Comments by "DavePazz" (@davepazz580) on "PsycHacks" channel.

  1. "Men marry women hoping they'll never change... women marry men they hope will change"
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  2. No because it doesn't work that way... men aren't women.
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  3. And without that, the other is pretty much worthless...
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  4. As opposed to... his equal being his own age? Men aren't women and women aren't men... stop acting as if they are on in the same. These old feminist shaming tactics won't work here...
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  5. Just like male and female both have a right to spend all of their money... but when a man has no money left, he's not looked upon the same way a woman with no money is.
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  6. That's not how this works... basic human instincts don't change because of the number on the calendar.
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  7. There is no such thing as male "promiscuity" because men don't control access to sex... women do. So you have it backwards: It's actually not men that "want to have their cake and eat it" but women... women control access to sex, women decide which men can or can't have sex (only a certain percentage of men are ever chosen for this), but they also want all men to share fully in any shaming and negativity that takes place for accumulating sexual partners. That's not how this works... It would be as absurd as men that beat up women crying that "Women want their cake and eat it too" and wanting women to share full blame and get just as much shame the man would get for getting beaten up because they talked back to them or something ridiculous like that. What you left out about prostitution is that instinctively, men don't want to have anything to do with prostitutes and is very off-putting in many ways... the mere act of paying for sex to a man is admitting he's a loser and not sexually attractive. The lock and key analogy is pretty spot-on perfect... it accurately describes why some women are valued as serious relationship material while others aren't. Just like women do the exact same to men... only it's based on other factors such as wealth and status.
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  8. Men can pay for sexual access, but it's still up to the woman to offer herself in such a way first... Regardless, reducing sex to a business transaction is not what the vast majority of men aspire to do... men that use the services of prostitutes have other issues and don't equate to anything relating to this video topic. I have no idea what cultural aspects are directly at play in a place like Cambodia and yes, there are a lot of mentally or psychologically screwed up men in the world... but if you took a survey of young men and asked them if they would prefer to become an attractive man able to date attractive women, or would they prefer to live life "buying" sex from prostitutes, the overwhelming majority would instinctively choose the first. And about those 50% of married men... you do know many marriages over time become sexless, right? Often times wives neglect their duties to her husband, so such a stat shouldn't be surprising... definitely not an advisable thing to do for me personally, but I guess some men do reach that desperation point. So how is "being chase before marriage" working out for men in general? Not very well according to stats... the large majority of men are either virgins or have very limited sexual experience, yet most have dropped out of the dating scene entirely from lack of results (i.e. they are being ignored by most women in the dating market). So while it's such a pretty little quaint idea that "men are expected to be chaste before marriage" sounds so good and wholesome to say, real life says otherwise... for the large majority of men, such a "chaste" state isn't leading to any reward in the end. Not sure what "plethora of other factors" you're referring to...
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  9. Ask a 45-year-old man if he even cares if the 25-year-old woman is sleeping with him "because of his assets"... the answer is hell no. As long as he's getting his, that's all that matters and he'll be more than happy... that's all that counts for men.
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  10. It's not "sad" but simply how men are wired to be... Men don't instinctively seek "relationships", quite the contrary... for a man to even consider a relationship the woman has to really stand out and show she can improve a man's life.
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  11. That's not a reason at all... simply put, older women aren't in demand because they are no longer in their physical prime.
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  12. Same thing applies to women... but instead of "how many men she had", replace that with "how much money he makes, his career and status". See how far that advice gets you...
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  13. There should be no need to "disguise" something so natural and logical as judgement of others... Everyone judges other people all the time to varying degrees over various things... either consciously or subconsciously.
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  14. Men can't be "promiscuous" because men don't control access to sex... women do.
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  15. It may be "uncomfortable and annoying" for women to be hit on constantly by random men all the time, but believe me, all that will eventually come to an end in all women's lives once their prime years have passed... That's when all those years of taking such attention from men for granted comes back to haunt them...
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  16. Wrong...
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  17. Only if that woman isn't a good enough partner...
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  18. Wrong... the truth is men don't want to pay a single penny more than what the last guy did just to enjoy the same benefit. Only bitter feminists trying to make themselves feel better after a lifetime of bad choices say things like you did...
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  19. It only becomes important once a man is ready to take the relationship very seriously... otherwise, men don't care if it's only a casual relationship that's not going anywhere.
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  20. Correction... guys with good genetics and status rarely have more than one woman. I've seen more than enough physically great looking men get rolled over by women because they lacked money and status to back up their appearance...
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  21. But still right...
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  22. The truth always comes out one way or another...
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  23. So if a woman wants a man making 200K a year, she must also offer the same... If a woman wants a man to be 6'2" tall, she must also offer the same...
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  24. What other reason is there?
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  25. Nobody said any of that... just stop.
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  26. A man proves his value by other means... women place almost no value in a man's body.
