Comments by "avery intelligence" (@averyintelligence) on "HealthyGamerGG" channel.

  1.  @sandenium  literally thats you projecting your own magical thinking
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  2. "ignorance is bliss" - gandolf
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  3. Try 5 min committments. I say to myself "ima read for 5 minutes" sometimes It turns into 20mins. Sometimes it's just the 5 and I'm waiting for the 5minutes on my alarm to finish so I can stop asap 😂
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  4. Even record yourself ranting. I do that sometimes and then I watch it back at a later date and I'm thinking "oh my god how embarrassing I can't believe I was mad at my mom for getting my food order wrong" Perspective is everything
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  5. Matilda? U got thrown in the chokey?
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  6. ​ @TheSaival I told my therapist about Dr K and he said the videos are great. My therapist is highly skilled working with severe personality disorders and helped me get back into work and other stuff
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  7. “No way am I doing that” = shame “I would be lying” = pride “I am always thinking factual” = rationalisation “I am not removing extra fluff” = scared of change “It was never there to begin” = thinking in extremes alexithymia is man’s biggest hurdle
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  8. What is 'psychiatrt'? Sounds like an insect name
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  9.  @lucheeese  thats great to hear, in DBT they have a skill called Opposite Action. Which is what you're doing
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  10. Do you know diagnosis is simply a way to categorize a bunch of symptoms??? Some of you think too heavily into what a diagnosis is.
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  11. Not one person has liked any of your comments. U ever heard of being wrong? ​ @SyntheticShinobi 
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  12.  @SyntheticShinobi  that's not how like and dislike works on YouTube. This is not Reddit. There's no downvotes in YouTube. Are you like okay?
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  13. @JustAStranger2840 tldr: objectifying people is bad
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  14. Unhealthy gamer
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  15. That's not acceptance. It's acknowledgement. He is wrong cos he says the first step to change is acceptance. Not true. First step is acknowledgment.
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  16. ​ @akashmakkar7187 ermmn that's why they are called theories not facts .
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  17. ​ @ItsAstie  thanks for explaining this. Yes there's only secondary or primary psychopath.
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  18. ​ @2das is that a dan Schneider quote?
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  19. Happens in the sports world all the time. Coaches be telling you 'youte better than Michael Jordan, believe it"
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  20. I highly recommend reading The Mask of Masculinity by Lewis Howes. Great book about everything you just mentioned. Im a woman and its one of my favourite books.
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  21. U should read the book called 'boarding school syndrome'. Not suggesting Dr K went boarding school but the whole "this person is privileged therefore is unrelatable" is really a weak argument and u say as a way to feel superior in your own self loathing . We've all been there. I come from poverty
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  22.  @joshuaadams5295  makes no sense. Therapists don't put their personal info out there for you to assess. How would you know anything about their lifes? Interview them?
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  23.  @sinister3vil probably cos they was 7 years old
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  24. Become aware of your awareness
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  25. Idk, if you’re a woman and good looking then people want to associate themselves with those women even if they are hysterical.
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  26. Do you know diagnosis is simply a way to categorize a bunch of symptoms??? Some of you think too heavily into what a diagnosis is.
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  27. What's TOS?
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  28. my narc mom spent her life saying "im ill, i been working really hard, my back hurts, im so tired" whenever anyone would mention that her behaviour has a negative impact on others could be like me: "mom, me and u had a conversation last week that you agreed to wash the dirt you left on the bathroom today" my mom: "please leave me alone, im so tired, i have done shopping and errands today" (guilt tripping) me: "we made an agreement, can you offer any solutions as the dirt is still there" mom: "oh go away, i do so much for you" took me years to realise how emotionally immature she is. theres never any acknowledgement of how others feels. people are confused why i and others can be so 'sensitive' to small issues. when the issues are about trust, respect and transparency. without those 3 things any relationship will be superficial, surface level and never that meaningful.
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  29. They prob was slightly angry.
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  30. Why? He is just a human. Wtf is he supposed to do, suppress everything and be fake. also some therapists do negative transference on purpose to see how you react. Nothing wrong with that
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  31. all the more reason to challenge those beliefs. read the book called psycho cybernetics by dr Maxwell Maltz. its a book about body image and how to challenge those beliefs. as someone who is not deemed attractive, the book really helped me become more confident. now i feel sexy lol
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  32. the eye blind spot thing is freaking me out 😂
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  33. you're getting confused with being interesting and having a personality. people use the word personality in that context sometimes. most people who i like are not interesting. they just listen, are non judgemental and make me feel warm and safe
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  34. lmao! yeah katie can do one 🖕
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  35. Yes. But it's also present in most cases of BPD too.
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  36. i only watch videos about procrastination when im procrastinating. it reminds me how much of a pxssy i can be sometimes lol
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  37. One of the best convos ive ever seen. Hope ingrid is doing well and feeling better. I relate so much, i also have this disorder and i was also a tomboy and went through similar
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  38. not all woman tho. there are some women like myself who have very over-controlled personalities.
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  39. How do u think people with PERSONALITY DISORDER feel then. They might as well call it "shitty person disorder". The name is not helpful yet it's an official diagnosis.
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  40. The best therapy for people with any over controlled personality’s which is ‘radically open DBT’. Check it out and checkout over controlled personality. This therapy teaches you how to let go and stop trying to control everything from your facial expressions, the way you sit, to how others respond to you. I originally I did DBT but my therapist realised I had more of an over controlled personality than under controlled which is best for DBT. Overcontrolled personality’s are better for RO DBT. It’s still a new style of therapy so many don’t know about it yet
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