Comments by "FuzzyPanda16" (@fuzzypanda1684) on "How To Stop Being The "Weird Guy"" video.

Honestly, you can have a mission, but most girls will find the nearest exit long before it comes up in conversation. Cole is coming from a place where you approach a girl and she's actually interested in you, or is at least open to being interested. But when the first thing girls do when you approach them is cross their arms, cross their legs, avoid eye contact and look around for a way to get out of the conversation, have all the mission you want, they don't care.
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@ptralx3122 If it's any consolation, in my experience the better you look, the WORSE you do with women. Makes no sense, I know, but I did better when I was a very average looking guy. Since I've taken pride in my appearance, worked out and gotten a top tier physique, and overall look leagues better than I used to, I do substantially worse with women.
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Options, options, options. He keeps talking about options. What if you have no options? He says that the most important thing is to have something going on in your life. But that's assuming the interaction gets that far. In my experience, most women who are uninterested won't even get to that point in the conversation before blatantly displaying their lack of interest. If a girl is actually expressing interest in what you do, she's interested. But unfortunately, most girls will find the nearest exit before that topic ever comes up. As for lean-in-ness, I've been a gym fanatic for years. I'm routinely told that I look like a superhero or an action figure, am asked if I'm a personal trainer etc. Basically, I'm very into fitness and share my knowledge with anyone who expresses an interest to learn. I'm also very outgoing and social. The gym is the absolute worst place for me to find a potential girlfriend. Every girl at the gym that I'm interested in is either immediately disinterested, or initially shows some interest, only to become disinterested the next time I see her. Not only do we have fitness and health in common, but I have a lot of social proof at the gym as I know pretty much everyone there. That's on top of being one of the most in shape guys there. Yet it's zero interest, all the time.
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@UltimateTS64 Cool for you, but some of us can't get any interest from women regardless of how we carry ourselves or how outgoing we are. I don't care how "high priority" a woman is, but I'm not going to date a girl that I'm UNattracted to just because she's the only girl in the last 4 years to show any interest in me.
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