Comments by "Mighty One" (@mightyone3737) on "ContraPoints"
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I always enjoy your vids... I agree men have serious systemic problems like male on male violence, but the key part is that even if men are the victims more often, you fail to mention that men are wildly more likely to be the victimizer, and thus are obviously the real issue. Women's power being described as 'soft power' is very appropriate, because it hints at the lack of real leverage that women actually have, as men are as a rule physically stronger (and have much better earning potential, and apparently if not poor can mostly rape at will), and thus in scenarios where their is a conflict between the two, the men very often has a big advantage, and it's not like the cops will be teleporting to the conflict, so women are forced to use 'soft power', and use it vs ACTUAL power, and that is why wife beating is way more common than similar husband abuse.
The whole thing I think boils down to that though, that women have 'theoretical' power, but men have 'actual' power, in almost every way. Men's Rights supporters tend to ignore the huge advantages that the average man has (to say nothing of ignoring the daily cruelty many women endure), and just talk about anecdotes where a woman 'wronged' a man... These men are so used to their various and many privileges that they are blind to them. The use of anecdotes is essentially forbidden by science, yet these supremely logical men cling to them, to their own detriment.
Their is a problem today, because their are many men who are not only unwilling to make themselves attractive to women (due to entitlement), but they also feel injured by the women that refuse them, while they are likely not asking out women that are, well, appropriate for them. Men seem to be hardwired to marry as far up on looks as they can manage, and the easy availability of porn, movies featuring very beautiful women, and ads featuring beautiful women (and social media featuring, again, tons of beautiful women) seems to lead men to believe that beautiful women are relatively common, that they can't just find another man, but of course in reality any decent looking woman is practically tripping over the constant offerings of dick! Most men need to realize that they aren't above average, and the average man that is a social outcast needs to realize that they are not even, as far as relationships go, average, and thus they need to be seeking non-average women. I am still vaguely astounded how many incels are both worshiping beautiful women, while despising the very women they could be boning if they put even a tiny amount of effort into.
Odd thought as a cis hetero man, but I felt like you should have used makeup to emphasize your jawline more in the robe scenes. I'm not an expert (or even remotely competent I'd say), but it was what seemed missing from the 'glam hottie' look I think you were largely pulling off. Obviously too much emphasis is a problem, but assuming you've already shaved your jawline down, why not do what other 'hot' women do when doing the look? If you didn't, you certainly don't have a 'man jaw', I can't see you being able to fit wisdom teeth in their for example, so you don't need to be insecure, embrace your beauty! That said, it wasn't a bad look, just a suggestion from someone who has basically never used makeup, and thus is not even vaguely qualified to criticize. You do you girl, you're killing it!
Keep up the good work! You're doing God's work IMHO, illuminating reality to the masses.
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