Comments by "Jackie Wu" (@jwu1950) on "When Life Hurts, Stop Clinging to It | The Philosophy of Epictetus" video.

@andyfox6943 I love my ex. She is having the time of her life with another man. When I love someone I want the best for that someone, joy, peace, love, life, hope, and grace. When my ex is happy, I am happy. May the love and the peace of Jesus be with us.
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That's being ridiculous !!! Very silly !!! First question to ask ask is : do you love that someone ? Second question to ask is : what can I do to make that someone happy ? Third question to ask is : what can I not do to make that someone happy ? Final question to ask is : what have I learned from these that I can use to make my life happier in the future. It's that simple. May the love and the peace of Jesus be with us.
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@andyfox6943 The point is not about you forgiving or forgetting, or about her doing well. The point is : is she happy ? I am happy when my ex is happy, because I love her. Very much. Do you love your ex ? Or you only love your children ? The point is not what Jesus wants. It's about what we want. I want joy, peace, love, life, hope, and grace, not sorrow, revenge, hate, lifelessness, hopelessness, and insecurity. May the love and the peace of Jesus be with us.
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@ElegyVio That's just what you think is true. The truth is Jesus is not Christ. He never said he is, and he never pretended that he is. Christ is an OT prophecy. Prophecies are blasphemies because prophecies undermine, marginalize, and misrepresent God. Prophets are blasphemers. Jesus never prophesied for that reason. Jesus also told us not to believe in or follow the Christ and the false prophets because they are vultures who feed on dead meat. Matt 24:23-28. May the love and the peace of Jesus be with us.
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@bwackbeedows3629 Most people at the time of Jesus couldn't read. There is no excuse for us today not to read what Jesus had said rather than relying on hearsay. May the love and the peace of Jesus be with us.
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All it takes to be happy is to decide to be happy. It's that simple. May the love and the peace of Jesus be with us.
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@videoettaceo8900 How can it be a good life if you wanted to have sex with someone you like but can't ? Everything else is only denial. May the love and the peace of Jesus be with us.
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@Chertsey Nermal So sad. I wish I have a gf. May the love and the peace of Jesus be with us.
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@andyfox6943 Exactly. Happiness is subjective. When my ex is happy, I am happy, because I love her. Very much. Of course, one can only love others when one loved oneself first. If you are happy when she is miserable, or if you are not happy when she is happy, then you don't love her. It is a very subjective thing. It's that simple. We, all things, are born from God. Jesus is no exception. Jesus is a man. Jesus lived and died 2,000 years ago, crucified by his own Jewish folks for blasphemy he never committed. But Jesus is alive today, in spirit, which is in his teachings recorded in history books called the Gospels. Jesus told us to love God. Do you love God ? May the love and the peace of Jesus be with us.
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@StrongEnvelope10 Exactly. Prostitution is neither illegal nor immoral. Only living off the avail is illegal and immoral. The oldest profession is the best doctor for all illness including one it is. May the love and the peace of Jesus be with us.
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@ally5524 That is being silly. When you love someone, that someone is always in your mind and your best wishes, may it be your parents, your kids, or your wife. Love needs not be ended. If you don't love someone, staying together makes no sense. That applies not only with wives, but also with parents, kids, friends, or business partners. The point is when two people love one another, they want the best for one another. Sometimes, one partner may want to leave and find a different partner in order to be truly happy, then, not staying together is a good choice. Do not confuse your love with your obligations, your vow, or your perceived social status. May the love and the peace of Jesus be with us.
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@An0utsid3r You are missing the point. If you love her, the only point you should consider is : is she happy ? If she is happy without you, you should thank God for the love you had when you were together and the love you have for her when you are apart. Love is all that matters. Be happy when she is happy. May the love and the peace of Jesus be with us.
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@goodyeoman4534 Exactly. Have plenty of sex with plenty of women will make it easy to forget any particular one of them. Humans are not birds but more like dogs and cats. One man one wife is not natural but some man made bullshit. Nowadays, with birth control and equal pay equal shit gave women a huge advantage over men, and they would use it to screw men royally. Don't be a sucker, all right, dear ? May the love and the peace of Jesus be with us.
