Comments by "FuzzyPanda16" (@fuzzypanda1684) on "Why Men Are Weaker Than Ever" video.
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You're correct. The worst part is when you do all of these things: get into great shape, adopt a clean diet, work on your social skills, push yourself out of your comfort zone, make yourself talk to that girl you're interested in....yet get terrible results anyway.
The depression I felt when I was an out of shape, shy, introverted guy who did poorly with women is NOTHING compared to the depression I feel now that I'm in great shape, outgoing, charismatic, and routinely put myself out there and approach women, yet get the exact same results as before.
When you fail just as hard after working for years to become the best version of yourself...it's hard to draw any conclusion other than any version of you isn't good enough.
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I wish more women were like you. It's incredibly frustrating when you do all of these things: get into great shape, adopt a clean diet, work on your social skills, push yourself out of your comfort zone, make yourself talk to that girl you're interested in....yet get terrible results anyway.
The depression I felt when I was an out of shape, shy, introverted guy who did poorly with women is NOTHING compared to the depression I feel now that I'm in great shape, outgoing, charismatic, and routinely put myself out there and approach women, yet get the exact same results as before.
When you fail just as hard after working for years to become the best version of yourself...it's hard to draw any conclusion other than any version of you isn't good enough.
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In general, having a clean diet, working out regularly and avoiding porn will greatly benefit men in many areas, including testosterone, ability to stay hard, ability to attract women, and overall confidence and likeability. However, that doesn't mean doing these things will get you these results.
I had trouble staying hard pretty much from when I started sleeping with girls. It was always a gamble if I could stay hard, and as time went on and I became anxious about it, I pretty much was unable to perform 100% of the time.
So I started hitting the gym, got my diet under control, and generally sought to improve myself overall.
Fast forward a number of years and I was unrecognizable. I was outgoing, charismatic, confident, I had the physique of Captain America and had a very clean diet. However, it was hard to me to know if I could get it up because women were less interested in me that ever. I struggled to get a date, and getting a girl to actually show real interest was near impossible. No matter what I did, I was alone every single night.
All I'm saying is, you can do all the things that SHOULD get you great results, but if the universe hates you, you can improve yourself all you want, you're not getting the results you want.
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