked in so many countries, and be, finally, expat American. The lamb really brought back memories: one Egyptian guy in Paris who did wood-fire lamb chops ... well, as our host here says, "A cure for AIDS!" I recall being a bit freaked out by the food in Turkey, but by day three, I was in! In Turkey, often, in the smallest villages, in the brightly lit, clean and tacky places where families were happily chowing down in the evening, I was NEVER disappointed. Italy, get outta here, studying there was wonderful, making so many friends I still visit there, learning the language, and learning cooking. The UK, Scotland, Iceland, Mexico, Martinique, Belgium, (mixed feelings on Dutch food in The Netherlands), Switzerland, all of France for 21 years (chef's assistant), on and on ... and get outta here with African foods and "Arab" foods! Indian! Asiatic! I learned to make souse from scratch at home this past Winter. Cooked a whole pig's head! Oh, and nothing wrong with some of the American dishes I so fondly recall (half Pennsy Dutch). Super-fun channel. Easy uprate. Shared. Bless. Greetings from Paris.
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It was kind of funny. I had a short-term work assignment in The Netherlands, not far from Germany. We were in an office complex, shared space. It was nice, with bike paths and cows around. It had a tidy, orderly parking lot. In the center were some conveniences such as cash machines, some postal stuff, and a central subsidized cantine. The Dutch were very pleasant, punctual, friendly and efficient at work. They knocked off on time and rode away for their private lives but put in a full day's work! Lunches were bad, however. There were various gloops to choose from, often sweet and sour (which I like) and strangely shiny and non-descript. There was no texture, no crunch. I am an adventurous eater, or was, but there was no joy in this. I really understand why this form of cooking existed and persists. In the North of France, approaching Walloon and Flemish worlds, some traditional dishes are still gloopy and made with beer, et c. It was nourishing, and only one hot meal per day was the norm in much of Europe and the UK throughout history. Things had to be boiled for hours to be sanitary. Babies, the infirm, people with no teeth, all had to be able to eat from one pot. Dutch food tends to be too heavy for me. :)
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Yes, anything labeled "diet" or "light" or "lite" is to be avoided, I've found. That's a mean-spirited observation on my part about the coworker, but really, she turned out to be vicious. People buy "diet plans" and "diet foods" and truly don't seem to see they're just being sold stuff. I went on a diet which was horribly boring for five months and lost a great deal of weight. It was kind of just cucumber slices with vinegar on them and stuff, but it was all just normal food, I had to prepare it myself, it was very cheap. Just a boring diet, not a biggie. In nine years of working with her, she never got any thinner. Oh, well, hope springs eternal, y'know?
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I think people have a problem with the amount, that's all. It's not logical and it's unfair. That's like saying, almost, that an overweight person who fairly wins a sundae ought not to have it cuz they are already fat enough. I worked for 22 years declared in the USA and believe me, in Wall Street, you get pregnant and you kiss your career goodbye. Ditto over here in Europe for any "important" jobs. I remember talking to a very nice French man of Spanish ancestry (spoke no Spanish, though) who was mystified that his wife's career got lopped off because she had their two children. "She's a much better and more capable manager than I," he muttered, bewildered. "It's not fair," I said to him. "No, it isn't," he replied. We agreed. Nice man, very frank with me. I was forced to give up a career I loved for my first marriage in the USA. "Why work, I'm rich!" (K-Mart Corporation.) I eventually gave in. For all of his hell, I left quietly and got 8k USD. I was homeless, jobless in a horrible recession, he hadn't paid my basic health insurance, I didn't even have a bed. Nothing. I didn't want to end up feeding the fish so I just stayed away. Second spouse, 12 years of that BS and I owed him alimony in that state. Incredible. I said, take it all and sign this waver. House I bought and paid for, car paid for, bank accounts, my stuff, I need the mattress and a few thousand. I left, left the country. He kept demanding money and attention and stalked me over here in Europe. He meant business, too. There was nothing to be done for either of these. Oh, I have an inoperable hernia from a c-section, child did not survive. 1 billion is way less than half of his total net worth. So what? You don't know the reasons for the divorce. Anyway, it was judged.
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Blayer PointduJour
You might want to look into my Slovenian relatives in the Cleveland, Ohio area. I don't even recall their name, but the clevelandmarko channel can direct you. My Parisian spouse quit drinking well over a decade ago, but he was an absolute wine snob, and he was thrilled with that wine on a visit to my family in Ohio. He felt it compared with the lower tier types of French wines just fine, and I recall I found it highly, highly affordable. The regions just South of Lake Erie are great for vines. The weather is horrible, the people are horrible, but hey. I went nuts over the wines of the North Fork of Long Island, New York. You will likely have to bite the bullet when you find something you like, and buy a case at a time. I relied heavily on Astor Wines in NYC back in the day. I could get a human on the phone to help me select my orders, and even though I lived in Brooklyn most of my time in NYC, I could get in on their weekly Brooklyn delivery. I think when an economy is busy, wine prices can be quite reasonable. It's just a theory. I am in my sixth decade, and have lived, worked and studied in four countries. The poorer the population is, the more any vices will tend to cost. Despite what I hear from the sour grapes crowd in the USA, France is doing fine -- not everywhere, but in and around Paris, things have been gangbusters since 2010. The recession was hell in 2009, you could hear a pin drop, but it was very, very, very short term. A lot of people in France have a NICOLAS in their town, city or village. This is a "caviste." You can arrange for cases of wine and any specialty alcohols they have, but they also have these cheapies from family vineyards, general label, and it's about 2 USD per bottle. PointduJour means daybreak, right? xo bises
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Blayer PointduJour
I know it to mean "daybreak." "Pont" is bridge, "point" is a period in grammar or some other things. I knew some really nice Haitians in NYC. Very hard-working. There are some pretty funny names for people among blacks, in French. A flower or a month is a man's name, such as Hyacinthe or Violet, or Avril, and Dieudonné is a fun one, "God-given." Aimé (Amy) is also a man's name in French ("beloved"). A lot of people in the South of the USA have French names and they don't know why. They are probably descendants of French child slaves. Any unaccompanied child was seized until about 1800 (a little before). The parents or guardians had to show up and pay the fine, or the kid was sent overseas "to propagate the French race." This was highly lucrative for the régime(s). They either got the fees, or the price on a kid for free labor. I have an ancestor in the USA who was named "Favorite." He wasn't the favorite at all, she just had a lot of children, and that was the easiest birth, so he was "Favorite William." How did you end up with "Blayer?"
