Comments by "Snowbird" (@snowbird6855) on "Do Alpha Women Destroy Marriages?" video.

You make some great points Zeani. I did similar. Husband and I finished school at the same time (were in the same program). We worked and saved for a home and welcomed our first born into it. I returned to work after 6 months and soon was pregnant with the second and while at home with them the third was born. (Yes, 3 in less than 4 years). At the 6 year point with the youngest nearly 4, I returned part time and added hours when she started highschool and then full time when she started university. It worked well for our family as I was contributing to the household expenses in addition to providing "extras" (sports and music lessons) while my husband covered the basics including the mortgage. We both had a little free time too but it was still a challenge as the 3 kids went through many stages and requirements around the same time. Looking back now at age 68, we are comfortable in our retirement and the 3 kids are successful adults. I wouldn't change a thing if I could. We focused on the kids and made do with used cars and local vacations (and 2 exotic family trips). We were able to help them with tuition and they each have more than one degree. Best wishes to you!
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@Billy-bc8pk Be confident in who you are and you will attract women with little effort. Women really aren't competing with men, we compete with each other. Be kind and courteous but watch out for those who are looking for a free ride. In my opinion, an age difference of 5 years or so really helps men's maturity and confidence and women prefer it as you're more established. Another tip; look at and consider the women who aren't the most beautiful or put together with expensive clothes and grooming. There is gold there.
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@zeanibanks3950 It can be done, but it takes two. If the husband is there for you and a reasonable guy, it can work. There's no point in having children if others are raising them or they're on their own a lot, that's when trouble starts. Focus on quality time, and staying involved with their lives, guiding them to make good choices. Having it all and simultaneously is a myth. The way to do it is in "phases".. years when you're at home, years part time and then the later years when they need you less and you work more. You can do it, and always do what's best for you and your family rather than follow trends.
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Its rather impossible today to have a family and especially a home on one income yet even today, with "equality" expectations, women do most work at home.
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Ya, ok. And what does the woman do when he dumps her for a younger woman and she has no work history? What group is most impoverished? Female seniors.
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Being a stay at home wife/mom (more than a few years) is the riskiest thing a woman can do second to not getting an education.
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@motopolak You didn't address the issues. Answer the question. We all know that 50% of marriages end in divorce. What does a woman do when she's 55, has no higher education and no recent work history and the husband disappears?
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