Comments by "Goldenhawk583" (@Goldenhawk583) on "Mental Health Treatment"
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I grew up pretty much like you did, have many of the same issues, even now, 56 years down the line. BUT getting a lot better.
Would you be willing to experiment with something nonharmful.. that MAYBE could help with at least depression and anxiety? I repeat, what I could suggest, is not a drug, not a funny fad, or anything weird really.. but I need to know if you are willing to try, with absolutely no risk of harmful effects of course, you have had enough of those :) It is working for me, but I am no medical person, so this is not medical advice.. just a tip from a fellow sufferer that anyone can try.
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@elenaarkocheva1202 And it is people like you, that makes life ten times harder for those young adults trying to make a new life for themselves.
1, your husband is not the blueprint for every child in a similar situation.. humans are individuals-
2, you are entitled to your opinion, thank heavens , that does not make your opinion correct, or something anyone else have to pay attention to. ( Like all of us:P)
3 Where are your manners, not only are you calling people liars ( you say you dont believe what you are told by a stranger). Not only are you defending people you know absolutely nothing about on a personal level, the mothers, But you manage to strawman the whole argument, by rudely telling ( strangers) that they have done everything wrong( even if you have no clue what anyone has actually done),
In short, you are rudely mouthing off a random thought, with no real information to base it on. Have someone accused you of bad mothering maybe?
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that blonde babe Hmm, good point, that could be it too.. it is just so.. very easy, but many are very opposed to it, and claim the opposite is the right thing.
Well, I think I read a question in your comment :) And I will tell you what helped me ( after decades trying everything else), its as simple as meat. Just eat meat.. and eat just meat. It stabilized my mood a lot, it got rid of digestion issues, it is healing other physical issues, I can feel it improving.
Removing plants completely from my diet helped me a lot.. A huge lot. Including alleviating cravings for sweets and junkfoods.. it is still there, but barely noticable.
I need no supplements , but if you were malnoursihed when starting, you might need some initially...but you need those anyway.
And it is easy.. get meat, cook it ( or not) eat. No stressful soppinglist or weird ingredients.
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@tulinbeyduz920 Funny, is it not? They say abused children become abusive parents.. I find that the majority of abused children, do their waaay best, to become better parents ...why, because we know what hurts, and we dont want anyone else, least of all our children, to experience that. :)
I met the man I am still with, when I was 41, I am 56 now. He too had a very turbulent life. We understand eachother, we dont expect too much of each other, and we give eachother space to be who we are. We are different in some ways, I see , or try to see, the good in people. He is very alert about seeing the bad in them.
He is not the father of my children. That was another failed relationship for me.
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@lierox9 If dad comes home on a daily basis, he can step up to the plate after work.
My father , way back when, was a sailor, he didnt come home every year even.. that was not enough.
But even if you are a tired dad, after a full days work, you can still love, hold, and play with your child. The child does not miss daddy doing dishes, they miss someone telling them, and showing them they are worth spending time with.
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@elenaarkocheva1202 OK, let me make a short example.
There is a duckpond,, some person throws stones at the ducks. Another person asks, "why are you throwing stones at the ducks?" The stonethrower answers "I want them to fly away"--. "But they cant fly, can you not see they have clipped wings?"--"" My duck flew away after I clipped his wingfeathers, that means these ducks can too"
Right now you are demnding others to act like you did, it doesnt work that way.
I am not "blocking" you. I am telling you, trying to make you understand.. some of these ducks have clipped WINGS, not just the feathers.
Some children handle stuff better than others.. we are not all the same.
And when people have childhood PTSD, it means they are NOT reacting like mature adults, but like the children they were when the trauma first happened.. it is a trigger.
They can be absolutely mature in all other ways. Just by coming in here and sharing ( some of) their issues, is being mature and wanting to heal.
Your demanding they should stop whining and just magically be healed makes things worse, not better.. and, to be honest, it is a less than mature way to deal with people that hurt.
So I cant try to show you , your opnions may be off.. So.. you are perfect? Godlike maybe? You are always correct and never wrong? Nothing you do is ever bad? People love you because you are always so sweet?
YOU are blaming these people of being whiney, and not taking responsibility for theiir own childhood instead of blaming parents.
You are blaming these people og\f wrongfully blaming parents ( that you dont know at all)..
But ME blaming you.. thats a no no? Grow up.
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@elenaarkocheva1202 You are all for trying,.. what exactly are you trying?