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Uprated. Well, I'm impressed, he's terrific! I've always heard about puddings, which I know can be sweet or savory. This would not fly with my French spouse, but I know it's good, I've been there, yes the stuff usually looks strange. The Italians do a version of an English trifle, which are also a dumped mess, but fantastic, called a "Zuppa Anglese" if I remember correctly. "English Soup." Theirs is a gloop also, but you know that in advance, and it's wonderful. It's their version of a trifle. The fully meat puddings, I'd certainly try them. Apparently, a pudding is very loved in the UK and marks a special occasion.
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I'm watching this again! Italy is fantastic. I've never been South of Rome but I'm sure the South and Sicilia have wonderful things. I studied in Firenze and have friends around Lucca and Pisa and we visit as often as we can, and we also enjoyed a long vacation in Venezia, which I already knew very well. I like to stay in room five at the Hotel Carpaccio, which is on the Grand Canal. It's in the old Terraced Palace and it's funny, when you phone, they deny they are a hotel, then it's full, then they quote you a high price, then you have to argue them down and say no, I know you're a hotel, I've stayed there six times, I want room five, please! The food is excellent in Italy, and I just bought an award winning oil in a port in Hyères, France. It was expensive but great to have back here in Paris. Not all the "small mill" oils are good, I bought one in Gordes my spouse didn't like, but a good vendor has a way for you to taste and smell it and usually you can visit their mill. I like the clandestine restaurants in Italy. I was taken to one way up on a mountain by an old castle near Lucca and Pisa. A Sardinian family was expecting us, you have to phone. For something like 20 euros each, we had great Sardinian wine, olives and appetizers, homemade ravioli and a roast suckling pig garnished with radishes. It was all fantastic, and I speak Italian and learned some Sardinian, which is really pretty. The food is awesome here in France and I've worked as a chef's assistant here in Paris, but really, Italian food is special. I really recommend a visit to Italy. You'll be hooked on the food so fast it's scary -- you'll realize you had no actual idea what Italian food is!
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Eh, I lectured history here in Europe after leaving the USA. It really is a sure sign of the last days of an empire, et c. Really. I hear you. I was a chef's assistant in Paris on a half-year contract and found it fascinating, have written two cooking columns, cooked for pay in the USA, such as it was, once as a live-in servant, and even still do sloppy, unedited cooking and market haul, sometimes even restaurant clips on my two channels here and Dailymotion. I love Europe's food culture, and the fact that so many French still don't even have refrigerators doesn't surprise me. Often, if they do have them, they hide them behind cabinets! They'd rather use a garde-manger, maybe have a small freezer, wrap, store and cure things themselves, even in cities, and shop daily for fresh stuff. It's still the tradition. It is my understanding from many of my German coworkers and clients here over the years that many German households still have someone there to be the hausfrau whether male or female, things may really close by the end of the day Friday until Monday morning (depends on where you are), so the shopping and errands have to be done during the week, during the day. Some small places in France still are closed entirely on weekends or only open until noon sharp on Saturdays, then BOOM! WEEKEND! Good luck if you want tobacco, alcohol, bread, a DVD, a newspaper, anything, hee hee hee! I'm half Pennsy Dutch, half Slovenian, so yeah, I get it. I've been right on the border of Deutschland so many times and worked in Heerlen, The Netherlands. I love Alsace. I'd like to at least visit Heidelberg, and I have American friends long-term in Berlin. xoxo
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That is excellent! When survivors don't have to worry about bills, they can be there, one hopes, out of desire to BE THERE.
I will never forget a Breton country French funeral in 1995, August, where I FIRST met my inlaws.
Three days of pagan rituals mixed with Christianity, and grandma dead at home to be visited for three days! Lots of Druidic stuff, herbs, a priest, holy water, like sitting Shiva, et c.
Right afterwards, I honed my French by listening to them complain about funeral costs, which really are not very flexible in this country. She also didn't fit out the door and had to be lifted out of the window, relatives cannot be pallbearers, et c. here. To her credit, she had not only arranged all her final expenses out of a minuscule, miserable peasant farmer income out of a lifetime as an early widow with many kids, but she left a small amount of extra cash to be given as small gifts. This was utterly commendable. The actual grief at her passing was still there, but there were no headaches other than the loss of the person.
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I remember at the French funeral for the grandmother matriarch I never met, a priest giving the eulogy was disapproved of by the family afterward because he said that the deceased had had health problems and had become reliant on others to care for her. This raised some indignation. I thought, well, as far as I can tell, the old woman was barely ambulatory in her last years and she lived with one of her sons and his wife, so what? It struck me as odd that such a small thing would be a bone of contention for family. Also, apparently her own sister had not been informed of her death nor invited to the long funeral, as she was old and in a nursing home and they either thought it would disturb her or they didn't want to bother with schlepping her over to the village. That, I think, was an error in judgment. When family members would die, the other family members had a habit of just not telling anyone, which did strike me as weird. That family hasn't acknowledged me since 2010 so today I am sending the remaining ones a cheerful French "January card" to remind them I am, indeed, still here, and they can kiss my American ass, ha ha ha ha ha ha ha!!
