Comments by "D. von N." (@D.von.N) on "HealthyGamerGG"
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Not sure that kids want to master walking. They just want to reach something too badly that they learn how to get there when their brain and limb control mature enough. And they want to copy us. In everything. If you kept passing to your child everything it pointed a finger at, they might not even learn to walk before the age of 3. And once they stand on their legs for the first time (after we were encourageing them for some time with physical assistance), it is a great feeling, not that they wanted to master it. It is us who motivate them, praise them, reward them, so they keep improving. Efficiency comes as a natural side effect. When they are older, then they want to master their skills, to be the best they can, again, on our prompts. We want them to be the best and sow competitivenes into them. Too many kids will become couch popatoes with parent's ignorance.
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Not everyone wants rich social life. People who get addicted to screens can get addicted to anything, it is their crooked dopaminergic system. Others are less prone to it, I count myself among them. There was alcoholism in my family. I don't enjoy being drunk, after a few years in my late teens when I was frequent on discos at weekends. I started smoking at 18 and quit before 20, never touching it again, while my mother never quit. I do have a lot of screen time, but only while the joy lasts. When the algorithm doesn't suggest anything I want to watch, I put my music on and carry on with my long term embroidery project. It seems to be happening more often these days as I looked through most of the patterns of content creation and their purpose for commercialism. There are other activities I enjoy doing. Phone often stays in my jacket pocket from Friday evening up to Sunday evening. I am an introvert, social life is not my thing, if I don't count social media. I used to play downloaded games on the PC, single player, they became boring from being predictable and repetitive between games, not that my dopamine signalling got harmed.
Saying all that, I do take my time to get out of bed at the weekends, spending time on my tablet. But I was like that even over 25 years ago... before I touched internet for the first time. I am a night owl. I even prefer exercising at night LOL. Treadmill, weights, you name it.
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