Comments by "belstar" (@belstar1128) on "The transcendental meaning of eros in the light of Tradition" video.

interesting video i think that in the west for most of history getting a wife was quite easy .then you had a period from maybe 1960 to 2010 when getting a wife was even easier but most people would end up divorcing after just a few years .but nowadays we are entering a new age of prudishness were most women only want do do it in the most optimal conditions and you can see more censorship in the media compared to 20 years ago i am not sure how this could happen maybe people are just burnt out .i also think one simple reason why you shouldn't cheat and why monogamy is better that most people don't talk about is simply because if your wife knows you well you will get more pleasure .if she just learned who you are its going to be mediocre since everyone has different interests. after that you of course have many more reasons like it being unstable and not good for raising kids. but even the simplest reason why people may do this often ends up in disappointment so don't do it .
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another thing i wonder is how dating worked in societies that are very gender segregated .i think my biggest problem with find a girlfriend is that i don't have a lot of hobbies that are popular among women most women are so different from men its hard to find things in common. i think that in the 20th century it was easier because you had to spend more time outside socialising since you didn't have any entrainment at home .but i know in the past and in some modern societies men and women are not allowed to interact much i now some cultures have arranged marriages but i don't think that was everywhere its quite confusing
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