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Yes, there are also a lot of superstitions about boats, ships, water, the sea, et c. Some things are considered highly inauspicious. Last year I read a rather long piece on some of them, and also, the cost and trouble you have to go to to rename a vessel. Otherwise, the sea will not recognize her and will reclaim her quickly. If the TITANIC was, indeed, her sister ship, badly damaged in a mishap, then refitted, and disguised, not only was their structural damage, but the new, fake, cheating ship was doomed, if you believe superstition. At the very least, it's pretty rude to do what he did, in and of itself. At least to document it.
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Probably, today. I was born in '57 and had to cook for my brother of 4, alone, when I was 8. I always had to cook, clean, know how to iron, sew, fix things, garden, this was in a city, yet in Ohio. I had to keep highest marks in school. I was shown the door at 18 and said, go succeed.
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Horrible, but a good clip, well done, have to uprate and share it. I remember in NYC, at the NE corner of East Tenth Street and First Avenue, there was until surprisingly recently a place featuring bear-baiting! There were dog-against-rat places, with tons of dogs and rats buried in the cellar, raw boxing, McGurk's Suicide Hall, all kinds of stuff. I could see the remnants of some of it in the '70s and was able to get into some of the places and see the old ceilings, fixtures, wow! I recall on Avenue of the Americas (Sixth Avenue) at 24th Street I think it was, there was a building where I noticed an elaborate inscription up high, chiseled in, indicating a place with an arrow. It was a famous bordello. I recommend the book LOW LIFE by Luc Santé.
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Yes. For some reason I found acupuncture in the USA and France terribly painful, but the first time I had it, it really helped move a flu along. I understood what they are going for. Pressure points are useful, and I like curing my own headaches or migraines in minutes myself, alone, and quieting a fussy baby or kid in a meltdown. I see people doing all the wrong things. I found a chiropractor here in France who does an eight-minute touching using the weight of your head, and I only had to pay 15 euros extra myself. Worth it, as it felt like a long, restful four-day vacation weekend. I mentioned it to some pals and same as with me, first try, they were clear and rested. I learned long ago how to feel where a person's chi is blocked. I don't even have to ask them to undress or actually touch them. Never fails. I don't advise how to resolve it, ever, but they consult and I hear, yup, they feel better, easy to help. It's very painful and confusing when you're blocked somehow. I actually learned about pressure points from a Native American.
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It looks gross and I've lost my taste for it, generally, but it's part of my upbringing in the USA. My first fiancé liked a pig's knuckle. It was only a dollar five at the Odessa on Avenue A in NYC in the late seventies. I'd definitely sample anything shown here, however. Looks like tacky, beery fun. Greetings from France. Oh, I want to say, that being of Germanic extraction is kind of embarrassing to me -- even when underweight, I never looked "skinny," and I have "apple cheeks," an annoying complexion feature. Sorry, starting to get very off-topic. Cool clip, uprated, thanks.
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Looks nice! (I am gluten-intolerant, no beer for me. No alcohol anymore, either, for that matter, ha ha!) I liked a bull-shot in NYC. Mike at Morgen's East in Manhattan made nice ones in the '80s. Sort of a bloody bull -- lots of very strong beef bullion, a little tomato juice, and a strong liquor. (Don't recall which.) It could be treated as a Bloody Mary, with a touch of horseradish, a touch of hot sauce, a touch of Worcestershire sauce, a nice fresh lime wedge, even some celery. The Bloody Mary was named for the heiress to the Wanamaker Department Store by Astor Place in Manhattan. Drink killed her young, but she would ask for that, and her name was Mary. She drank with Ted Healy, who also died drink-related, was from Manhattan, and is known for The Three Stooges. Apparently, Mary was quite nice.
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Well, my health no longer allows for alcohol, but thanks for that advice. Beer ... I had some nice ones around the world. Made me sneeze violently! One of the last ones I had, I shocked my French inlaws. We'd been on an outing in sweltering Summer heat and took a break at a pleasant woodland terrace which served drinks, to cool off a bit. I asked for a glass of cool water, no ice, the way most Europeans like it, fine, and a "demi", which is just a half-liter or so of domestic French beer. The French can be snippy about women drinking. A Ricard or a Suze or a sirop and water might be better regarded. But dang it, I wanted a super cold beer! (Egad beer is good in Belgium.) For a lady to sip a demi in France in heat ... it is not unseemly. But when it came, I asked for a salt shaker, salted it (foamed up) and chugged it!! THEY WERE HORRIFIED! I tell you, that tasted MARVELOUS. No regrets!! I have been very polite and circumspect with three sets of inlaws, in the States and Europe, and sometimes, you just gotta do what you gotta do! xo from Ohio, NYC and Paris.