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@rizkunisnator OMG !!! Another one. Has anyone noticed these cry babies are all man ? No woman would be so silly. Why ? First, it is because of birth control giving women an unfair advantage over their men. Second, equal pay allows women to make more than men giving bosses who can afford to pay more pay it towards women and have the moral high ground as well as having more women under their control. Third, technological advancement making labour work worth less than make ups, hairdos, and soft voices. Fourth, the legal system rewards the women and punishes the men in a break up, with or without children involved. So, since women have more fantasies and vain, they are now capable of choosing, manipulating, and replacing their men at their pleasure, and feel good, right, and successful with each one of them. Finally, women are much more capable in handling pain, suppressing pain, or diverting or redirecting pain than men. No woman would accept being seen as a cry baby because that hurts their ego. They would rather cheat, blame the men, or punish them regardless. That's just being natural. Both men and women enjoy varieties. See ? The logical advice for these cry baby men is go tryout some varieties. Pay if you have to, which is the case for most men. That helps to forgive and forget. Above all, take care of yourself, and love God. May the love and the peace of Jesus be with us.
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@makeupandskincarewithd2382 Exactly. Borrow a different one, and a different one, and another different one. Try out the varieties and forget the last one. Return to nature. May the love and the peace of Jesus be with us.
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@zillaboop I am fine. Thank you. Let be but never let go works. May the love and the peace of Jesus be with us.
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@user-rz4op2hw6r No doubt you are another man whining over nothing. The women are laughing at you guys. May the love and the peace of Jesus be with us.
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@junc2191 Healing ? What healing ? There is no injury, so there is no healing required. If you love her, be happy she is happy. If you don't love her, there is no injury to you. Don't make excuses for your stupidity. Okay ? May the love and the peace of Jesus be with us.
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@quinnmallory9025 That's a easy thing for a woman to say. May the love and the peace of Jesus be with us.
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@miss420mj Thank you for your blessings. The reason these men are hurting is because they need, they want, but they don't love or don't understand what is love. Most of them believe that love is like what their mother gave them. They thought they are entitled to be loved. They have no idea that love is in each and everyone of us, to give. The more we give, the more we shall have. Jesus taught us that. I understand that such a concept is counterintuitive, difficult to accept. That is why you think the truth I share is hateful. No. I am not hateful. I am loving. See ? May the love and the peace of Jesus be with us.
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@miss420mj That is condescending of you to say. Jesus and I are not condescending. We share the truth and save souls. Jesus asked us to believe in him, but he never asked anyone to learn from him. Why ? It is because the truth Jesus and I share are counterintuitive, like in the Kingdom of Heaven, the last is first, and the first is last. Jesus and I never ask anyone to learn anything. Jesus said that no one comes to him if not drawn by the Father in Heaven. It is not up to Jesus or I which soul would be saved. It is up to God. Jesus and I only sow by sharing the truth. See ? May the love and the peace of Jesus be with us.
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@miss420mj "the word of God" ??? WTF is that ? Jesus and I never mentioned any "words of God". That is a verifiable fact. God, like gravity, is metaphysical, unobservable, and unknowable by humans. No human knows God or gravity, the Will of God, or the Words of God; not even Jesus because he is a human, a historical man. You are the one who should be ashamed of yourself for believing in nonsense. It is true I am not Jesus. I never pretended to be. I quoted from the teachings of Jesus which are recorded in history books called the Gospels. Gospels are not bibles. They are history books written by men. Quoting Jesus is like quoting from the Constitution. WTF is wrong doing that ? WTF is wrong with you trying to call me rude, a bully, and a troll ? Take a hard look at yourself and stop being a cry baby. Okay ? May the love and the peace of Jesus be with us.
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@hieyrin Let be but never let go. May the love and the peace of Jesus be with us.
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@JessicaFreda62 The truth is if there is no love in a relationship, the best thing to do is wish each other well and move on. There are plenty of fish out there, you know ? Look at it this way, even if you stay in a loving relationship for 30 years, you grow old, and kids moved out and don't give a shit about you. What can you do then ? It is still the same : wish everyone well and move on to new days ahead. Right ? Makes sense to you now ? May the love and the peace of Jesus be with us.
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