Comments by "FuzzyPanda16" (@fuzzypanda1684) on "You Will Always Be Single If You Keep Doing This" video.

I went my own way...but only because every girl I had any interest in wanted nothing to do with me. I figured saying I went my own way was less depressing than saying I can't get a date.
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I've been introverted and I've been extroverted. I've had great jobs with great pay, and I've been unemployed and broke. I've been in fantastic shape, and I've been in "meh" shape. I've been charismatic and confident, and I've been shy and insecure. The only thing that has remained virtually the same is that women don't want anything to do with me, whether online or offline. Basically, what I've learned is that if the universe hates you, you won't succeed in getting what you want, no matter what you do.
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@PheonixAZ Thanks man, yeah I get comments/compliments on my physique all the time and see people staring at me a lot. Often I'll be walking through the store, turn down an aisle and a group of girls that were talking to each other suddenly go quiet when they see me. So I definitely stand out, that's for sure. Approaching and socializing isn't hard for me anymore, hasn't been for a while now. I'm the guy who knows half the people in the gym, goes out to the bar and not only meets lots of people but knows the bartenders and owner by the end of the night. If I'm at a gathering, I'll be the one to take charge and start going around and meeting everyone. If anything, I'm TOO social and it probably turns some people off because my energy level is always at 11. I've also tried therapy a number of times in the past and it never did much good. After nearly 15 years of trying to figure out what the problem is and doing everything I can to improve myself as much as possible, including many things that worked wonders for other people...I'm kinda just giving up now.
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@phoenixaz8431 Dude you can absolutely build self esteem and confidence. Up until I was about 22 I had no confidence and was very introverted and shy. I was a skinny, nerdy kid who got picked on relentlessly all throughout school. Finally, I decided to do something about it and took a weight training class at my college. Over the course of a few years, I went from a scrawny 120 pound weakling to a 165, jacked guy with 17 inch biceps and around 8% bodyfat. I get comments all the time on my physique and comparisons to celebrities. I naturally became a lot more confident and outgoing as a result. Unfortunately, what I discovered is that you can radically improve yourself and become someone who constantly gets compliments and has most guys assuming you crush it with women, yet you actually get absolutely abysmal results. It's the worst thing man, spending years improving yourself and successfully becoming a guy that most people look at as desirable, getting double takes and seeing people staring at you on a regular basis, yet somehow still getting no results. It'll drive you insane. The good news for you is that it's incredibly rare. If you work on yourself, hit the gym, work on your social skills, there's a 99.9% chance you'll see massive improvements in your results. But if it turns out you're in the 0.01% like me...I'm sorry. It's a pain I wouldn't wish on anyone.
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@PheonixAZ The problem with that is no girl is going to give you an honest answer if there's some glaring problem that's turning them off. The closest I've done is ask people I know, both guys and girls, but they all assume I do great with women so it's hard to get a legit answer.
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@thedannybseries8857 Yeah, I hear you. I go back and forth on what I think luck really is. It's definitely real, but I don't think the universe is sitting around making things happen. I think it's more that we're all living on various difficulty modes. Lucky people are living on easy mode, where things come together frequently and success is relatively easy. Other people are on hard or nightmare mode, where even if you do everything perfectly, things still won't work out.
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That sucks, but at least she showed up for the date...and replied to your text...and gave you her number.
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Wait...you actually get replies on dating apps??
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