Comments by "FuzzyPanda16" (@fuzzypanda1684) on "Why You Fall In Love So Easily" video.

  1. I was blown away at the "saw me smiling at her and approached me" part. I've been a gym rat for over a decade and the only result I've experienced from smiling at a girl is either her avoiding me after that, or getting pulled into the managers office and being told that a girl made a complaint against me for "making her feel uncomfortable". Now, I have approached girls at the gym and gotten reactions like what he describes...but the chances that the next time she sees me, she immediately goes into avoidance mode is 100%.
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  2. When you're young, you fall into limerence because you have no experience and think that this silly crush is the real deal. When you get older, you fall into limerence because this girl is the first girl that you've been interested in who has had any interest in you whatsoever in years. It's impossible not to immediately fall head over heels, which of course, will turn her off and make her reject you. Once you get over that heartbreak, when you finally find the next girl that's maybe interested in you, years later, it's guaranteed that despite your best efforts, you'll also fall for this girl immediately, which again will push her away. It's like a guy who's been kept in a nearly airtight box for years, then is finally allowed to breathe. Of course he's going to immediately gulp as much air as possible, even though he knows that doing so will make the air completely disinterested in him.
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