Comments by "Pob" (@goodlookinouthomie1757) on "Why WOMEN DON'T APOLOGIZE: understanding the nature of the problem" video.

  1. It varies. My ex wife apologised to me one single time ever and that's because she had been an absolute b**ch to me and both her best friend and her mother told her as much. That was the one single time. Contrast that with other women like my sister or a very good friend I have... two women who are remarkably humble and self aware. You take pot luck with women.
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  2. I think there must be some evolutionary reason for it. Women are all about social standing and I think it puts them in a very vulnerable position to admit fault. Men on the other hand ancestrally had to prove themselves with tangible results and there was no covering your fuck ups. This is why men respect other men who take their lumps and learn from mistakes. Just mulling over theories because I've known several women who are actually really good people, but for whom it is incredibly painful and traumatic to admit they were in the wrong.
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  3. I used to think my wife was some kind of bad person because she never apologised for one single thing in all the 15 years that I was married to her. She was bang out of order on many occasions, but in every single case there was a mitigating circumstance such as I did something that made her react that way or what was I complaining about her actions were perfectly reasonable. I came to realise she simply couldn't apologise because it was too painful to do so. I mean she actually felt real physical pain in any situation where she even came close to having to admit fault.
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