Comments by "FuzzyPanda16" (@fuzzypanda1684) on "The Rise Of Gymcels: America's Loneliest Men" video.

  1. Getting into shape will make girls check you out and respond positively when you approach them, but it's no guarantee that they'll actually be interested in you. And trust me, it's much less depressing to get nothing but rejection when you're out of shape than it is to get nothing but rejection when you're in great shape.
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  2. I've been in Baywatch shape with a very outgoing, charismatic personality for years. Despite this, I can't get interest from any girl that I'm interested in, and my career ventures have all ended in failure. I don't know where to go to find people who can relate to me. If I go to lonely men spaces, they're all shy, introverted and out of shape. If I go to gym spaces or spaces for guys who are confident and outgoing, they're all doing great and have seen wild success from their efforts. I realize that being a confident, charismatic guy who's in great shape yet gets nothing but rejection from women and failure in career is a very, very small subset of men, but there must be other guys who are in the unenviable 0.1% club.
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  3. If it makes you feel any better, I've been a gym rat for years as well, and have built a very aesthetic physique. I'm 5'9", have an attractive face, a full head of hair, and am very outgoing and charismatic. Yet I also get no interest from girls whatsoever. They give me initial signs of interest when we first talk, but without failure, the next time we see each other, they avoid me. I kept the hope alive for many years, but recently have given up hope. But I'm not drinking myself silly at a bar every night, that's too expensive. It's much cheaper to drink yourself silly at home. And when you know there's virtually zero chance you would have picked up a girl if you had gone out, it's clearly the better choice.
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  4.  @nomad6086  I'm not trolling, and I know it makes no sense, I get told all the time that I'm lying because what I say is impossible. That's why it's so frustrating and pisses me off so much, because it doesn't make any sense. I almost always approach, I very rarely get approached. Most girls seem to be intimidated by me, I'll catch them checking me out, and they immediately look away. I'll approach them and I can tell that they're nervous. They usually give lots of IOI's initially, smiling, giggling, hair twirling etc., but no matter how good it goes, the next time we see each other they avoid me. As for dating apps, I used to be on them, but at the end I only got 4 dates in 6 months and 3 of them ghosted or didn't show, so I deleted them. I wish I was making this up man, I really do.
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