Comments by "" (@shamrock141) on "Do Women Really Have it Harder? Male Feminists vs Antifeminists | Middle Ground" video.
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When I was an awkward teenager I had my red pill, anti-feminist phase for a year or two and wow looking back on it just makes me cringe.
Here's the kicker though, everything telling me that feminists were radical crybabies was all online, particularly other anti-feminist men telling me what feminists were, in real life they were lovely, well reasoned people who just wanted equal working opportunities and safety.
The loneliest I ever was was during that phase, and I believe it's easy for boys to fall into a victim mentality when they see the feminist movement but don't feel like they're privaleged, so they falsely equate their lack of fullfilment with the rise of feminism. If I had any advice to give to my past self it would be to talk to people irl, where you get real opinions from real people who can't hide behind a screen, and to have empathy, no one wants a selfish prick for a partner.
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