Comments by "DavePazz" (@davepazz580) on "PsycHacks" channel.

  1. It's important to never take any woman's words so literally, as they say a lot of things out of momentary emotion or simply to sound "proper" among people... If these women saw you with an actual young 20-something girlfriend having a great time (i.e. her status getting a boost from being your partner), trust me, they'd all quickly start re-evaluating this idea...
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  2. Never judge what a woman says but what she actually does... Money/status = attraction because the end result is identical...
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  3.  @ThePompeii  The problem is you're looking at the average 50-year old man in such situations, and you have to keep in mind that the largest majority of men do not actively do (or have done) anything to fully maximize their potential... Just like if all you do is look at current statistics, you'd find the large majority of the population is overweight, not physically fit and on very bad diets... so mortality rates will reflect this directly. But what of the people who decides to exercise regularly and follow a heathy diet? Do they not stand a better chance at overcoming those stats on health and mortality? It's really the same exact thing here... those men who work hard to improve themselves financially, physically and socially always stand a much better chance at a successful dating life than most men who take very little to no action in these areas of life.
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  4. Because it reminds them that time is a factor going against them in the dating/mating game.. These women feel similar-aged men "belong" to them and don't like that younger women are taking them instead...
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  5. I always have a good laugh when women say "If we date much older it is purely for money and we are so confident he’ll give us his money..." as if older men even care this is the reason... Once a man is getting sex from a younger woman, he's not going to care about any such motives... he's gotten what he wanted.
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  6. I don't know if I'd call it "possessiveness" exactly... more like entitlement.
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  7.  @trqster  Lol look how quickly these bitter old women resort to shaming tactics... this is what the school of feminist ideals teaches them.
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  8. It made absolutely perfect sense...
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  9. Bro, women are human beings who are allowed to express their sexuality any which way they please. And likewise, men are allowed to not like whatever they please about women... being ran through is one of them. That's what being a grown up is. Being a "grown up" is also accepting the consequences of your actions and not expecting everyone to accept everything you do... Stop objectifying us by comparing us to dresses, it's gross and dehumanizing and makes any man who does that look really unattractive. Just accept that this is exactly how men look at women... life isn't a Disney children's fantasy. If you want a quality woman who loves you, make her feel safe by seeing her as a human and not some rag you feel like you got duped in paying too much for. In other words, you want men to kiss as* and "simp"... yeah, no problem! Honestly there are better therapists to listen to that don't pit men and women against each other and actually care about you finding real love and intimacy. Sure there are... like Dr. Oprah for instance! Alain Botan is one, Dr. Ana Psychology is another, Matthew Hussey is even better than this guy. If they come recommended by you, then I doubt it... Stop dehumanizing women and teaching men that it's ok to do so, you're a therapist, you know better, and you know the detrimental effects sex shaming can have one someone's mental health, not to mention our society and culture as a whole. He didn't "teach" men anything... he just basically laid out a man's true thought process and said in a very direct fashion, something you can't handle. The truth is the truth regardless of who says it...
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  10. Or it would suggest the man in question is actually attractive...
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  11. And women only look at men as ATMs...
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  12. This is what bitter feminists say to make themselves feel better about their own very poor life choices...
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  13. In other words, the truth hurts...
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  14. Of course, nobody would say the Elephant man would be attracting women even if he were a multi-billionaire... and I'm also not implying that a mere bank account number alone will do the trick. But from what I can gather (from years of closely observing), is that once a man "leads" with some type of financial success and status (i.e. he openly shows that others find him to be important and influential), women will then be able to "better appreciate" a man's looks (i.e. it becomes a non-issue) assuming he looks decent enough.
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  15. No, it's simply a matter of pure common sense and using your rational brain... Women with multiple partners obviously aren't interested in any long-term relationship, or they were never deemed valuable enough by any previous man to even want to hold onto for any length of time... Her past sexual and relationship behavior is basically spelling out that she's a failure at real relationships and sex is all she's good for... what self-respecting man would want to commit to such a woman?
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  16. These silly feminist shaming tactics won't work here...
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  17. The general rule still applies however...
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  18. No, he's saying men don't want to pay a single penny more than the last guy to enjoy the same benefit...
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  19. "Most older men want younger women for their looks, and that's it. Any other ideas from older “average” women are just delusion and fantasy. Sorry guys."
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  20. In other words, it actually says the truth...
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  21. Because older women feel entitled to the choice men in their relative age range...
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  22. Too bad companies don't take this same attitude when looking over potential hires...
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  23. Not all, but the large majority...
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  24. Women are well-known for saying such things before making exceptions for themselves later... these generalized statements are pretty meaningless in the real world.
