Comments by "Rat mommy" (@MrRatMommy) on "Psychology with Dr. Ana" channel.

  1. i get furious from people who run away bc it solves nothing and i find them super weak in their personality to not look into my face and try to find the best solution so we can both calm down quick as possible
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  2. 4:35 people who expect to be accepted but instead encounter rejection tend to react with more hostility 4:45 nobody as dangerous a a humiliated 5:10 is big precursor for revenge 7:20 the more you are exposed the harder to get prejudice 7:45 !!!!!!!! 9:00 change gear 11:45 fire starter 12:20 authority
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  3. i wish some content about the super sensitivity of epople and how they take their feelings to justify unreasonable impulsive damaging actions that ghost or suppress the interest of another
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  4. 15:50 optimism and pessimism as risk factors or good-enhancing factors. 10:43 if they have a strong sense of morality they will not judge it weird
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  5. to me VERY GOOD because i dont need to see needles!!! i clearly want to speak up how useful they are to me.
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  6. 12:50 narcissism is comparison
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  7. 4:00 beneath of narcissists 4:30 why can you not just conform, why are you so difficult? 4:45 target on your back for adressing stuff 6:43 projection
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  8. i have had contact with a girl for a couple of months until once i told her that i really look for these people, whom i can trust. as currently i feel i dont have that REALIABLE, FUN and openminded positive anybody.... she never talked to me again. even better: a guy with cleeeaaarly avoidant character and partially sometimes a perfect character and attachment, who is on medics bc of depression, told me thqt wtf why here in switzerland everybody lets you down and nobody shows any affection or ever tells they would want some more closeness. he said he has nobody. and then i find one person and we build him as a friend together to be a group to add him to one other friend to be four and he never gets back to us again after being with us soo often and soo long and he would not want to go for 12houesrs and stay at mine forever. PEOPLE ARE SO WEEEIRD and inconsistent and instable, man
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  9. 12:47 resume
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  10. 3:15 7:07 mature communication unless deficits are looking to recreate their own deficits in someone else 7:30 DBT "DEAR" 9:31 self love and giving sharing if you dont value yourself
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  11. 8:30 not being responsive, not reaching out 9:40 mental health days - absenteism and presenteism
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  12. 10:00 unhealthy responsibility for feelings Film about psychology from ryan gosling or ryan reynolds
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  13. 3:13 control in dynamics
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  14. 6:50 responsibility
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  15. 11:00!!!! 12:00 also 1:29 what you think of someone tells more about you than about this person 2:30 2:55 backlash effect succed in a male field 3:10 gender role 4:25 equally sexist 4:55 sexist 5:10 anger 5:50 7:20 10:10 what can we learn. sexist stereotypes
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  16. 12:27 relativism
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  17. 2:30 Asi-low Shaidulli
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  18. 7:37 aisylu sha in the role of the yeller, whom you must place in front of someone they respect to stop her escalating. but.... her lovely doesnt want to know any of these cxonflicxtrs, bc he knows her best and better and doesnt vare about all the rest and our emotional hysteria about her constant abuse. that it must have an end.
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  19. 9:00 important dropo in
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  20. 16:00
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  21. 13:00 al blame shifting
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  22. 9:50 net negative when rude or whatever
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  23. 7:00 proximity creates connection
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  24. 7:00 when the narcissist is angry over and over. not an angry person but missing the entitlement by others that they cant get out of themselves but need from others.
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  25. 4:50 video- start 6:10 whi do you intend to find and how to progress growing your network
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  26. 22:29-22:44 12:04 19:05 20:45
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  27. 5:40
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  28. hi Ana, tbh i found your structured videos better and easier to understand. this one confused me and i dont know clearly whats thw point and where. compared to other videos qhere you said how moany points youd name and maybe even in the beginning od all as a mini summary.
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  29. 5:12 quantity over quality 5:17 didn't show up didn't care didn't support judged didn't invite to things
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  30. 7:42 twist oneself into a Brezel
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  31. 9:45 aslilo 20:50 turn of victim 22:50 24:30 ein personality type der immer wiegt 28:03 33:40 learn
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  32. 8:00 projection around 6 plus accusing the other of what you are and excusing only for very minor stuff 22:45 over protected
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  33. aisylu, almost 100%
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  34. 6:30 asilow shaidulli one again DESTROYED 7:55 perfectly mr volo
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  35. 10:00 alle Freunde von 'Asilow' shai dulli, na 14:00 cancel aggressors 16:40 difference between project your own aggressive thoughts or assumptions of your suffer to see empathy
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  36. 16:45 milgram experiment und noch 2 Versuche 18:25 anima (shadows in you of the opposite sex)
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  37. 0:36 1 dissmiss your boundary 1:33 they think people have no right making requests of them 2:02 limit someone's autonomy (übergriffig) 2:50 denying 4:00 distorting 4:25 accountable not. 4:35 justify 5:00 they have the right to do whatever they want!!! 5:10 harsh with other when make a mistake 6:43 they re entitled and you have no right to ask respect from them 6:55 usually no empathy for the person 7:55 you aggressor for standing up for yourself 8:35 punish, conditioning treatment 9:00 ignore our violate your boundary in the future .
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  38. 5:00 can break a person for delusioning them too rast, they could crumble
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  39. uiuiui, i see 1 person opened, so i guess i was the first, wow. crazy things happen. but probably by the time i finish this comment, there are already 10
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  40. 8:00 !!! until 9:30?
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  41. 6:10 resilience = emotions regulation ability 7:10 9:10
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  42.  @MaryDunford  cats eat mostly meat and they are killer machines and kill even for fun. read scientific stuff about it, not from political cat lovers. and this means dor all other animals grrreeeat suffering. i will never support having such violent way of fun at home. i dont need to be responsible for deaths of very sweet animals ghat jusg look different to a cat and are different size. :) again: sense of morality can come up here.
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  43. Lets check on Aisylu Sha this evening from all her distorted fake-polite subtle pressuring behaviours. curious to hear the video later.. dont hear the words watch their intentions......
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  44. 7:54
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  45. 6:08 criteria for NPD 9:13 scapegoated bc you see through the manipulations 12:53 partial empathy 13:43 they care. but they dont care that they hurt.
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  46. 15:00
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