Comments by "p11" (@porky1118) on "The TRUTH behind Red Flags" video.
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14:35 I also thought about that for a bit.
Even if you break up with someone, they will eventually find someone else.
And in order to find someone else, and then also stay in that relationship for some time, they probably have to improve.
It's like multiple persons find partners, which are just fine, but have some problems. Then they are exchanged, and now everyone has partners, who are better, at least most of them.
So why can't my partner just change to the better while still being in a relationship with me?
Because they have to learn that a relationship is something you could lose.
You can lose your partner forever.
So even if you improve as a person, and go back to the same partner, you won't really realize how much you can lose by messing up.
And as long as one hasn't experienced that, they might not be able to make some real effort.
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