Comments by "Pob" (@goodlookinouthomie1757) on "7 Ways To Tell Your Partner Is NOT a Narcissist" video.

  1. I don't think my ex wife is a narcissist. I mean some of these points for perfectly. For example in 21 years of knowing her, she has never apologised to me for anything. Not one single time. Nor could I discuss our relationship, which is related to the previous point, but mainly because any constructive feedback was always taken as a direct attack:, "You're blaming me for everything" etc etc... The other point that somewhat fits is she was always quite adversarial toward my family. Not through jealousy, but more because she thought they talked her down behind her back and that I joined in with it (which I didn't). This manifested to some extent in other areas. She would become convinced that everyone was talking behind her back. At parties, at the school gate, at her work etc. However, she was always happy to let me take the lead on going out to dinner, choosing what movie to watch, choosing (and cooking her) dinner. Also she was true to her word. She rarely lied about anything, was very honest and up front about what was in her mind. Another thing that you mentioned in other videos was narcissist women using sex as a tool of control. Well, I can assure you that was not a feature of our marriage. Love bombing you say? In my dreams 😂 So no, I've concluded she is not narcissist. I am still unsure exactly what her particular issue is.
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