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  27. Yes, they should know these things about a man... Just as a man should know a woman's sexual past... both are relevant to their overall value.
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  28. You're not having what... common sense? It's not a "double" standard because men aren't women and women aren't men... It would be like saying it's a "double" standard that a male weightlifter is judged as being "weak" for the same weight load that a female lifter would be considered "strong" if she could lift it... See, male weightlifters have one strength and performance standard, and female weightlifters have another... to try to use the same exact standard for both would be asinine simply because men have a very marked physical strength advantage over women by nature. Same applies to sex... women control access to sex and have a marked advantage over men in the mating game - men do not have this power whatsoever. So logically, a different standard must exist for both.
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  29. That's what women say they "ideally" want... but at the end of the day, they're going to end up with whoever is available to them and whom they value, regardless of age (within common sense reason of course). All women are "gold diggers" to some degree... don't kid yourself on this.
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  30.  @claff4573  Wrong... such a key would have much more value than the lock. Your second analogy makes no sense at all...
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  31. There is no such thing as "genuine" attraction... If she's sleeping with you, that's "attraction" enough for whatever reason... you wouldn't want to be in most young men's shoes in today's world anyway.
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  32. Yet here you are watching a video on that very subject...
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  33. An assumption made through obvious evidence...
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  34. As soon as you said "creepy" all credibility was lost...
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  35. Ditto for women...
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  36. No, just speaking the truth... "Rejected" would imply some sort of initial proposal was made to be refused... such is not the case with older women long past their prime.
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  37. So in other words, men take zero accountability for corrupting women and taking something from them that they know they don’t want? Women "corrupt" themselves by their own actions and choices... stop blaming men for your own lack of self-awareness and common sense. Men are disgusting, by your explanation. No... by your own incorrect interpretation. Men are just men and women are just women... each has their own unique challenges in life and their own nature the other must deal with. Women are unfortunately stupid enough to give you what they think will earn your love and you take it knowing the barter. Just like many men are stupid enough be constantly nice to women, compliment them and treat them well and do things for them in the hopes of being seen as good enough for sex, which 90% of the time will never be granted to them... No woman is "owed" love and commitment from a man just because she gives him sex... just as no man is "owed" sex by any woman no matter what he does. You’re right, man and woman are not the same. No sh*t? Sex gets a man to love you and love gets a woman to want to sex you… that’s why they love bomb (they’ve evolved, ladies). The same way the majority of women "sex bomb" the top 10% of men in the hopes he will choose one of them to fully commit to and ignore the rest... What we need to be doing is teaching young women how to reach for far better men fix their picker and hold off on the benefits until a man proves he’s worth it. What you need to be doing is stop buying into modern feminist ideas... that would solve much of the problem right there.
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  38. I own a bridge in Brooklyn I'd like to sell you...
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  39. The truth comes out over time...
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  40. As long as the young woman doesn't look like a teenager and the man in his 40's doesn't look like a senior citizen, there really won't be as much of a problem as some here make it out to be... Not all men in their 40's and 50's are identical cases... just like not every 20-something woman is physically attractive.
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  41. That's only because the vast majority of men don't bother to maximize themselves financially, physically or socially... The vast majority of men are perfectly fine just being average and leading average lives... so they end up with average results in life and in partners (which these days, isn't much). So nobody thinks such men are "common"... they are uncommon in fact for the very reason I just said. Not all men age "better" obviously... but there's no reason to think most couldn't and a man's value to women isn't tied to his body anyway. Men aren't women and women aren't men, so you can't make such a direct comparison like that anyway.
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  42. I know not every woman is like that... but most are, and that's the reality most men have to deal with. It doesn't change anything said in the video.
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  43. If this were true, then all the "younger" men today wouldn't be leaving the dating scene in droves as they are doing now... they'd instead report back how much women are going crazy for their youthful bodies and have to fight off all these women coming after them with sexual desire. Instead, we have the total opposite situation... So no, women do not "value physicality" anywhere nearly as vitally as men do in women...
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  44. None... just go overseas.
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  45. In other words, you didn't like the truth...
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  46. You're misrepresenting what he said here by leaving out the specific context of that advice... He didn't say being "sexually easy" was the only thing a woman should do to land a choice man... there are other things that are equally important (such as being exclusive with such a man). This is a lot different from what's being discussed in this video, which is about just racking up high body counts and expecting to be valued by a man as if she didn't have any body count.
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  47.  @vijayvijay4123  That's not exactly what he meant... By "conversations", he means initiating a direct route to progress a relationship leading to sex... that's what men do by way of initiating "conversations" which women never do. Women do start normal conversations, but they will still expect the man to take the initiative and progress the events leading to sex... she won't take over what is a man's role in the dynamic.
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  48. The large majority of "younger" males these days are dateless and sexless... so this comment means nothing.
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  49. Nice try, but that's not going to work here...
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  50. Same for you...
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