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Not a good idea to operate machinery on weed. Nor do anything requiring good coordination. Some people do not tolerate marijuana. Some people, it makes them sleepy, depressed, nauseous. I've seen this. Some others get paranoid on it. I knew one guy who smoked a little then stabbed his father 100 or so times for no reason. The father survived, but mutilated, his life ruined. The son, in prison and with psychiatric evaluation, has no idea why smoking a little pot did that to him. He agrees, it was without cause. I smoked for years but if I overdid it, I noticed a strange chillblain type thing on my front ankles. I found another frequent smoker, male, who had the exact same thing happen to him. He had been smoking a lot, too. As soon as we cut back, the problem cleared up, never to return in either of us. I quit permanently over 20 years ago. Too expensive. Demotivating. Altered my judgment. Not badly, but I noted it. I do love hemp oil and use it here in France inside and out. I'm interested in the tincture of cannabis now legal in Belgium for medical purposes -- no way to get high off it. Everyone I knew in the pot business in the States was involved with organized crime, the scary stuff. They were also vehemently against legalization, because it would kill their cash cow. They often colluded to push prices up. It just wasn't worth it anymore. I did find it nice, but it made me lazy, hungry, lusty. :)
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Doesn't look like it! My gal pal here in Paris worked in a coffee shop for two years in Amsterdam. Unfortunately, she found that for her, the pot did lead to hard drugs and she realized, I HAVE TO LEAVE NOW! We laugh about it. That's never supposed to happen! She only has a little champagne at Christmas and New Year's and is fine now! That's just her, however. She is from the UK and prefers the Continent, so she's here now and created and set up her own business in France. The coffee shops were super nice. That was the only place you were supposed to smoke, or at home, but I found those shops on a long visit very cool, I'd say, I'm pretty much a non-smoker at this point, I just want something light, what do you suggest? They'd show me the book, with page after page of samples of little bags of pot, hash, seeds, as you liked. They also had them for sale ready-rolled, which was handy! Amsterdam is nice! There is something there for everyone, most likely, even, still! I have one old friend still there, and another good acquaintance right nearby. I recommend Utrecht, also. It's incredible, but book early, it's in high demand! I am a former sex worker in the States and my French spouse had stayed awhile in Amsterdam and had a blast there, he bought his only tattoo and had Hanky Panky do it, he loved the museums, architecture, walking, canals, boating, and the Red Light District, he once went for four in a row! He said everything was nice, clean in the registered places, you be clear what you want, be polite, everything is good. Street hookers, watch out. The Tippelzone didn't work out and is gone. Good shopping, foods of the world, I enjoyed the tramway, it's just fine. I'm sure it's really hurt their tourism there to close the coffee shops! Now, you have to deal with dealers, who wants that?? Be careful about the weather when you go. It's super cold in the Winter and July and August are NEVER for Europe and Scandinavia, it's unbearably hot and crowded and EXPENSIVE! Here in France we go early season, may, and late season, September, twice a year and we have done vacations at other odd times of the year in Alsace, Rome and so on but we researched the weather to be informed. Yeah, good luck after college. I got two degrees in the sciences, with honors, and I can't really say it did me any good jobwise, in fact it was sometimes a problem, but I worked my way through, no debt, and enjoyed the studies despite the pressure, so fine! Amsterdam is likely still a good tourist destination, anyway. Just don't expect to smoke there! I was there in early November, cold but not at all uncomfortable. I think it was a five day long weekend, very stretched out. No idea where to suggest for legal smoking, left the USA 21 years ago, quit smoking EONS ago. Study hard! xo
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Really. And I hear you. I grew up in a very cold house and only the kitchen and right in front of the fireplace were warm. Tiny water heater, had to wait and take turns. Ohio. blecch! In the Lower East Side, NYC, in the late '70s, proper heating and hot water were not required of slumlords. Time for the pot of cold water on the gas stove, oven running, burners going! One day it was so cold inside, the water had frozen so bad in the toilet in that cold-water flat, it cracked the toilet!!! I hope this young man can be stronger from this and that people can learn from this. This clip is pretty educational! If you have a criminal record in France ... even your distant relatives may not be able to get the jobs they apply for, also if anyone is in debt trouble. Kids who commit crimes are usually taken from the parents and not given back (often) -- and they cannot ever get certain jobs, even basic ones, ever. I actually know some abused adults (as children) who were in foster care here in France, even one in a full orphanage all her young life, and the foster care people said it was good and it was just worse if they were returned home! The orphanage lady, I have a clip up named GILBERTE you might like! xoxoxoxoxo
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Thank you for the response. Maybe the guy is lying??
I did a clip recently on a French healthcare scam. I do two channels and don't recall where I posted it, but it's very recent.
This guy from the Ivory Coast, in his 50s, has AIDS and has been receiving care here for years and has a subsidized apartment and benefits. Apparently, he set up a network and got hundreds of illegal immigrants in lying and saying they have AIDS, too! And they don't! This is going to amount to millions of euros in cost and it's been going on for years. A doctor in Paris was involved, and others. It's an example of someone ruining it for others who might have a claim to care here and is very sad.
I got liver cancer in 2007 and was told I'm inoperable, but they sent me to a nice place to die. I used the Kneipp Method to heal myself in 2008. I have no problem with euthanasia being legally here (almost a decade now, most doctors don't even know about it but I have seen it done once in a public hospital and also had a business client whose mother was "put down" a few years ago from here, Laotian woman) and I don't think money should just be thrown at everyone.
I worked for decades in the legal profession in the USA and then here in France, and what the laws say is generally not reality. I've met corrupt judges, lax clerks and crooked attorneys. I think your viewpoint is a bit obtuse, but really, thanks again for the kind response.
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Wow, that black guy is UGLY! I'd be angry if you peed publicly around me, too, and dogs drive me bananas. Men, carry an empty Pringle's or tennis ball can, sheesh! Do that in your vehicle! I'm on diuretics, I understand, but UGH!! What a horrible place. I always remember Detroit and most environs as bad, going back to the sixties. That burger reminds me of the GEORGE SPECIAL sold at the Corral Drive-in on Arlington Street in Akron, Ohio. Quality burger with ham and other stuff on it. I didn't like it, but I didn't mind trying. There were some nice foods in the Midwest.
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I got very interesting in these screwheads while growing up in Ohio. By the seventies, when I was a teen, I was able to observe Rex Humbard et al. I'd sit fascinated by "Christian TV," such as it was, and had very close friends who had worked for these people and even been their neighbors. One had parents who'd bought the pink Cadillac of Maude Aimée Humbard she'd gotten in the fifties, already, a hoarde of retirees were ripped off for a non-existent retirement community, an unfinished tower was mournful in the Rust Belt, and a scary looking son constantly got busted for having sex with underage females in the congregation on the stage in the arena. A friend of a friend in high school had a juvie pal who found God and then fell asleep under Humbard's rising mechanical stage and got crushed to death. The eulogie was ironic -- "At least he found God after causing so much human death and destruction!" (He had been a mad bomber.) I saw "The Starlight Trio" sing on TV on a religious show. Three women with blank stares and their hands held constantly up, like puppets. In tacky dresses, with what looked like wigs on. They looked like bassett hounds.
