Comments by "" (@Ichi-San-1501) on "New audio adds twist to Menendez brothers case" video.

@TapaswiniSwain what if it was Lyle who took those pictures?
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@chrissychaotic7933 ah, now it's "ALL friends knew they were taking showers together"...
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@Fusion0603 "Life sentence anyway"? No, you can be stronger & smarter than your trauma; you can't be stronger than a life sentence and legal incarceration.
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@AllAboutPurple the smiley is absurd in your comment. Have you ever moved out without money you need to pay rents/a new home and food you need to function properly? They were in a scholar system and had no qualities nor diploma to get a job. I agree, in the USA it was easier to find just any low wage job back then, in the country I live in, you can hang yourself coming directly from an unfinished scholar background or lacking experiences.
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@oriolez555 I disagree on many arguments, that's all. I do not imply anything else with it. I don't blindly trust the claims of the MBros. But IF their accounts are true, it wouldn't surprise that they would see nothing beyond "Papa's Laws". Also because he paid their life, it's not like they had anything. The fear system and dynamics are a different one in such a setting as they claim having had.
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@yvettetorres7829 I wouldn't care having them as neighbours, I would even invite them for dinner. I had a very similar past (upbringing and trauma), neuro' impairments and traits (But I further on evolved differently). If they become a danger to me, I would become a danger to them, too. They aren't unpredictable, mindless killing machines nor sexual predators, and clearly have a basic emotional setting. Their rage went against their caregivers only! They aren't serial killers, I am not a target. Btw, what I do when I become a danger to others - which I only become when inhibtion doesn't work properly AND the person did me intentional harm and is therefore a bad or screwed character - I have to move away to make sure I do no wrong, urges get sparked, and it is a big battle to inhibit them especially since I am dissociative.
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@circesoul2218 and nowadays social media seems to do the same - just ignore anything that indicates they might have made half (the really gruesome parts) of it up.
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@xnwn ah, now he molested all Menudo members? That's new. So why didn't this douchebag Rossello come forward earlier - since it was about the life and death of two young men?
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@westyboi1845 is it <When a child kills> by Paul Mones?
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@elissacaddy2216 this was very usual in many circles especially before parents, especially fathers learned not to touch their kids anymore bc they fear the risk to be accused of s'abuse. I do believe that it is an indicator for a characteristic of José Menendez, but it simply isn't a general proof for anything. And why the hell would a pedo or molestor betray his dark side on an official family picture?
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@seobluvr8194 now suddenly even alopecia is "evidence" for s'abuse? There indeed is a form of alopecia (a.a.) that is strongly linked with stress. But <stress> does not necessarily mean "sexual abuse" nor "sexual abuse on your brother". It is not contested that José was hard on the boys and physically punished them, and had heavy expectations - this alone can cause some hell of a stress in a son trying to keep up and impress for a bit of sane love. Also Lyle didn't get totally bold quickly, his volume was thinned out in scalp area and some blank spots. He had to shave the area to better place le toupet.
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@Fusion0603 Yes, I have gone through trauma from gest.age 8months when bio'mom tried to abort me which induced birth; I was an orphan from day 1 of life; at age 4 got adopted by real Monsters in upbringing and abuse, much similar to what L&E claim to have had as parents. Other people and events did me significant harm, too, in childhood and adulthood. I was all alone from age 19 again and had to start from scratch with nothing at my hands. I am a real DI, neurodevelopmental issues; have ccPTSD, suffered a wide range of other symptoms, and suffered from severe Insomnia for nearly 4 decades, too, among other health issues. I would never say something like this without experience. Your comment sounded so... dooming, I wanted to add a different view. Didn't mean to disrespect individual perceptions and capacities.
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@Fusion0603 I used to say that, too: If only I could forget. I had to learn that the best way to wipe out a hard disk is by feeding it, overwriting it with new content, better content. Best of wishes for your healing processes, I know how horribly difficult it is... But that's life, it colors.
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@MarieSch444 I tend to believe exactly this, the way you state it. That they have had a disturbing upbringing - at least controlling and emotionally neglecting, physical punishment - elements undisputable to me - BUT I also do tend to believe that they became or were two screwed minds - maybe just because of that upbringing... Imagine what a somewhat smart twisted mind would do... Blow some details out of proportion, add lies to a basic truth (which quite helps when you need to be convincing)... to make the planned murders appear justified - in that case, they planned it at least half a year, a year or even years prior to the killings... Horrible idea to insinuate they were suffering from some severe PD, but not that far fetched, in my opinion. They might have been the psychos who decapitated the dog (because mommy loved the dog more than she loved them) and put him in the fridge. Maybe monster José was controlling them even stronger BECAUSE they were monsters, too.
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The root of all evil is the human brain, not money. @greg6122
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Yes, I asked myself why they were criminal minds although daddy financially had it all, and the answer is: Something in their neurodevelopmemt was disturbed. Cause? Who knows, but there are options: 1. Disturbing upbringing 2. Disturbing upbringing and trauma 3. Mother didn't embrace pregnancy as she should have, maybe even took medication, alcohol / substances bad for embryo during pregnancy, genetical components included. But this IS my only issue with the MBros: Their brains were definitely screwed - and therefore I can't trust them blindly. I do think that the penalty was not just, I would have given them the benefit of a doubt and therefore a mamslaughter sentencing with perspectives of rehabilitation and reintegration into society. @kaze.14
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@AllAboutPurple guess you didn't read the second part of my comment. About that job thing you suggest: My bro & I had real trauma, plus similar upbringing and dogma (don't know if MBros' claims are true, how could I). The interesting part: my brother couldn't focus on any education, he was bad in school (long-term trauma especially by primary caregivers can disturb scholar capacities in individuals, as it influences neurodevelopment anyway). My brother became rather hyperactive and depended on his primary caregivers' fortune; he became brainwashed and then compliant in late teenagehood. And when he had started solidarity towards the abusers, my rage multiplied. I was all alone again, like in the orphanage before the adoption by monsters. I investigated on my brother's achievements in adult life a couple of years ago - he's literally a <loser>, still depending on his father's inheritance and doing some PC based music performing on weddings and parties within connection circles from back then, only. His mama apparently still cooks for him, and so does his wife, I guess. He still lives in their appartements and houses - with his wife. He never cooked back then either, and anyways: didn't have any survival skills at all, none! I remember how delighted he was when he managed to fry french fries. He was so happy, I cheered with him to support his moment. Now, is he incapacitated by trauma + own setting influencing it, or is he just a lazy character who wants everything without doing anything? I could never ever judge this. I can't judge the MBros, either.
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