Comments by "pugetwitch" (@Pugetwitch) on "Father forgives man who raped, killed 9-year-old daughter" video.

I am very sorry for your loss. I have found it impossible for me to forgive certain people for certain Acts however, I have decided to accept what happened and accept the fact that they are who they are, regardless of whether I understand their mindset, persona, or motivations. Accepting the fact that the situation is what it is and those people are who they are has made coming to terms not really getting the closure that I wanted a lot easier, and it has made it possible for me to move forward in my healing process. Before I accepted what happened I was doing the state of denial and it made a lot harder because I was stuck within the anger but I got really tired of people telling me to forgive because forgiveness was not working for me. Finally I realized that acceptance is the key for me.
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@sung4ji3 he's forgiving the person who did! This man's daughter was raped and murdered by somebody else. you got it TWISTED.
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@budzmckenzie6606 yes specially since he keeps saying he's been in that situation before like, he's been in prison before. Don't push this man. That's why I have to really take a strong rain and hold my ego back because now that I'm a single parent of two little girls I cannot react in the same way as I used to. This world is full of evil if we gave it back what we felt was due, we would be doing ourselves an Injustice. The power of God is Unstoppable so we need to put it into his hands and not play the role of God's weapon ourselves
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