If I told you that my mother would have psychotic episodes, you woukd probably tell me that no, she was nt , she was just needing an evening off?
Right now dear, you are the proverbial elephant in the chinashop.. walking around breaking stuff without even knowing it.
When your issues stem from childhood, they are NOT just "issues one has as an adult".
Happy and well adjusted children, who got these issues later , for other reasons, would NOT blame childhood or parents.. now would they..
You have an idea about something, you think you see something, but it isnt there.
And then blaming people for not fixing their issues.. what are they? a broken table?
A damaged psyche takes time and individual therapy to fix.. sometimes it will never be completely fixed.. You have NO idea how much effort any of us has put in, yet you still judge.. wow, arent you full of yourself.
I have been in this game a long time, I have been trhough the fear, the anxiety, the suicidal needs, the rejections, the " just pull yourself together" atttude so many times im sick of it.
I am me now, just me for better or worse. I have CPTSD, with flashbacks.. But I have found I am actually a better person for it now, and I am no longer afraid. I dont care what anyone else, including you, think about me. I just get pissed when people like you, plop in and tell people off like you have done.. with no regard to possible damage.
Its fine if you dont know.. just dont push your ignorance on others when you have no clue.. would that be a fair request?
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@businesscrabi649 Yea, no thank you. I am doing fine without any book god. Your english is just fine, and I appreciate your calm tone.. Most christians would tell me god loves me, then say that i have to be a good little slave, or he will kill me.
Unfortunately some of the same is in the quran.
Book religions have killed more people than anything else through history.. I find all of it tragic.
I am not refuting a divine aspect to the world, I have had things happen to me, that proves it to me on a personal level.. But what it showed me is this.. Divine love is there when we are born, and remioans with us until we die.. no matter who you are or what you do, and that is ok. Our "trial" is simply living our lives as best we can, having fun, hurting noone.. those books demand a lot of hurt, be it the bible or the quran, both of them have passages that people use to justify massmurder, honorkillings, opression of women, slavery, sexual abuse and so on.
I can not accept those things, I will not bow to any of those things. And if god or allah has a problem with that.. they can talk to me in person. They dont.. that is not how the divine works..
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@sandracmyers No offense, but you do come across as slightly unstable here.
I have not TOLD anyone to eat anything, I have told them what worked for me. It is perfectly safe biologically and physically, if it wasnt.. say I ate vegan.. I would never even mention it due to the multiple pitfalls and danger of a plant only, diet.
If people want to look into it, fine.. if they do not.. fine.
Now about killing.. Your agriculture, monocropping unnatural ways, your pesticides and herbicides that is needed to keep animals and local plants away from your food crops, Kills far more individual animals than all the animals killed for food world wide.
Pasture raised animals, pastured in ways that mimich natural herd grazing, turns deserts back into lush grassland.. deserts created by monocropping and toxins depleting the soil over years of malpractice.
So you kill wildlife of all sorts.. and not just that.. you want the exctinction of farm animals as well, based on emotional reactions, and not actual science, not facts..
Btw, vegans become emotionally unstable, this is well known. Crnivores become emotionally stable.
Example.. I made a suggestion, tried doing it in as respectful manner as possible. Noone has to feel pressured to follow it..
You go off on me like a cokebottle with mentos.. and you eat plants...Thank you for the demonstration to prove how going carnivore makes it easier to deal with weird shit :)
I am not even remotely upset, lol
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@EmoPrincxss666 I am not going off on you, what I will say, is written while I am sipping my coffee, and feeling relaxed. :)
It may have been meant well, but why suggest something the demands extreme amounts of self delusion ?
Eli can have whatever faith he wants.. free will, freedom of choice and all that.. But any .person who reflects on what they read, and they read the bible, starting at page one, ending at the last page.. And still think this is "good"...I question their logical skills.
The bible is pro slavery, pro subjugation of women, pro racism and pro child abuse.
