Comments by "alukuhito" (@alukuhito) on "Husband Unable To Forgive Wife's Infidelity is Haunted by Letter | Mark Jensen Case Analysis" video.

  1. It does make sense actually, because everything was fine until she broke the trust. She's the one that destroyed the marriage. This often happens. One person in a couple cheats, the other tries to forgive and move on, but it's impossible, and they end up cheating too, because why not? They were betrayed.
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  2. Yes, and you should also have the fortitude to leave your partner if you're the cheater.
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  3.  @QuilaGee  Maybe he wanted to make her pay the ultimate price for what she did to him. Anyway, both of them should have ended the relationship once the cheating happened. She started it.
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  4. Mark was in the wrong, but Julie destroyed the marriage which led to her own death. If you cheat on your partner or have been cheated on by your partner, end the relationship. It makes me wonder what kind of counseling they received if they decided to stay together. No counsellor should ever suggest a good course would be to stay together. Cheating causes wounds that never heal, as was obvious in this case.
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  5. She started it. She should've ended the relationship when she cheated.
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  6. People have been killing cheating partners since the dawn of humanity.
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  7. *cacti
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  8. Neither was she though.
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  9.  @ardenalexa94  Of course cheating is never an excuse to kill anyone. I never said that. The best solution is to leave the person and let their karma catch up to them, and get on with your life.
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  10.  @raymonddriggers You sound obsessive. Couples don't have to spend all their free time together and it's certainly not in any regular marriage vows to do so. Besides, that's not an excuse for cheating. There ARE no excuses for cheating. If you're at that point, leave the relationship.
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  11.  @raymonddriggers  Cheating is hardly the same as spending time with friends. Spending time with friends is natural, and nobody should be prevented from doing so just because they're married. In fact, a healthy marriage allows both sides to spend some time with friends. You can't justify cheating ever.
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  12. I think it has to do with guilt and religious ideas. People feel guilty blaming Jews because Jews were treated so poorly during WW2 by the Nazis. Also, a lot of Jews and Christians think that "Israel" (as if modern Israel is even the same) is somehow only for Jews.
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  13.  @ritahelll Of course nobody should ever kill another just because they were cheated on. As far as I know, I was never cheated on, thankfully. I don't sympathize with the killer and think his actions are completely wrong, but I do understand how hurt he would've been. Unfortunately, he didn't know how to channel that hurt, so made everything worse for everyone. Of course he's not a good guy. On the other hand, if you cheat on your spouse, you should naturally expect a negative result. It's an unfortunate part of human nature, but we should all be very aware that cheating often leads to more pain and suffering.
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  14. She started it.
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  15.  @reneegardner2286 He should've left as soon as he knew she cheated. He was a stupid cuck to stay with her.
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  16.  @reneegardner2286  Anyone who cheats is automatically in the wrong. If you have a narcissist partner, it makes no sense to cheat. Just leave the relationship. If she was abused, cheating obviously didn't help her. It actually got herself killed. Cheating is a very stupid behaviour. Nobody ever gains from it.
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  17.  @enjoystraveling Of course. I would never justify murder because of cheating. On the other hand, anyone who cheats should be aware of the unfortunate thing called human nature. Many cheaters have been killed by the person they cheated on.
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  18.  @ritahelll  You're just projecting your own ideas. Not all men cheat just because they're out at night drinking. Stick to the facts.
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  19.  @carnifaxx  Of course cheating doesn't require murder. I never said it did. Cheating does destroy relationships though. Have you ever heard of a healthy relationship that includes cheating? Once someone cheats, the relationship goes downhill. Both should've ended the relationship when the cheating happened. Nobody loses the chance to see their child because they cheated. He may have got custody, but even that's not guaranteed. She'd definitely be able to see her son. I don't know why you think I'm advocating killing people for cheating, but I'm not.
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  20. Yeah, they were both screwed up. Maybe that's exactly it. He wanted revenge. She destroyed the marriage, and he wanted to make her pay for it. Personally, I think it's better just to flat-out divorce and ignore her, then get on with life. Let karma take over. I can't see anyone surviving cheating though unless there wasn't much of a relationship to start with. Mostly women dependent on rich men who cheat. They tolerate the cheating, knowing they'll have a cushy life. @carnifaxx 
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  21.  @danielintheantipodes6741  She cheated. Whatever he might've done before, cheating is worse.
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  22. Of course that's not OK. Who said it was? Anyway, cheating is obviously not an answer to being abused. I guess not so obvious for some people though, which is sad, because it sometimes leads to their murder. And of course you can't excuse him for murdering her. I never said that either. However, unfortunately, there's this thing called human nature. Being cheated on usually completely breaks the trust and hurts the one being cheated on. It's not something that can be easily forgotten. If you cheat, you should be prepared for death because it sadly happens. Always has throughout history and across all societies. @danielintheantipodes6741 
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