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Erik Johannessen
Yeah, I moved from the USA to Europe long ago and different cultures have different etiquette, for sure. For me, a lot of it is basic hygiene and manners. I live in a culture now where anyone who works is a "worker" and valid, there aren't, generally, professions which are seen as "better," and poverty is okay as long as an effort is made to improve and the poor are honest. I got very tired of telling American male friends, good friends for years and years, what a handkerchief is (and I bought a lot of them for them), how to say "please" and "thank you," and how to go through some very superficial rituals (such as remembering an anniversary) at least shallowly so they could get it over with. I'm glad I still have American male friends à la distance, and one I consider like a brother or better, but really, most of them, well, they can be okay as friends but no way would I want to be involved with them -- they are clueless! I really feel for American males who get held to high standards by nasty females, I must say. That really stinks!
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Erik Johannessen
Well, some people like someone who is "exotic," of a different culture, of a different age, et c. I did know an American guy for years and he was openly nuts about me but very nice about it, quite proper. He is not good looking but it didn't matter, as he was so smart and funny, a hard worker, he had good manners, et c. He asked me to marry him. I was delighted but had to tell him that I didn't love him and I didn't think I could, but I wished I could as he was fine! This was done in private and I am glad I wasn't evasive or sneaky and that I was very, very sincere in my appreciation of his qualities. It's not as though I never met a cool American man! My Parisian spouse absolutely did not want a serious relationship with a French female his age. He felt he had nothing in common with them, which was actually accurate on his part. He wanted an older woman from another culture, someone who could speak French and who'd be willing to live here, but not one of his "peers." I did warn him, "Be careful -- you're going to have an older wife!" It depends on what we value and are looking for. I've read that women will pick a mate who is GENETICALLY like her father yet who smells nothing like him! Weird science, eh??
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Erik Johannessen
They do not have the same pain level tolerance women do and they don't live as long. They are not as productive as female workers are. Embryoes start as female and the male thing sets in after some months, not at first. Males are like a mutation, ha ha ha!! Really, you have only to look at, say, traditional Viking culture or, say, Jewish culture. Among the Vikings, the wife would get the key to the coffer to wear on her belt for life, and she'd have to raise the kids, deal with the animals, plant, build, do family business, and protect the home while the spouse was away, often permanently, to hunt, gather, explore, et c. Among Jews, the wife is the boss and men just go to work and turn over their pay, and to keep them out of saloons, they are sent off to pray, which is not considered very important as an activity among Jews. Men don't bond for life, generally, as women do, or at least not in the same way. They tend to seek "strange pussy" once "their" female has born them a child. They often need highly structured environments and a lot of looking after. They will tend to get violent and not be diplomatic, to seek peace. They tend to be likelier to kill and maim than females. They're often like puppies wearing lead helmets. They MUST CHASE THAT CAR, and when things go wrong, bump, bump, thump, thump and then they want a female to rush out and coo over them, "Oh, poor puppy, are you okay?" Answer: OF COURSE THEY ARE OKAY. THEY ARE WEARING LEAD HELMETS.
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Johan Eichmann
You may have to do some research yourself, get hard copy of the findings, and share it with doctors. I had to do that over here in France to end a long depression of ten years. (I am American-born.) I found something unusual we could try, I got them the documentation in French, was specific about what I felt would work, and they all agreed, yes, short term under supervision, I could try it. Bingo! Gone in two days, completely gone in two weeks (apparently, 2% of the population will respond to that and are otherwise treatment-resistent). My usual treatment stopped by the end of the six weeks we'd all agreed on. I knew a guy for decades with Asperger's, undiagnosed until he was in his late 50s. Very sad. He really had it, too, BIG TIME. He'd suffered all his life and also did damage, inadvertently. Didn't have a mean bone in his body. He kept INSISTING he was okay. He just COULD NOT SEE IT! I really hope you can sort it out with them. Don't give up, please. Hit the books!
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Yaarvis1
Salt activates things such as baking powder. All salt does for humans in flavor is stimulate saliva. It "makes" things taste better because our saliva flows more and begins to analyze and digest it faster. Not big on chemistry, are you? Salt draws the liquid from things; hence, vegetables we wish to drain and sweat, salt draws out acids and juices. Salt should never be used on red meats, as it toughens them -- draws out the blood. This might be desirable, as in koshering, or in making beef jerky, et c. Human needs for salt are real, but a single olive per day is enough for most adults, unless the weather is extreme or there is great exertion. "Soda pop" is heavy on salt -- does soda really really quench your thirst, or do you "need" more? Salt "makes sweets taste sweeter" due to the saliva increase. Again, it's needed in the development of doughs, batters and certain ingredients. Class dismissed.
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That's pretty much what it is. It comes in very yellow or whiter form. I find it tricky to cook and my spouse has little or no interest in it, so I don't do it, but it is typical of the North of Italy, say, Bergamo comes to mind, and once cooked, it can be chilled and then later sliced and heated up or fried and be quite a nice little side dish. I've only found the French to use it sometimes in the Southeast, mixed in with a cassoulet. My late father in law here in France did know what cornbread is when I made some and served it hot and fresh, but he remembered an impoverished childhood and they'd had to eat that and milk from their goat, so it brought back bad memories. Corn is sometimes served vinaigrette here in France, but not often. My French mother in law had it as a first course for farm relatives and they said, this is good, what is this yellow stuff? She said, "You grow it! It's corn!" Idiots.
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King Z
True, and I'm glad you saw a documentary. While bulking up initially, they may be required to get up and eat rice during the night, then go back to sleep. Many cultures do not actually count calories. France tends to be like that. Hey, many people think chicken has less fat. It has more than veal! The luxury of being sponsored, showing status for the lord patrons, being fed a lot, learning agility and discipline, must have been quite enviable in the old days. Overall, it does not seem great to be so bulky, but my French spouse and I took the time to learn and were happy to watch some Sumo competitions we could see. We could see how fast, hard and ritualized it is. I recommend a Japanese movie called, I think, FACES. It is not very old, really. About the young guy who becomes a ritual funeral man, and how he is stigmatized and his wife has problems with it when she finds out, and yet, he does it beautifully and it brings great peace to the bereaved and dignity to the deceased, no matter their station in life. Fantastic, powerful movie. We were just about knocked flat by that one! eeek Best regards.
