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Comments by "Owen Larson" (@owenlarson07366) on "Transgender "Baby" Fetishist interview-Kylie" video.
Validate your children’s emotions. Stay connected with them no matter what. Listen to the pain this person experienced from parents that tried to overwhelm and control their every experience.
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You’re far more broken than this person with a comment like that.
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gregg turkington it all started with Elvis gyrating those hips huh?
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Yes, Jesus was loving and accepting. Sounds like they had too much strict Christianity growing up.
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@SamanthaP48 No mistake. All emotions are valid. When parents invalidate, children learn to suppress, which in turn warps them. Choices that harm yourself or others are a different story. Everyone needs to take responsibility for their actions if they want to grow.
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@SamanthaP48 Intent is not impact. The parents need to take responsibility for the impact they’ve had on their child regardless of whether they meant well. Love is work. It’s more than just not abandoning your child. Validating emotions is not the same as validating choices. All emotions are valid. Every single one. What one does with them is choice.
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Found another baby
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@SamanthaP48 I’ve done no such thing. Again, because people keep missing this and it’s very important. All emotions are valid. Emotions. Happy, Sad, Lonely, Hurt, Joyful. These are emotions. Ideas are not emotions. Choices are not emotions.
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Agree. Emotions that don’t get dealt with lead to all kinds of mental chaos.
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@col.cottonhill6655 pretty obvious you haven’t read the Bible. Try Matthew.
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@col.cottonhill6655 You definitely missed the main point.
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@col.cottonhill6655 Jesus wasn’t in that story.
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@jessicataylor3216 I’m not of the opinion that what Jesus would see as sin is the same as most Christians do. This person seems to have a more purity of spirit than many who call themselves pastors in His name.
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@jessicataylor3216 I think hear your heart and you seem well intentioned. I was fortunate enough not to be church hurt but I know many who are. I no longer believe in the usefulness of religion to address the needs of mankind. I think that religion does more damage than good and, if there is a God, that would they likely recommend different ways of approaching pain and transformation. I don’t conclude that all religious people are harmful but I do think that the world will improve as religion becomes less central in peoples lives.
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@jessicataylor3216 I’m happy to hear your path worked for you. It’s probably best that you stay away from people that have been church hurt and have no interest in following the same path as you. I doubt we see eye to eye on what “broken” means. I don’t think Jesus, god, or religion is required to live a complete and virtuous life. If a person heals from their wounds and chooses religion after, that’s fine. There are many, sometimes well-meaning people out there trying to use religion itself to heal and doing more harm than good. If I was forced to leave my child with a stranger and all I knew of them was whether they were religious or not, I would choose the non-religious person. I truly see it as a harmful path for most people. I’m glad it works for you, but please don’t try to fix others using religious strategies. There are better ways to help people with trauma. Telling them they are sinners and need to be forgiven helps very very few
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@jessicataylor3216 I don’t see people as broken. I don’t see people as sinners. I think a lot of damage comes from that worldview. Helping people find housing, food, and therapy is worthwhile and I will continue doing that in my own life. Be well.
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@jessicataylor3216 There was no force. I only expressed my opinion. Self righteous people who are used to feeling persecuted can confuse the two. Your position about who is broken and who is worthy of forgiveness is peak religious arrogance. I have no issue telling you so. If your faith is true I’m sure it can tolerate this difference of opinion.
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There’s mo brainwashing. The internet just makes us aware of what has been going on for centuries.
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@SamanthaP48 It is absolutely essential to take responsibility for the impact we have on others lives. It’s essential to growth. No doubt about that. Hurt people often hurt people. There are no excuses. Learning to distinguish what is your own responsibility and what was others is important too but generally, the more responsibility one chooses to accept the better.
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