Comments by "BVargas78" (@BVargas78) on "Why Loveless Marriage is So Common in Japan [ENG CC]" video.

I think it would help if people weren't so negative about the man staying at home to do chores and raise the kid and woman being primary bed winner. But men and women seem to frown on that, and most women will avoid long term relationship with a man that earns less than them, even if they are prepared to take on that domestic role.
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@GoogleAccount-ev2hq lol seems that way. Either that or, bla bla is saying that if the husband stays at home as home keeper, while the woman works a job, its an easy life for hubby. But if the wife stays at home as home keeper and the man works a job, it's an easy life for hubby! 🤣
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@wixoss9893 Loyalty, and charm, even if fleeting is a thing. Despite your position which i agree with to a point, this does happen. And the relationship can be mutually beneficial. In most cases (from what i've seen), provided the woman who goes out to work does not leave the guy, the relationships tend to work out and in my books, I'd take it over a divorce and the anguish that puts on the kids. Provided it's not an unpleasant job (raw strength is rarely a requirement these days), and no sexual harassment occurs at workplace (which is uncommon in 2022, we are not in the 1970's anymore, at least not in the developed world) it can provide a happy, homely environment. Also, remember that women make up half of the population, if they are only going to seek meaningful relationships/marry someone who is better than them in terms of talent and intelligence, you're going to have very few married women, now that equality is enforced more strongly in the labor place. And this will lead to very few happy stable relationships for children to grow up in, which will have a knock on effect for society in general.
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