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I can really understand your view. It may seem cold, but cost-effectiveness does have to be considered. I recall a college pal in NYC -- I met him again years later at a job. He was a long-term temp there. We met outside the job and this was a guy who didn't even have a beer let alone smoke a cigarette or do drugs. (He was not on benefits, btw.) He told me about a banking job he didn't even actually want. He'd been hired and told to show up in a month. But first, a drug test was needed. He didn't like it, but he took it. He went to work on Day One a month later and they told him he'd failed and would not be retained. He was incensed. He said, why did you waste my time? I want another test. They refused. It was an employment at will state, so he was screwed. I had avoided drugs testing all along in the USA and never agreed to it, and in my new country I have refused it, also. In my new country, even if you are fully disabled, benefits are not for life and come up for review every few years. It's not a free ride, benefits are slim and accepting them is considered shameful here. The legal system makes parents responsible for feeding, clothing and housing their kids for life, it is in perpetuity. If someone is a dole cheat and actually is some druggie, I say get them some help but yeah that behavior is not acceptable, I do not like it.
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Fun! We had a General Strike in France here in '95 for six weeks. (I do have a clip up about this on one of my two channels here.) I couldn't get to work, followed the procedure, and was at home, of course not paid, and people DIED during that. I went to a local hypermarché and got 1/4 of a sheep at a good price, all cut up into various stuff. For the next month, I read all my cookbooks about mutton and made so many different things. (It has to be twice-cooked to get the yellow fat off.) My spouse was dealing with anorexia and bulimia so wouldn't eat, but I really did some nice things with it, recipes from many countries. Some complex. One I tried involved a week-long marinade at room temperature with a light covering and keeping all the meat submerged, or it would spoil. I was amazed -- it worked! I do make game dishes also, and try to process the fish or animal myself. This looks fine, and the trap line system seems very good. Animals on roads and rails who die are sad, and it's dangerous. We have a lot of wild boar here, and if you hit one, say goodbye to your vehicle, and you could die. There are places which have free range bulls, horses, lots of different types of deer here, and near Paris, there are wallabies! No one knows how they got there, but they are prolific now and it's kind of funny to see the alert signs, but really, decades ago in the States it was late at night, very dark, and a big deer crossed in front of the car I had been asked to move from one place to another. I took it as a good sign, opened the window, turned up the radio, to avoid being asleep at the wheel after a long day of work in the heat. I've been a passenger in the car and a HUGE animal passes in front and the driver DOES NOT SEE IT! Incredible. I had this happen twice with my spouse -- a deer, and then there was a car stopped in the wrong place on a highway and he was going to plow right into it! Egad. Thank you so much, shared and uprated.
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MusingsofaJay
Non, c'est bon, je suis de langue maternelle anglaise, ce n'est pas facile! Je crois que vous trouverez du travail ici si vous êtes ici légalement et correctement et si vous trouvez le "droit au travail," ou si vous devenez citoyenne française. Votre français est déjà bon. Paris, c'est complexe et il faut de l'argent. Mais, je vous jure, les asiatiques sont beaucoup apprécié ici en génèrale. Les français, mêmes xenophobes, sont très habitués. Ils n'ont pas peur. Attention: le mariage avec un français vous donne uniquement le DROIT au travail! C'est tout! Avec le mariage en france, IL FAUT UN CONTRAT DE MARIAGE. Je suis triste témoine! Autrement, vous êtes un meuble, ou pire. Si vous avez une domicile stable ici, si vous avez le tampon sur votre passeporte quand vous arrivez ici (essentiel!!!!) et si vous êtes ici en légalité, vous pouvez gagnez un compte banquaire, peut-être avec votre petit employeur pour votre "petit boulout" quand vous serai élève ici (je crois que 10 heures du travail par semaine sont accordés), et vous pouvez demandez immédiatement d'être citoyenne, mais c'est dur! Département Seine-Saint-Denis, c'est l'enfer!!!! Je l'ai fais! C'est vraiment chouette ici mais aussi le reste de France est suberbe et beaucoup est plus facile que Paris et très intéressant. TRAVELAUTEURS ici sur YouTube a fait un entretien téléphonique avec moi vers février 2014 et c'est sur sa chaîne, 40+ minutes en anglais, au sujet d'immigration vers Paris (je suis née aux Etats-Unis) et j'ai deux chaînes ici sur YouTube, ainsi que Dailymotion. Beaucoup au sujet du travail, la vie ici, et c. Je serai contente si vous restez en contacte avec moi. J'ai un site Internet personnel et je suis assez facile à joindre. Ciao!
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MusingsofaJay
I wish to add I just checked the "translation" of my French and it isn't very good. I say that Paris is EXPENSIVE and that Seine-Saint-Denis can be okay to live in, but to apply for citizenship is hell in it, because it is the most populous département in all the Paris/Great Paris region, and you have to apply in the region in which you are domiciled. I started in Val de Marne département but moved to Seine-Saint-Denis and they lied and refused to transfer my dossier so I had to start all over again and pay all over again for certified translations and everything. I do not recommend entering France as a student hoping to work enough to live on or stay very long. I've never seen it really work out, or it was hell. I do encourage people to apply for work visas for a year at a time, because they are tedious and do cost something but then you do not have to worry, you can be here legally and no hassle, you can work, it is authorized. You might like "La Petite Couronne," which is all the near-suburbs and towns of Paris and usually has fairly good access to Paris via public transportation. Ivry-sur-Seine is hugely Asiatic, too. They are connected by tramway now, it's great, and the buses here are fantastic. I am totally used to them. You don't have to live right in Paris to enjoy it. I could actually walk into Paris were I in better health, from my apartment in Saint-Denis. They say the suburbs are nasty, but it depends, and I know three nasty areas of Paris I won't even drive through! So, there you go. Good luck!