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  25. Throwing a coin in the ocean and finding it afterwards is hard. It may seem like a valuable accomplishment because doing so is hard, but I consider that perception an illusion. Not a good analogy at all... Finding a coin in an ocean has no instinctively human, biologically driven rush of testosterone behind it... it's not just that a man attracting and sleeping with multiple women is very difficult (and it really is), it's that every normal, healthy man has this goal as his ultimate physical purpose - it's a universal male desire that can't be shamed or argued away. Personally I don't like it if a man sleeps around. Men don't "sleep around"... they "take the opportunities given to them" by women (which have to be earned ) - men don't control access to sex, women do. I almost broke up with my fiancé because he wouldn't stop talking about other women at the beginning of our relationship. "Almost" broke up? You should have right away... Turns out he was just feeling self-conscious and wanted to seem more experienced than he was, but it caused me a lot of grief at the time. Seems he lacked maturity... nobody likes a poser. I agree that women are on average far more willing to forgive promiscuity than men, Men can't be "promiscuous" because men don't control access to sex... Be that as it may, not only are women (in general) more willing to forgive such a thing, but they also actually expect the men they are into to have high partner counts... women never want to be alone in wanting any man - they need to feel they are in competition with other women and have to win his attention. but there's been studies confirming that only experienced women think it is good for a man to be very experienced. I personally don't think this really matters all that much in the grand scheme of things... Low- and medium experience women like a man to have some experience but not too much. Well, these days there are tons of single guys around with zero to "some" sexual experience... if what you're suggesting were true, all these guys would have all the virgin (or low-experienced) women pounding at their doors. Yet that's not happening... so I'm not really buying into that idea.
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  26. When women say "Just be yourself", they mean "You better have some game"...
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  27. I guess in that case, it's also "unethical" for companies to ask for a job applicant work history...
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  28. This it's also "irrelevant" for companies to ask to see a person's work history when applying for a job?
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  29. I don't think that's possible...
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  30. You analyzed everything wrong... I suggest you re-watch the video and this time, listen with your head and not your emotions. If men wanted high sex for little pay then a former sex worker would be of higher value than a church mouse but ask any onlyfans girl, men of value will not look at them. Seems you don't understand what "value" means to a man, and here's a hint: it's not what women perceive as being "valuable" in men... Sex is one thing, and a woman of serious-partner potential is entirely another... so it's perfectly possible for a woman to have a sky-high "sexual" value (i.e. an OnlyFans girl or internet model) yet have zero serious partner potential - men instinctively know this. It's because men are stuck in a neandertal mentality that a woman's worth is based on her virginity, like "Mother Mary." What would you like it to be based on? Her annual salary? Her skills at video games? At some point, you're just going to have to grow up and face the fact that the large majority of a woman's worth is based on how little her body has been used up by other men... why should any man pay a single penny more than the previous guy did just to get the same benefit? But woman have rightfully fought against this because our value is not in what is between our legs. You can't "fight against" a man's natural instincts in which women he deems valuable for partnership and which he doesn't... sorry, that's not how this works. These silly feminist shaming tactics of yours aren't going to work here... We are actual whole human beings with minds, hearts, and spirits. So you think you can just "demand" to be thought of highly by men just because you make these silly statements? Again sorry, that's not how this works... It doesn't matter how many men we sleep with and more than it matters how many women you slept with. Men aren't women and women aren't men... the sooner you understand this, the better it will be for you... I guess if you are going to continue to teach people that treating women like pocket pussies is the best way to go then you'll never be out of a job, will you? He's not "teaching" anything here, just stating what every man automatically feels by nature... just accept it and move on - you're not "entitled" to being seen as valuable by any man just because you demand to be just like no man is entitled to be seen as worthy by any woman no matter what he says. Please grow up...
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  31. Thats what bitter feminists say to make themselves feel better about their own very poor life choices...
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  32. Women are known to talk a lot of B.S. before turning around and doing the very thing they claim they'd never do...
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  33. Doesn't matter, he's still right...
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  34. How could you have been stupid enough not to?
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  35. You sound grumpy yourself...
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  36. There are many ways to find out and many detailed fine points to look out for... but to simplify things here and avoid an overlong post, if you notice a woman having a lot of guys as friends (both in the past and in the present), chances are high she's got a sizeable body count. You also have to learn to read between the lines when they talk about themselves... though this comes with experience, often times they basically let you know themselves how they've been jumping from guy to guy over time.
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  37. Nice idea, but a virgin man does not = a virgin woman. Thier value is worlds apart... a woman "saving" herself for marriage has only positive attributes and is in demand, whereas a man "saving himself" is simply just another guy that can't get laid.
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  38. You need a psychiatrist...
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  39. Yet women judge men according to their "monetary" value all the time and nobody protests with a single word...
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  40. Because men are the only ones that care... plain and simple. Men can't even be "whores" because men don't control access to sex, women do... therefore, only women can rightfully be called whores. Any man that doesn't accept the offer of sex from an eligible, appropriate, attractive woman that is free is not valuing himself whatsoever... you got it backwards. You still have a lot to learn... just take the doctor's word because he's 100% right on this one.
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  41. There is no contradiction in that whatsoever... either she has done these things before with others or she hasn't.
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  42. It doesn't...
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  43. Bullsh*t...
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  44. The truth always comes out one way or another...
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  45. It's just an old feminist shaming tactic designed to make these ran-through women feel better about their very poor life choices...
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  46. And this comment of yours is that of a classic bitter feminist who has to say such things to feel better about their own very poor life choices...
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  47. The most important factor in attracting women isn't looks, but financial means and social status... So no, only women's peak SMV is early 20's...
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  48. It doesn't matter... he's still right.
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  49. And I hope the woman makes the exact same amount of money they guys does... no double standards.
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  50. This is what bitter feminists say to make themselves feel better about their very poor life choices...
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