Comments by "truth-uncensored2" (@truth-uncensored2426) on "CNN"
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It's strange that you say this because for me, as a brazilian guy, I would say that brazilian women in general and specially the younger generation are also very critical and acidic about men, and this has become more intense in the last years thanks to feminism. You just have to look in the brazilian Twitter or in popular tv shows like BBB or "Casamento as Cegas", etc, the whole culture that is presented is basically a feminist narrative that preaches that men are sexist and "dumb" by default and women are more capable and should take the lead, etc. This type of thinking is pervasive in the entire brazilian mainstream culture.
Also, even though american women in general may be more "cold" in their treatment of men, I can say that some brazilian women by contrast can be extremely possessive and clingy, and having a lot of emotional instability and aggression, to the point of even being a physical treat, so things are not so good if you have to deal with this type of environment everyday. All things considered I don't think brazilian men on average have it any better when it comes to the quality of their relationships in comparison with guys from the US or other developed countries, the challenges are slightly different, but in general women here follow the same feminist agenda, and have the same nonsensical complaints that are present everywhere.
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@serendipityshopnyc Thank you for answering the question, this is exactly what I expected, women in general are not willing to divide the bill and still act like ladies and let the men be comfortable in his role, if they're paying half they expect to have more authority in the relationship. I think a lot of women conflate having money with having more authority and acting more "masculine" inside the relationship, etc.
But I have another question, if you are married and working and your hubby is also working and both of you make around the same, you would expect from him to share the house chores equally with you, even things like make food, clean the house, etc? Also if you end up making more money than him casually, not necessarily because of his lack of ambition, but if you end in this situation making more money than him would you still share the house chores and more traditional domestic tasks equally with him, including caring for children?
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@serendipityshopnyc Ok, at least you're being honest and coherent, thanks for your answer. Now if you don't mind I have a couple more questions. So by what you're saying you live in 50-50 arrangement, right, or close to that? Imagine that you both had decided to have children, at least one, who would be the primary caretaker of the child in her first years, you or your hubby? Or you would make sure that this task of caring for the baby is divided equally? Also, what percentage of women in the US or in your country you think are willing to accept a men that is a stay at home hubby and take care of the kids while mommy is working? Do you think the majority of women would accept this type of marital arrangement?
A final one. You say you're not a "traditional lady" in your relationship. Ok. Imagine that your place is invaded by night by burglars and they are about to enter your room, do you expect that your partner to protect you in some way, or at least show a more protective disposition towards you in a situation like this? How would you feel if you saw that your partner doesn't tried to protect or care for you at all?
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@serendipityshopnyc You say there's a fair number of women who would possible accept a stay at home husband while they being the breadwinner, so in your estimation what percentage of the general female population would accept this arrangement for a long term relationship?
About the protection, so in the end you still expect of you partner to fulfill certain traditional roles based on his gender (physical size, height, stronger, etc), like the task of protecting you from a burglar invasion for instance. So you don't think is common sense that women also have particular characteristics that are specific the their gender and that make them more suitable to perform certain roles and tasks in the relationship? For instance, if he would ask you to be the primary caretaker of your hypothetical child and be responsible for most of the chores involved in it, would you be willing to do it? After all, it's only fair since he has a tacit responsibility of protecting you? In another words, what you do for him as a benefit that involves your particular female characteristics, outside of sex?
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