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MusingsofaJay
Yes, I am from Cleveland, Ohio and it was dirty and so was NYC where I lived for 17 years. To be an intern here ("stagiare") pays about 350 euros per month, taxable I think, but you are likely to get half your public transport half-paid by the employer, and may also get lunch vouchers, which you pay a bit for and the employer shares the cost. It's essentially slave labor, but you can definitely gain experience in this way, and it's considered valid experience here. If you are strong enough to endure study abroad plus work, and not flip out as most seem to do, it will likely hugely enrich your life and give you more options. I loved studies in Italy long ago, and looked into work there, and found out it's not the greatest country to work in. I did a lot of research, made friends, applied for stuff and enquired. Great to be in Italy if you don't have to work! You will get a million miles ahead of most Americans with French pastry training. I had lots of cooking jobs in the USA and it was handy! I was a chef's assistant here, too. :)
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Tammc09
We are not under Anglo-Saxon law here. I do not have my married name -- I forever have my maiden name (but can style myself with the married name, as long as I specify the maiden name for administrative purposes). I'm French now, so how they slot me me in is most pertinent for me. You can't be buried where you want here -- you have to be domiciled there, own property there, or get rare permission. (You can plan and buy in advance, but again, have to be "of there" in some way legally valid here.) I am still "the American" in France, which bothers me, but it's just their way. Legally, I am of Ile-de-France -- Paris and its immediate environs. Misfit females historically become parisiennes. Chanel, Dietrich, Collette, and so on. We qualify quickly and are left alone as long as we can "dance the minuet," as I call it. Some, such as Baker, Baldwin and Simone choose a French domicile and are thus French. It does depend on your citizenship, your domicile, but again, it is a different legal system from the USA. Were I to call myself anything but a "dionysienne" here would be considered strange and incorrect. (My home is in Saint-Denis, just north of Montmartre, Paris.) If asked or it's required, I specify that I come from "l'amérique profond" (sp?). I can also say that, "Je suis aussi new yorkaise." But that's just something to add, if I care to respond.
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Patrick McStarsky
That photo is of me. I had a more current one up, but it got blipped away during a structural change. I work as a private investor these days and am online a big chunk of the day. If you think I'm kinda weird, you may not know many people who worked for a total of 42 years, declared, on two continents, who are retired, and who earn via investing for themselves, writing, doing radio, sometimes consulting, et c. Do you seek to censor me? To judge me?
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Justin Yau
I'm not surprised. I live in a highly mixed area just beyond the Paris, France border, and the ethnic buffet places get booked for an evening way in advance for annual events, such as a wedding, a retirement, a communion, et c. As long as the place is good quality and some parking can be arranged nearby, I haven't seen many of these places actually fail. Of course, most of them are open other times for walk-ins. Dining out can be pretty costly in France, even at modest levels, but people have a really different attitude toward it. A lot of people may only dine out once a month or once per season, even. I think I'd be more than willing to shell out for this Persian buffet shown here. This looks superb and I like to linger over special meals.
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Aaron Chartier
You don't have to finish your journalism studies and get a diploma to work as a journalist -- particularly abroad. Diplomas and professional certifications, licenses, do not export. Not for doctors, nurses, electricians, accountants, engineers, et c. You can obtain an equivalency but it still isn't accepted -- you have to learn the new language, the legal system, the administration, the methods, and obtain further certification in the new country. You can legally be an unpaid intern abroad for awhile. In some places. If you're a teacher in one country, okay, but it doesn't transfer (easily) to another country. (I know -- I was a registered representative in the USA -- I could work in European and Asian "Wall Street" but wasn't registered -- I've been a visiting professor at university level in Europe, et c. I had full citizenship in the new country, however, and was capable in the new language, had a good CV in their language, et c.) I did fine studying journalism formally but couldn't see why I ought to finish for the diploma, since I was already working, and I really didn't get much out of the classes. I got honors grades, but so what? So, I started in the USA at age 18, 19. In order for me to work in Europe, I can now, because I am a full EU citizen. My pay level in France will be limited, however, by my level of FRENCH education. That is how France works. You need a two-year diploma here to be a real restaurant worker, waiter, day care employee, et c. They do find it good if you have experience elsewhere -- very good -- but you're not fully up to speed until THEY say so. If you'd like to hear me on Radio France from '13, the clip is up on Dailymotion under LisaFalour, from about February or March of '13. I decided to post that one -- it was funny, I thought, and France voted it the program they'd like to hear rebroadcast out of all the others on Radio France for Christmas in '13. It's in French, but that's me. I insist, you do not need a diploma to be a journalist, to be affiliated with a wire service, to freelance, et c. You do need a work permit in order to do serious, declared work.
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*****
Agreed. Even when negotiating for a cash deal, it's best to show up with the amount you'd actually prefer to pay, which is less, and say that's all you could raise. If there is negotiation, you can then reluctantly pull out some more from elsewhere and say, this is for my bills this season! And the rest is in a third place. I was mugged in NYC on my birthday in '81. Subway mugging. I'd happened to have 400 USD in my handbag. Apparently (I was unconscious) they were delighted and took that, threw the bag in a trash can nearby and I got it back within 24 hours from the police, including a bag of weed, which they didn't care about! I was annoyed to lose the cash, and normally did not carry that amount but I was on my way to settle some bills in cash on a special day, so really, I just accepted it. Besides a bruised face and being locked out of my apartment for awhile (some transit cops helped me break in via a fire escape!) I just chalked it up to education.
