Comments by "DefaultFlame" (@DefaultFlame) on "Asmongold TV "
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I'm an early millennial, so I got to see people 5 or 10 years older than me get all of these great things that was promised to us as I was growing up.
Then I hit the same age where they got success, putting in the same and often more effort into "doing things right," like working hard, doing my best in school, avoiding drugs, crime, debt, and so on, and got nothing.
And that kept happening as I hit each milestone.
Person 5-10 years my senior: gets girlfriends, gets a good job, gets married, gets a house, gets kids.
People my age: Shitty job, rented apartment, and a nearly thirty year old car.
I have seen some people my age who did succeed, but it seems to be more random chance and nepotism than effort that got them there, and it's not a lot of people my age that had success in life, as compared to the near universal number of people who succeeded who are just a bit older.
When it comes to people 15-20 years older than me even the laziest, shittiest garbage people somehow have a house, wife, and kids. Sure, since they are shitty people their marriage is usually pretty unhappy and their kids don't like them or outright hate them, but they still got 'em.
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I'm 37. I was were you are about a year and a half ago. Quit my job where I had a terrible boss, went on anti-depressants, and I'm feeling better and looking for a new job. I'm not "good" but I'm at least able to feel positive emotions and don't constantly want to self-delete anymore.
My dream at 12 years old that I expected (and was promised by society) if I walked the straight and narrow, worked hard, and did my best, was a wife, a few kids, a dog, a house, a couple cars, and a job I didn't dislike.
I have a 26-year old car. I had a cat that I unfortunately had to put down in march last year due to kidney issues. That's as close as I've gotten to my dream despite doing my best.
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Tried this with Google Gemini.
Wife:
## Understanding Why Your Wife is Yelling
*Disclaimer:* It's important to note that I cannot provide specific advice without knowing the details of your situation. This response is based on general information and potential causes of conflict in relationships.
Yelling is often a symptom of deeper underlying issues. To effectively address the situation, it's crucial to understand the root causes. Here are some potential reasons why your wife might be yelling:
### Possible Reasons:
* *Unresolved Issues:* There might be long-standing problems that have been ignored or swept under the rug. These can build up over time and lead to explosive outbursts.
* *Feeling Unheard:* Perhaps your wife feels like her concerns or opinions aren't being valued or respected. This can lead to frustration and anger.
* *Stress and Overwhelm:* External factors like work, family, or financial stress can contribute to heightened emotions and irritability.
* *Communication Breakdown:* Ineffective communication patterns can escalate conflicts and lead to yelling matches.
* *Emotional Regulation Difficulties:* Some people struggle with managing their emotions, and yelling might be an unhealthy coping mechanism.
### What You Can Do:
* *Open and Honest Communication:* Create a safe space for both of you to express your feelings without blame or accusation. Active listening is crucial.
* *Identify the Root Cause:* Try to understand the underlying issue behind the yelling. Is it a specific event or a pattern of behavior?
* *Seek Professional Help:* If the problem persists, consider couples therapy to learn healthier communication and conflict resolution strategies.
* *Self-Reflection:* Evaluate your own behavior and communication style. Are there areas where you can improve?
* *Set Boundaries:* Establish clear boundaries regarding yelling and its impact on the relationship.
*Remember:* Yelling is not a healthy way to communicate. It's essential to create a respectful and supportive environment for both partners.
*Would you like to explore any of these points in more detail?* Or perhaps you can share more about the situation, and I can offer more specific guidance.
*If you or your wife are experiencing physical or emotional abuse, please reach out to a domestic violence hotline immediately.*
Here are some resources that can provide support:
* *The National Domestic Violence Hotline:* 1-800-799-7233
* *The Crisis Text Line:* Text HOME to 741741
Please know that you're not alone, and help is available.
Husband:
I cannot say for sure why your husband is yelling at you, but there are a few possible reasons. It is important to remember that yelling is never acceptable in a relationship, and it is never your fault.
Here are some possible reasons why your husband might be yelling at you:
* He is stressed or overwhelmed.
* He is feeling insecure or threatened.
* He has a problem with anger management.
* He is trying to control you.
* He is abusive.
If your husband is yelling at you, it is important to set boundaries and let him know that it is not acceptable. You can also try to talk to him about why he is yelling and see if there is anything you can do to help him manage his anger.
If you are in an abusive relationship, it is important to get help. There are many resources available to help you, including hotlines and shelters.
Here are some resources that can help:
* The National Domestic Violence Hotline: 1-800-799-7233
* The Rape, Abuse & Incest National Network (RAINN): 1-800-656-HOPE
You are not alone, and there is help available.
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