Jesus has this to say about that:
Jesus says that he has come to destroy families by making family members hate each other. He has “come not to send peace, but a sword.” Matthew 10:34
Jesus says, “Don’t imagine that I came to bring peace on earth! No, rather a sword lf you love your father, mother, sister, brother, more than me, you are not worthy of being mine. “The real beauty of this verse is that Jesus demands people truly love him more then they love their own family. I ask you how can we love someone that we can not see or interact with? Love is an emotion pertaining to physical existence not to faithful ideologies, yet God threatens you with death just because your love for your mother maybe stronger than your love for him. (Matthew 10:34)
Families will be torn apart because of Jesus. “Brother shall deliver up the brother to death, and the father the child: and the children shall rise up against their parents, and cause them to be put to death.” (Matthew 10:21)
Jesus strongly approves of the law and the prophets. He hasn’t the slightest objection to the cruelties of the Old Testament. (Matthew 5:17)
So, yea.. I suggest book god followers keep it to themselves :)
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@EmoPrincxss666 Exactly. Also using clothes that mix fibers, making art , working on sundays.. just to stick to the nices sounding ones. Yet, several of these are actually punishable by death if broken.. yet they dont worry. Why? Because punishment never happens.
Many also seem to think that Jesus changed the religion.. he did not.. he made it seem nicer, but he makes it clear that ALL commandments are to be followed ( over 100 actually), and many from the OT.
One of the nastier ones, is to kill anyone who promotes another god, or another belief.. like me. And not just me, but every man, woman , child and animal, in my town.
Not doing this will render them unfit for salvation and heaven.. yet noone does it.. they are better people than that, most followers have a far higher ethical and moral standard , than the god they grovel to.. makes no sense to me.
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@MechaSegaNite So, you are saying that one bad action, makes another bad action ok.. because it was a little less bad?
True, I am not a victim, not anymore. Being a victim, is a state of mind more than anything else.
One thing that harms a lot of people, is religion. Is this a true or a false statement?
So, for people to "kindly" push their religion on voulnerable people.. is irresposnible, no matter how well meant it is.
People may be persuaded to go to a church of some kind.. but you never know what kind of teachings they have..If the priest is a kind soul.. or an abusive one.
All I want is some honesty, that is rare in chats like this from religious people. I have met some,. but they are rare.
Rather than admit that your religions has been the cause of millions dead and tortured, you toss out a strawman.. communism.. which has nothing to do with the topic at hand at all.
Please note.. I am not denying the divine aspect in the world. I am refuting the book gods.. there is a difference.
As for me not caring.. that is your view.. its a lie, but you have a right to mean whatever.. I dont care what you mean about that:)
I will stand between voulnerable people, and people who push an agenda, any day of the week, and I will not move.
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@playanakobi4407 that is great, and for some, that works for a bit.
How ever, I am not talking about combining meat and veggies.. I am talking about eating meat and animal products only.
This will make a difference.
Of all species in the world, Humans are the only ones that consistently eat a diet that is not species appropriate. Humans are obligate carnivores.. this is what we are designed for over hundreds of thousands of years.
The plants we eat today, are mostly human made, as in, they exist nowhere in nature.
Even if one is of the opinion that humans would eat a lot of plants, anyone should be able to agree on,, that it then would have to be local plants, that can be found in nature, and not the modern grains and veggies.
Some insist we eat ONLY plants.. but of the people who try this. over 80% drop out in the withing the first 5 years, and 90% of those, report catastrophic health failure as the reason.
And while we can eat meat and animal products and get all we need form that, eating plants "only" , means you have to take a lot of supplements. Now, how did that become natural? I have yet to see a a supplement bush 0.o
I am glad you are feeling better :)
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@salemcrow5078 dogestive tract is very close to carnivore, our stomach acid is on par with scavengers , like vultures and hyenas.
Unlike most animals, we are among those few that do NOT make B12, that we can use ourselves. Meaning, we do make it, but too far down the intestine to make use of it.
Unlike rabbits or guineapigs, we do not make a "pelleted" poop that contains it either.. so we can eitehr eat our poop.. or we can eat meat and animal products that naturally has B12.
The human gut has no specialized chamber for digesting plants. Fibers remain intact, as they scrub past the delicate lining of our intestines.
Any diet is better than a fast food, soda, higly processed diet, for loosing weight and feel better. But within 5 years, 84% of everyone going vegan quits, over 90" of them due to catastrophic health failure.
There is no issue about vit C unless you keep eating plants with your meat. With meat only , you create uric acid, whch is a much better antioxidant than citric acid ( vit C), So, unless you keep eating some plants, scurvy is not an issue.
We have several vitmins we depend on for good health, that we not utilize properly on a plant diet, as plants do not have fats ( think local crops), and not everyone likes avocado, or can get coconuts. Veggieoils are higly corrolated to inflammation and heart disease.
A meat only diet, with some fruits and berries when in season locally, is natural food for humans. And covers all the bases. Tastes good too, and when kept in good conditions, animals improve soil and repair damaged fields.. unlike crop growing.
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