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DrunkVegan
Ha ha ha ha!! My other channel name is slobomotion, and my spouse created that in 2007 but then immediately got bored with YT, so I took it over. This channel name, cutcatfaith, was created by an American woman who was coming over here to France in 2009 to marry a Parisian guy, but she immediately messed up her marriage and life here and dropped me. I thought, oh, well, it's a channel name, whatever. About a year later she threatened me to take it all down and it bordered on blackmail. Idiot American woman, in over her head from California. Oh, well!
Funny story, on your part!
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If people have Borderline Personality Disorder, they also tend to abuse things and will fail rehab EVERY TIME. Really sad, her mother says "Oxy-Cotton." Stupid. Well, the fruit doesn't fall far from the tree, even though I think she wasn't the biological mother of Alexis, if I understood that correctly. People don't realize, once they've had a substance abuse habit, no one can ever really trust them again. They might love them and forgive them, but forget about the trust; people would be insane to do that, anyway. I struggle to stay sober off alcohol and I come from a long line of alcoholics on BOTH sides of the family. I was even born with foetal alcohol syndrome, which wasn't diagnosed until in my 40s, here in Europe. It causes all kinds of problems for the kid when pregnant women drink, even a little. I wish her luck. People don't realize, once they've lost their health, you can't get it back, a lot of the damage is irreversible. Very good documentary clip, thank you. Uprated.
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I've always found funerals interesting and have attended in various cultures and countries. I have some clips up on this on YT and Dailymotion and just went to zeeklytv. In my own American family, the bodies were just disposed of, not seen, and it was a party, though a thoughtful one. I am in Europe now and have traveled to see catacombs and ossuaries, et c. I enjoy talking to Africans and have learned a lot. I enjoyed Jewish funerals even though they were sad. I felt that thoughtful wakes were very good in the USA, there was concern for the bereaved, food, money and aid were given, and, oh, I sold life insurance and long term care and disability policies in the USA, where I also did estate planning, with a legal background, and that was really good stuff FOR MYSELF. I helped people. Good clip -- thank you. Uprated.
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Yes, Wencher-not. I have a very old English language cookbook from what is now the UK -- early, early 19th c. There is talk of "bruising" cherry pits in the processing of making cherry brandy. I think in this case, however, since these are solid objects, it really meant putting strong weight on them to begin to damage them, so they'd yield more essence. Right about the gin. Not my drink, but I've had it shown to me how the oils must swirl correctly atop a properly made martini with gin treated correctly. I must say, one of the best martinis I ever had WAS gin and was way up in Northumberland, nearly in Scotland, at a manor house in the country with accommodations, dining and a small, bright, serious cocktail area for imbibing "at the correct hour." It was a Tanqueray martini and that lady did me proud. YEOW!!! I watched her and it did take a good minute or so. WHOOOOOOOO!!! :) Greetings from France via the USA.
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Yes, it smells as though they are frying or cooking chickens with the guts in and feathers on, on a burning tire, with hot peppers thrown over. I just talked last Friday with my lady pal from the Ivory Coast and she chuckled and said yeah, it's disgusting, but they gotta have it and they chop it up and cook the heck out of it. The next time the neighbors do this, after years of enduring it for a few days at a time, I will take over my big, good rotating fan and say, please leave your kitchen window closed, it's right next to our two bedrooms, borrow this super fan, pull the smoke and odor out into your living room and open THOSE WINDOWS or quit doing this! I just can't take it anymore, and it takes days to air out and clean our rooms. I prep, cook and eat all kinds of funky things so I'm not going to point a finger, but really, in an apartment building, hey! :)
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Rebuilt Gearbox
Horrible, eh? I don't know what I'd eat or drink were I back in the USA. GMO corn gave me immediate, severe asthma-like symptoms. I'd tried some samples from one of our clients in NYC, SARATOGA CHIPS, and had that reaction immediately. I told the boss and found out that the client knew this, didn't care, was getting rich. Yes, for table salt in the USA, I think I heard decades ago not to use it, to use sea salt, et c. I barely use it at all here in France -- my spouse doesn't like salt -- I'm not supposed to eat it -- but if it's really necessary chemically for a recipe, I use sea salt or hand-raked sea salt ("fleur de sel"). Took me years to clear up those asthma-like symptoms -- went to Iceland, that did the trick. sigh
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M Theory Enthusiast
None of my children lived. Due to family breakups and problems, I have been cut off from my inlaws three times -- all of them. Period. I had allowed myself to put down full emotional roots for this last one -- 21 years. I am truly devasted and each year gets sadder than the last, not being able to say goodbye, not to go to funerals even, nothing, it's horrible. Children are only part of the equation. I couldn't even visit my two houses in Brittany, my lands and forests, for the past five years. Sold and that was that, no contents (of mine) considered for me, no way for closure. Everyone seems upset by the dollar amount in this one! That is not seeing the forest for the trees. We don't see the judgment decision. People who live in glass houses shouldn't throw stones. You may have only a modest life, but what if? I am not a litigious person but really, I give judgment on this case wide berth indeed. There WERE family ties involved in this case, from what little I have heard. What, only a living child makes anyone valid? Are you that shallow? Those are my thoughts you asked for.
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Hey, in 2009 I decided to give away all of my own revenues to help Americans and in 2010 I expanded my offer to relocate Americans to France beyond my family, who'd ridiculed me in early 2008 and they ignored me and even sent some insults my way. No one wanted to come except for one guy, this black drifter who turned out to have Asperger's Syndrome and he was a juggernaut of destruction here and he went back two months later even though I'd found him a good, easy job and a nice place to live in Paris. He cost me about 20k euros. Well, off he went and I haven't heard from him since, plus I got a lot of insults from his "friends" accusing me of being some kind of bitch. As a seven year old I couldn't have taken you away legally but yeah, I hear you. Oh, well, I tried, and my helping ruined my health and subjected me to divorce with no alimony due me, I have no more families, no more friends ... that was for me helping. Good luck back there, and try to get out before you are 30. Countries such as Canada won't even take newcomers much if they are one day over 30. The USA seems to be some kind of gulag to me, behind a Virtual Curtain.
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