Comments by "FuzzyPanda16" (@fuzzypanda1684) on "Stop Being So Damn Sensitive" video.
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I was a very shy, introverted, nerdy kid who got picked on and bullied from about 4th grade through the end of high school. I had no friends and of course girls wanted nothing to do with me, they wanted the buff, athletic, charismatic guys.
In college I didn't do much better and I finally decided to change myself. I hit the gym, learned how to be more outgoing and social and forced myself out of my comfort zone, making myself approach people and talk with them.
After a number of years, I was finally what I'd always wanted to be: a fit, jacked guy with a killer physique, a strong sense of confidence, and an outgoing attitude overflowing with charisma and energy.
I still get rejected by every girl I'm interested in, still feel isolated from people, still aren't invited to parties and still feel like an outcast.
I'm not sure where to go from here, but all I do know is that the pain of being outcast when you're a skinny, weak, shy nerd is nothing compared to being outcast when you look like the "after" picture of a physical transformation, and regularly put yourself out there with all the charisma and energy of a guy who's truly happy to be alive.
I just don't want people to get their hopes up, because while you can change yourself completely, it's no guarantee that you'll get different results.
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