Comments by "Elana Vital" (@ElanaVital83) on "Never Give Up"
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7:41 DAMMIT THIS IS WHAT I'M TALKING ABOUT. When I was in my 20s there was this guy named Bill that I was crazy about. Cute, shy, glasses, looked alot like you only probably shorter and blond. I was a model at the time so I guess you would call me a "normal attractive" girl. But I was raised to believe if a girl makes the first move, the guy will think she's a slut. I tried so hard to get his attention and he acted like I didn't exist. I'd hint to him how I wish I could go out after work with someone, try to talk about his interests, EVERYTHING. Once I literally "accidentally" bumped my ass on his crotch as he was trying to pass behind me once. But nothing. I wondered if maybe he just didn't fine ME attractive.
YEARS later he finds me on Facebook after I got married. I jokingly told him how I used to have this huge crush on him and he was so shocked. He said he had no idea at the time, didn't think I'd ever like someone like him because I "was really hot" (noticed he said WAS...the fuckwit) . I wanted to kick his teeth in!! HOW DO YOU NOT NOTICE A GIRL BUMPING YOUR DICK WITH HER BUTT?! He was so self-absorbed in his own insecurities, my come-ons were literally invisible to him.
I regret not making the first move, but we were both young and dumb, our heads full of stupid assumptions. Don't be young and dumb, honey. Quit the pity party and start living.
Your ex was an abuser. Don't listen to the lies of an abuser.
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