Comments by "Thump Er the Sweaty Fat Guy" (@SweatyFatGuy) on "Is 'The Red Pill' Helping Men?" video.

  1. Zuby, I am old and have traveled the world a bit. Met women in Europe, both ends of Asia, and Africa, all over the US as well. In 1990-92 I was engaged to a beautiful Arab woman, and I am a blue eyed 5'8 guy with German ancestry. Long story why we didn't marry, it was not left to us. She and I are still friends though. Its funny because she is the only one I met in a club, on my base in Germany. She was friends with the woman who was dating the guy across the hall from me. I found hundreds, while looking for one. Overseas they were much better than the US. You cannot trust them in the US, because they can change their mind at any time and trade you in for cash and prizes. Doesn't matter how quality you are her happen to be, she can do that on a whim. I did the thing. I did it the right way for a man, and it did not matter. Never cheated, never mistreated them, they had boundaries that were easy to stay within, and the second ex was definitely NOT pretty. I went with her because of who she was, not what she looked like... and 9 years in she did the same thing all the hot ones did. Now if I were a 6'+ guy with a few million in the bank, I might have had different experiences.... except for all the wives of tall men who hit on me, short muscle bound gorilla looking me. They give me pause. Women from islamic countries are top notch, I have to admit that. Europe is full of dregs, just like the US. Asia is full of wonderful people, and I have yet to meet someone from Africa I did not get along with. Its the culture, because women are all pretty much running the same base programming, just like men are pretty much wired the same. The wrapper changes a lot more than the behavior and things that attract them does. The culture in the west encourages and rewards women for acting poorly, unlike Asia and Africa. Its not the culture we had when I was born 54 years ago, its the one we have been fed since around 1985 or so. Our culture has been subverted, undermined, infiltrated and only remnants remain. Its the vapid, shallow, materialistic, disposable culture. The throw it away and get a new one mentality has permeated everything. Nobody wants to work at anything, they want instant gratification, and they want it all without effort or discipline. I see them as spoiled kids who were not told no enough when they were little. They are also dependents, relying on everything being brought to them in their cities, with no idea where it all comes from, or the work that goes into producing it. Women are rewarded and encouraged to be that way, men are punished and told they need to be like women. Its perverse. Being polite or friendly to a woman makes her see you as weak in the US, its twisted. If I had been able to marry my Arab friend 33 years ago, my life and most probably my views on this subject would be somewhat different. I would not know what happens to men who's wives decide they want to get his cash without having to live with him. Some things you have to experience yourself to understand and know them.. like combat, and divorce... particularly frivolous divorce, because she thinks she can do better at 30 than she did at 21. She can't, but she is told she can, and that she deserves everything she wants.
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  3. It DOESN'T MATTER if you are a good husband or not. Not even in the slightest, as it is not up to the man if he is going to stay married or not. He has no choice in the matter, also no choice to be in his kids lives, when the wife/mother decides she wants him gone.. for whatever reason. Why would I say that? Because my first marriage proved it to me. I had zero rights, only responsibilities. Not only was I a good husband, I was a VERY good father. Despite working 50 to 70 hours every week, I still spent as much time with my kids as I could. I taught them to crawl, walk, ride bikes, had them running a PC at 3 years old, taught them shapes, colors, and even how to read before they turned 4. I taught them math, and critical thinking skills, how to ask the right questions, and I was starting to teach them how to discern BS from reality when she took off with them. I never cheated on her, she cheated on me. I never harmed her, she cut, stabbed, and hit me with things. She lied about me in court and to everyone we knew. She started irrational fights and would escalate them until I had to defend myself or leave. In 2001 she took my kids and moved 1500 miles away, preventing me from seeing and protecting them, and providing the guidance only fathers can give children. The state assisted her in keeping me from my kids. They were all too happy to help her bring random guys into their lives so they could do abhorrent things to my daughters. I was punished for all of that, and had zero rights in family court. They had me sleeping in my car while on active duty in the US military because they only left me $100 a month to live on. They took 71% of my gross pay as child support, said I was unfit to be a parent because I was male and in the military. The fact she is bipolar and likes to hit the kids, and had bad people do bad things to them was irrelevant. The messed up part of all of this? MY STORY IS NOT UNIQUE. It is UBIQUITOUS. The numbers change somewhat, but the story is played out the same over and over millions of times. So yeah blame men for everything, and give women a pass who do the most abhorrent thing imaginable, keeping fathers from their kids and being unfaithful. You want to know why men are not dating anymore? Its because we cannot trust women, and we know if we start a relationship with them the state can indenture us to her. She is rewarded for abhorrent behavior at our expense. What man in his right mind would sign up for that? What is it now, 5.1 people out of 1000 are daft enough to get married... It is not you women who are opting out, you are all still chasing the same 5% of men, and blaming all of us for what they do. So to all the harpies and harridans out there who feel its their right and entitlement to everything a man has earned and will ever earned, but feels no compulsion to treat him right, I say.. ENJOY BOXED WINE AND CAT LAND.
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  7. no, red pill is about realizing the narrative you have been fed is erroneous at best. The original metaphor in the movie was about religion and the notion that government is there to benefit us rather than control us. As with anything going against the ramblings of Karl M, his followers will infiltrate and run anything off the rails that disagrees with their narrative. Is SOP and they have captured the media, education apparatus, and now government is almost entirely under their control. What Zuby and his guest are doing here is propping up the narrative that men are to blame, men are bad, and there is no fault with women at all. Be a better man they say... Two 6'+ guys with lots of money telling us to be better men, while neither of them has ever been divorced or married, has no kids, was never separated from those kids, and that means they have no freakin clue what they are talking about. They could be considered to be talking about themselves, the top 5% of men in the world with the most options when it comes to women. But the invisible 90% of men out there, yeah, these two have no clue what life is like for those guys. I am between those two groups, I managed to get with lots of women over the years, and I never mistreated one, but they sure liked to mistreat me. They could do so with impunity, the cops never cared what they did to me, only if I touched them while they were doing it. I am 5'8, with pale blue eyes, which means I got them interested, but then they always wanted someone taller with more money or whatever. I know what its like to be invisible to women, and I know what its like to be wanted by lots of women. Very few other men know what that is like, least of all Zuby and his friend.
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