Comments by "Pob" (@goodlookinouthomie1757) on "You'll be safe if I don't pay for your panini" video.

Paying for the meal is like holding the door for a woman. It's courtesy. What's the problem? It's not about showing your wealth. It's about showing respect.
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@nepdisc3722 Firstly I have never taken any woman out for a meal of any kind on a "get to know someone" first date. Coffee is a much better way to do that. Secondly, when the two of you do decide to take it to a second date, why does the meal need to be fancy? As I said in my comment, it's not about the amount of money, it's about paying the appropriate resect and tradition. I'm not wealthy at all - nor am I classist, I'm traditionalist.
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Louis you can't just sweep a querer million years of human evolution under the rug. That's what this is about, not 21st century western-social values.
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You missed the point, Louis. When she said a woman feels "unsafe", she is talking about the primal lizard brain emotions that women feel, but don't usually say, about men. It's the inverse of feeling "safe". She's using the word safe to mean protected.. cared for... provided for... All of which are the ultimate considerations for a woman choosing a lifetime mate.
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@Zenith_Star69 Wait... did I miss something? Did the guy turn out to be an actual predator? I missed the part when she said that.
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