Comments by "Thump Er the Sweaty Fat Guy" (@SweatyFatGuy) on "" video.

  1. Tell me something I don't already know... my kids did VASTLY better with me than with their mom.
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  2.  @gusgrimm7533  when I had my daughters the state was still making me pay their mom child support. She really screwed them up, and I tried hard to fix the damage she did between 2001 and 2008 when I barely got to see them. It was 12 days total during that time when I went home on leave, and spent most of the time trying to find them. She moved and kept me from seeing them as much as she could. There was a three year stretch where I didn't find them on leave. I've never had substance problems, but have had PTSD most of my life, from well before the wars. Their mom has a problem like that, and she is bipolar, so she is always broke and overdrawn at the bank. My kids realized just how messed up she is when back in 09 when both of them came to live with me for the summer. They didnt get screamed at or hit, no strange guys had their way with them, there was food in the house all month where their mother was broke by the first Monday of the month after the pay came out... and she had $6000 coming in, I had $1800. She rarely bought them clothes, but every time I had to see her over some court thing she had on a new goofy outfit. Living with me taught my daughters how to be productive adults, only took 14 months with the first and 18 months with the younger one. The default custody to moms is ruining the lives of kids.
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  3.  @decwow  my ex used to tell my kids and everyone else who would listen that I only cared about the money. She also told my kids I didn't care about them, and didn't want to see them. She would screen my calls on birthdays and holidays, and she changed her number often. When I sent things to them, she would throw them away or keep it for herself. Guess what she did when they turned 19 and the child support ended for them. Yeah, she kicked them out of the house. They came to me and rather than coddling them, I got my daughters working and supporting themselves. I helped them get going, but they knew they had to earn their way in life. Then since I am a crippled veteran, my kids could attend college/uni with the tuition paid. My ex was taking money from my kid's VA benefits. The ex has racked up huge debt, and has nothing to show for her life. All she will leave my kids is a mess to clean up, and probably people calling them trying to get money she owes. In contrast I own 13 acres of land, and there is around $500k worth of tools equipment, parts, and entire muscle cars here. I am completely debt free, and investing everything I get into my land or the vehicles. Old GTOs and Formula/TransAm Firebirds can be quite valuable... I have 11 Firebirds, 4 GTOs, and 7 LeMans, along with some Mustangs, and a Cougar. I will have most of them running, drivable, and looking nice before I exit this plane of existence.... well naturally exit, can't do much about if someone evicts me from my meat suit. She is a burden to my kids, as she was to me. I am a benefit to my kids, and yet I was told I was unfit to be a parent because I was in the US military, a judge who was a Marine actually said that to me. I wish nothing but ill upon him and the lying harridans working child support enforcement.
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  4.  VROOOOOOOOOOOOOOOM  my daughters are 26 and 29, both are single, no kids. The oldest doesn't want kids, because she has bipolar and will not inflict that on some innocent child. She is mad at me for having her with her mom. I have my doubts about if she is actually my kid or not. I know the second one is, she and I tested it because she is so very different than her sister. The younger one has been trying desperately to find a man who will stay, but because of how her mom raised her, and her mom allowing her to get tattoos when she was 15, she turned my kid into a practice chick. Nobody wants to write a check against her, between the bipolar and promiscuity from her mother having zero self control and instilling that in my kids, I will probably never have grandkids. This default for mothers getting custody creates a negative feedback loop that extends for generations. They want to ruin lives, and they say its 'best interest of the child' as they give them mental issues, limit their development, and continue the trend of poverty and dependence on the state. Its intentional and by design.
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  5.  @mowtivatedmechanic1172  they realized when they were about 12 that she was the less than sane one, and lied all the time. When they came to visit me for the first summer, they saw how different it was with me. They still talk to her, but they don't trust her. They can't depend on her for anything, When they need help or just want to get some consolation because a pet died, they call me. With their mom its always about her, my mom was the same way in that regard. I tried not to disparage their mom, but she made it a point to say everything she possibly could to negatively influence them about me. Such is the capricious vindictiveness of females. A funny thing happened about two years ago, my youngest was talking to me on the phone, she had me on speaker at her mom's house. She said something about how she wishes we had never divorced. I told her, that was not up to me. What floored me was I heard her mom in the background actually admitting that she was the problem. That she caused the divorce, and it was her untreated bipolar that was instrumental in her cheating, being terrible with money, and starting irrational fights that she escalated into throwing things, hitting me with stuff, and even cutting me with knives. I was more than twice her size in the 90s, and I am VERY capable of defending myself and inflicting grievous harm upon others if I so choose, but she had the state behind her and she took advantage of it. If I ever harmed her in any way I was going to jail for a long time. The cops never cared what she did to me, only if I did anything to her. It was 8 years living in hell for me. She had finally realized that, and apologized and admitted she was to blame for all the bad that happened. Here is why she admitted it. She is trying to manipulate me into taking her back. The guy she married is 64 (ten years older than I am) and he has health problems, so he just hands over his VA check to her. He is not a war nor combat vet like I am, the funny thing is he was stationed at the base near where I live now. She wastes all his money, and has a problem with oxycontin. If her mom had not died last year, their house would have been foreclosed. She left her just enough to get caught up, and now she is about to lose it again. In 2018 my youngest was living here off and on, so she had a bunch of stuff here. Her mom and grandma brought more of my kids stuff. She saw the house I was building, the shop I built, and all the muscle cars I have done and am working on rebuilding. I live in the woods, away from everyone, and its VERY scenic here. She lives in a medium sized city, 100 yards from train tracks that have coal trains going by ever half hour, all day and night. She paid more for a half acre and a 1100sqft shack than I have in 13 acres, house, shop, and nearly all my cars. She got a 30 year mortgage, I got a ten and paid it off two years early. She saw what I have, and what I am building, and she wants to crawl in my wallet again and leech more from me. At 49 years old, over 300lbs at 5'3 with a pill problem, and the bipolar... even without the fact she ruined my life and that of my kids, kept me in poverty for 15 years no matter how much I earned, and left me sleeping in my car while I was active duty from 2001 to 2004, there is NO DAMN WAY I would let her back in my life. So yeah, my kids talk to her, but they don't really like her. They know it was her that screwed them over and kept me from protecting them.
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  6.  @MelaniaRose  typical, blame men for the shortcomings and evil of females.
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