Comments by "Cat Lily" (@Catlily5) on "Borderline Thinking | 10 Borderline Behaviors and the Thoughts that Cause Them" video.

  1. I am glad you are doing extra learning.
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  2.  @QueenofDenial10775  I was diagnosed with BPD but am not anymore so maybe I see things from a different perspective. I am definitely not normal though. It sounds like that was an unhealthy relationship for you so it is probably good you are staying away from it. I hope you have a healthy relationship someday IF you decide you want one. Good luck with life either way!
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  3. 6. Is so true for me with self harm. When I can't stand the mental pain anymore I self harm. When I was a teen I hurt myself almost every day. Now I hurt myself roughly once a year. Edit: Sometimes hurting myself is like saying F*** You to the world. I make sure never to hurt myself after a bad fight or break up though. It is not good for relationships. It is not fair to put that on another person.
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  4. There is never only one true love in life. There is more than one.
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  5.  @QueenofDenial10775  I know plenty of people who have experienced more than one very good relationship. Maybe one was a little above the other but it wasn't an all or nothing situation. They were happy in both relationships.
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